O my girlfriends, hasn’t it been a difficult time? I am so sorry. We need a wonderful old Christmas song. ♥ We need to feed our souls.
I burn a candle; sit in the dark with the Christmas tree lights, and say prayers. I let tears fall, and count my blessings. Counting my blessings is 
what I do to honor those lost lives. Loving the sky, the trees, the air that God gave us. I bow to our humanity. I watched the news for as long as I could stand it. Then I did what feels right; I fought for my own child’s soul of innocence that still lives inside me; and turned the channel. Lincoln is playing at the movie theater in town, we are going today. Last night we watched Miracle on 34th Street and after that White Christmas; affording me more sofa sobbing. I made Cream of Rice this morning, with chopped apples and cinnamon . . . I painted a little thatched-roof cottage in England; Jack never stops climbing into my lap with his ball; Girl Kitty wraps her warm self around my legs as I sleep. I feel so very blessed, so very sad. I wish I could do more. But I won’t forget.
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable.
♥ Kahlil Gibran
“We are the sons and daughters of life’s longing for itself…”
I watched THIS, and cried, was reminded what a very beautiful world it is, filled with wonderful caring people.
It’s another day. How will you honor the life you have? Think small. ♥ XOXO
That was a beautiful tribute and such wise words you shared. Thank you. As a teacher myself for 30 plus years, its so hard to fathom why any of this ever happens. Thanks again. I’ll be praying some more today and next week with my students (I teach in a Catholic school and we can do that!)
Thank you for what you do Bridget. xoxo
Such sadness felt around the world. Thank you for these words Susan.
If I only had a magic wand.
…good morning dear Susan…yes, this tragedy weighs so heavy on our hearts…those children are with God in Heaven…I went to my daughter’s commencement yesterday her graduating with honors from nursing school..her little sister, also an R.N., “pinned her…I welled with pride…there is faith, hope, and love…one of the speakers had mentioned the Newtown tragedy and said he had spent time with the Dalai Lama and wondered what He would say…he thought he would say to explore our own spiritual journey more than ever and live it…didn’t Ghandi say to be the change we wish to see in this world ??? dear Susan and Joe….have a blessed Christmas season filled with faith, hope, and love !!!!
Love that Mary.
I too was a kindergarten teacher for many years, My heart is breaking for the families and friends. We used to sing a song in my classroom…
All night, all day, angels watching over me my Lord.
All night, all day, angels watching over me.
Thank you, Susan, for the lovely words and picture this morning.
Thank you Jan, that was beautiful. xoxo
Beautiful-I still sing that with my children
Thanks so much for that link… it puts everything into perspective. Makes me like people a bit more!
SO much more good in the world than bad! A jillion to one.
Friday I stood outside under the beautiful clear, cold, starry night and cried for those babies, for their families, for the world. This unspeakable tragedy is more than I can bear to watch on the news but my heart constantly prays for their families. Yes, Virginia there is a Santa Clause AND YES THERE IS STILL GOOD IN THIS WORLD. If we stop believing THAT…..where would we be?
Susan, your post was beautifully said, thank you…
Faith, Hope & Love to all…
~ Jamie
Thank you Jamie. xoxo
I have been thinking all weekend about what I will tell my first graders tomorrow for they will surely have questions and fears…I will tell them they are safe and then I will tell them how important it is to tell others how much you care about them…I will read Somebody Loves You Mr. Hatch. Then we will make hearts to give away to our friends telling them why we love them.
You are a wonderful teacher. I wish they never had to know such a thing exists.
You are wonderful and a beautiful example to your children
Becky, what a beautiful thing to do with your students.
Becky I will in Lockport Illinois too-my children are older, but it soothes my heart to know you will be guiding your students in such a positive way! God bless you!
Thank you for your beautiful words. It was what I needed to read this morning. Praying and honoring our lives is truly medicine for our heartbreak.
It’s the only “medicine” I know of that helps … I like that you called it that.
Thank you for expressing what I cannot. So enjoyed the link of “26 reasons”. I have often wished there was a TV channel that broadcast only good news; there would be no shortage of stories. Prayers for those who are suffering the unspeakable–
Nadine
“No shortage of stories” — you are so right!
Well said, Susan, well said
Dear Susan… thank you for this post… I cannot come up with any words to write… just prayers.
I had trouble too, no words are quite good enough.
My heart breaks for the families involved in Friday’s tragedy. I am counting my blessings and feeling thankful and hopeful. Like you said, there is so much more good in the world, than bad. Sending hugs…
To you too Rosinda. xoxo
~Good Morning~
What a touching and beautiful post. ~ I have a 6 year old granddaughter and could not hug her enough yesterday. ~ As a form of unity and support for the victims, people are asked to wear blue and gold (yellow) tomorrow. These are their school colors.~ I know I will~
~Counting my blessings~
Lynn
Thank you Susan.
Dear Girlfriends, I’m so glad that you’re out there with comforting thoughts at this very sad time. Someone on the news asked, “where was God, how could He let this happen?” The commentator went on to say how we’ve pushed God out of our lives, thinking that we were too sophisticated to believe, how crosses in public squares were no longer allowed, how teachers were not allowed to put Christmas trees in classrooms, while even religious words weren’t allowed in publications other than in churches. God will always be there for us, even when we doubt. He always has a plan, even when the devil appears to have taken over our lives. Our faith in HIM should not diminish, as we need HIM more than ever when tragedies overwhelm us. I’m a retired teacher & know how much I loved the children & families that shared this life’s journey with me. My heart goes out to the families of everyone involved in this horrible act. The teachers involved were true heroes. Thank God there are people of this calibre who want to be teachers & care for the children in their classroom with such love & dedication. Makes me proud to have been in the fellowship of teachers. Much love & comfort to all of us. Sandy from Chihuahua Flats.
You are so right Sondra. There people who use God to separate us. God is in our hearts. No one can “take Him out of Christmas.”
Sondra and Susan thank you both for your beautiful words. In times like these someone always asks, where is God. I always say He is with us and in us. He was with those babies and staff and brought them back home. For I am certain of this: “neither death nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nothing already in existence and nothing still to come, nor any power, nor the heights nor the depths, nor any created thing whatever, will be able to come between us and the love of God, known to us in Christ Jesus our Lord”. May you all have a blessed CHRISTmas!!!
Thank you, Sondra. I was going to post a comment but was reading the others first. The one most important hope for any of us is God and our salvation through Jesus…and you worded it perfectly. There is nothing that will bring us or those poor families hope and peace like drawing near God and to know how much He loves us. I have had horrific tradgies in my life and nothing brought me to peace but Him. May God bless you and Susan.
XOXO Carolyn
this world is a crazy world, good and bad , it has been heavy on my mind, the poor people that this happened too. I can’t imagine the pain… I squeese my six babies just a little harder today..
mmmmm Peggy. ♥
I have been numb and sad. I hate guns. I hate that so many lives were lost over access to automatic firing weapons coupled with mental illness that we do so little to address in this great country of ours. Babies and wonderful people are lost to madness. Thank-you for sharing Kahil’s message. It is indeed a beautiful tribute and words I needed to hear this morning. I want to stand behind those in Congress who are determined to make efforts that we don’t keep having this insanity take away those innocent people we love in our cities and towns. We owe them our determination to make this stop!
Something like 70% of NRA members want stricter common-sense gun laws … but the leaders of the NRA have such a stranglehold on our congresspeople, which is why nothing gets done. No one wants to take away a hunter’s gun, or a gun used for protection. Assault rifles, what are they for? Such a difficult subject because it’s somehow become “political” — but it shouldn’t be. It should just be moms and dads protecting children.
Why would a mother of a son she knew had mental issues have a semi-automatic rifle and numerous other lethal weapons and ammunition in her home (or in my opinion, in any home)? These are not toys!!!! Gun enthusiast my *****. This is not being a responsible parent or citizen and her irresponsible choices led to circumstances that have caused incredible loss of life. Let’s use some common sense!!!!!!!
So right. An assault rifle in any house. I don’t get it.
AMEN. Except for police/military why would anyone need an automatic weapon? It’s absolute madness.
i cannot understand why anyone would an assault weapon in their home??? makes no sense to. i can see owning a rifle or a handgun for protection, what possible use is an assault weapon to anyone but law enforcement or the military??? if the guy had mental issues my question would be is why didn’t his mother get him help????
There is no help. I know, I looked for some for a person I know. There’s nothing. Unless you have a LOT of money.
Unfortunately, even if she tried~ you cannot help someone who doesn’t want it.~ This time of year often will make persons at risk cross over to their dark side~ sorry don’t know a better word for it~
It is such a sad situation~All we can do is pray that something will be done this time. ~Enough innocents have died~ Let’s not let their deaths be in vain~
We had a situation in my city where ~due to budget cuts~ another fire station was to be closed. ~While they were discussing the budget, we had a tragic fire where 3 children died.~ Because the public went to meetings~wrote letters and raised their voices they found a way to keep it open.~ So in some way I feel their deaths were not in vain~ It is unfortunate that such a tragedy had to happen to open people’s eyes~ We need to speak out as a nation~
Joe Scarborough on TV this morning (MSNBC) made me cry — he said the most eloquent thing, it could have come right out of my heart. I was so proud of him. I think change is coming my girlfriends, I really do!!! Listen to THIS . . .
So true!!
Susan– thanks for Joe Scarborough’s comments this morning. We must stop the killing of innocent Americans in the name of second amendment gun rights!!! What sort of twisted logic are we going to continue in the face of such tragedy?? Joe says it all, in my opinion.
I won’t watch the tv coverage of that horror – I won’t give that evil person the time of day, I won’t read the news coverage, I don’t want to know his name, he is not worth it. I will embrace my children and hold them close, and I will focus on goodness and the meaning of Christmas. I don’t want to see the faces of those suffering and in misery. They deserve privacy and time to grieve without cameras in their faces. The more attention given only gives fire to the “next time” and someone trying to “one up” this one. We went to see The Hobbit and discussed going at Midnight, my daughter said “what if there is a shooter?” OMG has it come to that? that we have to worry about going to a movie, or worry about sending our children to school? It is inconceivable and impossible to fathom. We also watched White Christmas and Elf and drank tea and absorbed love and calm and fun! I have always told my children when you dwell on what is wrong, amazing you will always continue to find more, BUT when you begin to count your blessings, that list will NEVER end!
You shouldn’t have to worry, but it’s easy to do. What just happened is hideous, but it’s rare. I don’t want that sick person to “win” by scaring us away from a beautiful and free life. I love your feeling about privacy. Everyone I know has turned off the TV; I suppose that could make them stop!
The psychologist interviewed said that because so often these mass killers commit suicide at the scene, they are definitely not doing this act for attention……maybe prayers for his family and for his soul are in order as he had to have been pretty messed up mentally to do this……just a thought.
A lost soul.
This tragedy just emphasizes how fragile our lives are. You don’t know what tomorrow may bring. Be kind to those you love. Your words may be your last. Have patience. Know what’s important. Offer a smile to a stranger this holiday season. Hold a door open…offer to take a grocery cart back for someone. Help someone who’s struggling. Just be a good person. God bless us all.
Every word a pearl. xoxo
Susan, I agree with all the others. Thank you for putting into words what we couldn’t. Our hearts will ache for a long time, but our prayers can last a lifetime.
My daughter is not little anymore, she’s almost 17 but I went and hugged and hugged her anyway. 🙂 She herself wants to be a elementary school teacher and it touched her as well.
Those babies are in Heaven with Jesus…that we can be certain. And it’s glorious there. 🙂
Susan….I love the quote from Kahlil Gibran. It is so true that our children do not truly belong to us. I sobbed when I saw the news Friday afternoon. As a retired teacher it seemed to effect me so much, but one doesn’t have to be a teacher to feel the pain. I believe our whole nation is in mourning. This afternoon we are having our 3 grandchildren come to our house (they are just a hop, skip & jump down the road) to help us decorate the Christmas tree. We will have a fire in the fireplace and then their parents will join us for supper. Our grandchildren are our joy and we will hug them a little tighter as we remember those who can’t. Your site is always a comfort Susan. Sending love across the miles from Michigan. J.
A beautiful thought, your grandchildren “a hop, skip, and a jump” away … xoxo
Susan~your words are your magic wand.
My husband and I shed big fat tears for those little souls lost and the big souls who did their best to protect them. And now prayers must continue for their life in Heaven. May God Bless those families!
Susan and Girlfriends, how ironic I was reading the Cross Gardener (by Jason F. Wright) on Friday; it’s a treasure of a book…especially at times like this.
Bliss!
Marie xo
Susan, you gently offer us such good advice that I am taking it. I shall bake those Norwegian Custies after all. Many blessings today…
!:-)
A beautiful post Susan…well said. You have a way of putting to paper (internet) what our hearts are feeling and we just can’t express in words. I love how you lift us up and over the tragic things we unfortunately have to witness in this world. Even though our hearts are breaking, you remind us to press forward to be lights in this sometimes dark world. Thank you for helping to give us hope to carry on. My prayers go out to everyone suffering from this unthinkable tragedy.
Let our lights shine as brightly as possible — it’s the only good response to this darkness. They need us more than ever.
I really liked the poem–I don’t have children but I have often thought how people really don’t “own” their children like they sometimes act like they do. But your sentence above caught me: “Let our lights shine as brightly as possible”. For those of us who read the Bible, there is that verse, “I am the light of the world”. I think we often forget that. Maybe that could be our greatest mission in life? I truly believe that is the only way we can banish the darkness that tries to pervade the world today–by shining our lights into the darkness and lighting up the world! It is a way we can honor each of those lives lost in this senseless shooting…
We have been shielding our girls from the television and have been trying to answer their questions, sadness and fears which has been very, very heart-rending. Last night after they were in bed i turned on cnn and heard Robbie Parker speaking. His precious daughter, Emilie, had been senselessly and violently murdered in her first grade classroom and his familys’ response was to publicly thank everyone who has helped them, to pray for the other’s affected, including the murderers family. Also, to share how kind and loving their little girl was…always making cards for others to show her love and care. A beautiful and loving big sister and a joyful, loving presence in her world of family and friends. His call to all of us to help and care for others and to become more compassionate, humble and loving people in the wake of his devastation brought me to my knees. Robbie Parker’s response to this horror? Love.
Perfect. The normal natural true thing to do I believe. It was senseless because that killer was sick. Imagine his family! I would die if a relative of mine did such a thing. But anything can happen. The question for the future is, what can we do about it? I heard someone say that all high school children should be automatically tested for mental illness. Catch them before they become despondent loners that no one can reach.
I’m so glad to hear people talking about the need for help for the mentally ill! Sen. Joe Lieberman also talking about it!
The discussion really does need to include this vital topic.
I am so with you on this. I am going to try to write some letters to my Congressman. There has to be a way to find these people before it’s too late.
What about banning those violent video games where killing is seen as sport? The young men who commit these senseless acts have grown up with them. In my opinion they should be banned!!!!!!!
Today on Facebook, there was an amazing post by the mother of a young man with severe mental illness and very bright, sharing her very difficult story, and how inadequate resources are for her and her son and those in the same situation. Multitudes of people are asking themselves what they can do to make a difference and in the future prevent such tragedies. Each day, I try to do one thing. Sign one petition. Write one letter. Making the world a better place always begins in your own back yard; as Susan so aptly illustrates in many ways!
One proposal was to begin screening all high school students!
I heard that, and I don’t find fault with it. Considering all the other tests they go through, how to fit a triangle into a square, they should be able to handle one more. Catch them early before they become too isolated.
George and I turned on the tv last night, too, just in time to hear Mr. Parker’s statement. We wept together at the depth of his love and compassion while trying to cope with such heartache. He and his family refuse to let their lives be defined by this tragedy but instead are striving to live like their beautiful daughter did…always with an eagerness to learn, to be helpful, to be creative and giving. It’s so ironic that the father of one of the victims was reaching out and comforting us all with his words, isn’t it?
What a man.
When the Amish children were slain in our area, one of the first things the Amish in that community did was to reach out to the killer’s wife (they both lived nearby) and say they did not blame her. Then they forgave. That in itself is such a healing act.
God bless Mr. Parker! And how I pray for them!
Linda
Dear Susan,
You have such a sweet and tender heart! May we all keep a prayer on our lips and cherish God’s eternal love in our souls. We need to weep with those who weep; care for those who cry, and pray for those whose hope waivers.
By faith we take this terrible tragedy to the Lord, for we know those wee babes were born to Heaven on the Wings of Angels! We hereby pray and ask that each grieving parent may be blessed with the peace and the comfort of knowing that each precious child is now safe in the Arms of Jesus!
May God’s love mend each broken heart, dry every tear, and may His Word speedily bring every family to their sacred moment of healing. “Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.” Psalm 30:5
In the name of Jesus,
Bunny
Thank you, Bunny, for that beautiful prayer! I prayed it too!
Linda
Thank you for this post Susan. I am trying to find the light in the darkness, and I think I’m starting to see it…in the way these events have reminded us all to focus on love, and the preciousness of one another. I’d been asking Santa for a lot of things this year, and when I had recovered from the immediate shock of this awful news, I realized all I wish for deep down is to be an instrument of peace. I think that’ll be my only New Year’s resolution…and thank you for sharing the 26 moments of people showing me how to keep it.
Beautiful Cameron … thank you for that.
Thank you Susan for this beautiful post. So many reminders of what is right in our world. I still can’t wrap my mind around this horrific tragedy. I have cried many tears and said prayers for everyone. But I’m done watching the news, it does no good to keep reliving all the hurt. I need to move forward, not forgetting, but continuing to truly believe there is hope for the world. With love and peace from my heart. ♥
I am watching Roman Holiday right now, with Audrey Hepburn, on AMC channel. It’s such a beautiful movie. Thank you Marie. xo
Oh, it’s one of my favorites! Gregory Peck (sigh) and Audrey Hepburn. To this day, she’s the reason I wear those big sunglasses!
When she gets that haircut??? So cute!
You are so right, Susan and Marie. We cannot continue to relive all the hate. Someone once told me that God gives strength to those who are suffering-they are the ones who need it. But sometimes we take on too much of THEIR burden–that is not a good thing. We need to let go and use our strength to pray for them–not to become overwhelmed.
And for the sake of our children–they need to see that good overcomes evil.
So we move on–not uncaring–but our actions of daily life–our work, decorating for Christmas, cleaning the house, baking cookies– become a tribute to those who have died and to those who are hurting. Thank you, God, for another day. Thank you for a chance to make a difference.
Linda
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Loved that Linda!
Kahlil Gibran is one of my favorites! What an appropriate writing for us to read today – and everyday!
This is a marvelous blog today, Susan, and will help all of us as we deal with the scope of the tragedy in Newtown.
Blessings to you on this Sunday.
xo Nellie
Thank you, Susan, for your encouraging words with the Faith quote by Rabindranath Tagore. I’ve written my own post about the tragedy, if you feel it appropriate to share: cathy-anotherperfectday.blogspot.com/2012/12/our-children.html
Just two “small” words, Susan, thank you.
Susan,
Thank you so much for this. In a season of so much joy and hope, I have been struggling the last two days to the reconcile how this could happen yet again in our country. I also cannot watch the news for too long as the spectrum of emotions that I begin to feel is too intense-shock, grief, compassion, sympathy, and guilt for my blessings gives way to anger and outrage that this could have happened at all. Your thoughtful words helped me deal with all of these feelings this morning and so appreciate all that you said. I still have hope because of the reaction of world and people like you and all your followers and I still believe that we are better because of the selfless courage and heroic acts of so many. Thank you again for your thoughts.
We are sad, weary, angry, and confused…but we do have faith and hope in Jesus our Savior from sin…who came to earth on the first Christmas…and we look above for His 2nd coming…”He will keep us in perfect peace whose minds are kept in Him.” I’m sure even Jesus is sad about this tradgedy! It’s hard knowing we can’t help….all we can do is pray, pray, pray. God bless us everyone! You aren’t alone…God bless America.
You always have such comforting words, Susan. I keep seeing those empty little beds. It helps to read all the other “girlfriends” words also. Unfortunately, when they showed those little faces, it made it even worse for me. Think of how the parents feel. I know they are in a better place. And guess what? While I was reading your blog, Sunday morning showed a tribute to Beatrix Potter, who published Peter Rabbit 111 years ago. It made me smile. Thanks for always being there for all of us. A blessed season for you and Joe.
I’m so excited about the Beatrix Potter segment, even if I missed it!
Susan, thanks for printing the most comforting quotes. This tragedy horrifies us and makes us hold those we love a little closer. I take comfort in that adults were heroes in the situation for many children and that the school and school division had in place procedures for such a ghastly event.
I hope your feelings were soothed this morning by CBS Sunday morning … there was a segment on Beatrix Potter and her books.
Oh no, I just turned it on … been watching an old movie and I always watch Sunday Morning! I hope I didn’t miss it, but I bet I did!
I think you can go to cbs.com and watch it online…it was wonderful…
Going right now!
It was one of the Almanac features. 😉
Oh Susan, my heart breaks too, but I truly believe that their is so much more good in the world then bad. God, or whomever, was working through all of the teachers when this tragedy happened, and all of the first responders. And my husband and I did the same thing on Friday night…watching Christmas movies by the light of the tree, and baking cookies, and anything festive while getting weepy at times. We are not alone. We are all in this together and feeling the same. The important thing to remember is that Life IS Good despite all the scary things that happen. And it has just started snowing here in Western Mass. A good day for a walk in the woods.
All my best to you and yours, Kim
Send us some snow Kim! xoxo
Thank you Susan dear, and Gfs, for reminding us that there’s so many more good people in the world, than bad. And Susan, thank you for restoring our faith with beautiful quotes, music & lovely words. God Bless……♥
Beautifully said. I did as you did, I watched the tv until my heart said to turn it off. None of us can fix this, but finding spiritual guidance is what will help us and the parents of these children get through it.
Sweet Sue, So many good people meet right here. We have you to thank for that. Girlfriends. Amen.
Good morning, Susan. What a lovely reminder that there is still beauty and goodness in this world. Thank you for all you do.
Thank you so much for this beautiful post. I cried so many tears Friday, yesterday we did not turn the TV on all day, instead my prayers were sprinkled throughout the day for those who were lost as well as their families. No matter what, I do feel very blessed and will connect with our grandchildren close and far away today… Watch White Christmas, and remember the innocent times in our lives of long ago. Thank you for this much needed reminder of our faith.
Blessings,
Gert
Love you Gert. xoxo
You are saying, what I have been trying to say… We do what we do… Sending prayers or good wishes or good energy or whatever… For/to the grieving… And then, we keep-on-keepin-on…
In blogging, and in our own little sphere of influence… Spreading out Light and Warmth and Joy, to counteract the Darkness of Spirit, of our world.
Not, not, not, not, not letting the Darkness of Spirit, conquer us.
Gentle hugs,
“Auntie”
xoxo just right.
Thank you Susan for being a light in the darkness. ” Love is better than anger, hope is better than fear, optimism is better than despair. So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic and we will change the world. ” These words were written by a prominent Canadian, Jack Layton, a few days before his death from cancer. We must never give up hope. Bless you.
I get so much from all of you, look at YOU, how beautiful your thoughts are. Thank you!
Thanks Susan – such comforting words. I’ve cried so much in the past 24 hours – when I see the list of all those babies – it’s unbearable. I turned it off for awhile too. We watched “Elf” last night and laughed but I felt guilty for the enjoyment. Beyond the prayers and thankfulness for another blessed quiet ordinary day, I feel determined to do something! I think I will write my congressman – something I’ve never done before. Every little voice helps – right? Blessings to everyone 🙂
It helps so much! I am with you Anne. It always just “goes away” — no one every does anything.
Thank you Susan for the words of comfort. All of us who have friends and family who teach cannot imagine the horror experienced in that school on Friday. To all parents their worst nightmares. While law enforcement and educators continue to reassure us. . .there is now one more fear to confront and overcome.
I heard one person comment yesterday that we need to continue, each one of us, to practice kindness in our lives every day.
One small blessing this morning – the reminder that this is the 111th anniversary of Beatrix Potters first publication of her amazing little stories! I loved the clip from the Peter Rabbit ballet that they showed! Here is the link to the program cbsnews.com/sunday-morning/ The Potter story they did this morning doesn’t appear but there are other stories if your search on Beatrix Potter. Also a great “Behind the Scence” at Downton Abbey. Small delights.
A big hug to all this morning especially the children in our lives! 😉
Oh thank you Kerry, I saw it!
Thank You for sharing during this difficult time….
Thank you for reminding us of the “at least” 26 moments that good people did astounding things…I have been tearing up thinking about my daughter and daughter-in-law who teach fourth grade and kindergarten and about my grandchildren…I can’t wait to hug them at Christmas…I am thinking of the Mom who had her baby and two other small children wearing Santa hats and Salvation Army aprons while they rang bells yesterday at the local grocery store…there are more really good people in the world than bad…I will definitely be focusing on the good ones…
It’s a kazillion to one Rae Ann …. good to bad. Look at all the people who are caring so much and as one of our girlfriends said, with our “river of tears.”
Thank you for your words of sadness and reflection. As the mother of two treasured boys I am speechless at the horror. As a substitute teacher who works with first graders in so many different classrooms, I am brought to my knees at this terrible reality. I know there is so much more good in the world than bad, but how I wish we could protect all the innocents! I hope the prayers of our nation can help support the families who are suffering this unimaginable tragedy.
Good words, Susan.
Do you have time to pop over and take a look at my tree? I used your idea of the cut up drinking straw and pom poms.
God bless you, kind soul.
I have been praying for the families who’ve lost these beautiful children and I have also been sending up prayers of thankfulness to God for my own wonderful children and grandchildren. The poem you gave us is one that I intend to send to my children. They are parents themselves and I know it will mean a lot to them.
Faith in God and His constant presence in our lives is what sustains us all, especially in times of such sorrow.
Thank you so very much for your words and the vision I have of your sitting in the dark praying. I’ve done a lot of that myself, so it’s good to know you’ve been doing that too.
Love from Diane in North Carolina
Thank you for sharing the good people of this country……our broken hearts needed that.
Just what the doctor ordered…positive words for broken hearts. Thanks. I needed that.
It’s a dark, gloomy day here and I find myself just staring out the window, thinking of all those people who’s lives are forever changed by the action of a mad man. Since Friday I’ve found myself praying more and crying more over the senseless killings of such young babies. This is supposed to be the season of hope and joy, which makes it all the sadder. My husband and I spent last evening with family members at the Old Town School of Folk Music in Chicago for their annual Christmas sing along. Our tickets had been purchased way back in August, but the concert could not have come at a better time. It was so uplifting to be singing lovely carols with my fellow man – the Coventry Carol was especially hauntingly beautiful. It restored my faith in man. There are good wonderful people and they are all around us. As the song from Mame says, I needed a little Christmas, right that very minute and it sure helped restore my spirits. I’ve had my own health issues dealing with radiation / chemo treatments and this week the doctor gave me a clean bill of health. Tragedy, heartbreak and great news all in one week. I will be keeping Sandy and Sandy Hook victims in my prayers as I celebrate this beautiful season and remind myself how lucky I am.
Thank you for sharing Deb, I am so happy to hear of your good health news!!!
Deb, What a wonderful Christmas present for you! A clean bill of health! I am so happy for you.
Thank you, Deb, for sharing the news of your good health. Something to be thankful for! I am rejoicing with you!
Linda
Dear God,
May the community of Newtown feel themselves held up by angels here on earth. May they feel your presence as they walk this path not of their own choosing. May these 28 lives not be lost but may they be a catalyst for change.
May we all be bouyed up to be our better selves and reach out, hug, and give love. Amen.
Amen. xo
I can’t watch any of it. It is too painful. I just continue to pray for all those beautiful babies and all the families effected.
There is not much more that I can say that you and the girlfriends haven’t ready expressed in this beautiful blog. I almost turned on the TV this Sunday morning but turned on the computer instead and found this new post, and I’m so glad I did. “26” reasons to feel good about the human race gave me hope and brought tears to my eyes. The good and wonderful things people do for each other sometimes gets pushed aside in the news for the more sensational bad things. My heart and prayers go out to those poor people who lost loved ones in this tragedy.
Perfect….tender…heartfelt…so appreciated. Thank you, dear. xo
Susan,
So well said! I don’t know what else to say…but as being a teacher I can’t even imagine a thing like this happening in my classroom, and I would also do everything I can to make sure my kids, yes my kids because they all are, would be safe as well even if it would mean I’d get hurt, just like the teachers who lost their lives saving somebody elses.
We need to look at the good people out there and not the bad. The good deserve our energy, the bad don’t.
My thoughts and prayers are with the parents and families who have lost their child, niece, nephew or friend, especially this time of the year. I know Christmas will never be the same for them again.
Very moved by your words and images this morning, Susan, and by the girlfriends comments. Just a word of caution……so many of us think that God should be represented only by our Christian symbols and prayers. Many of the little ones killed were Jewish. We must remember to honor all peoples’ religions especially in public schools and in our public words. We never want to offend those in such grief and sadness.
I can’t help but think of Anne Frank who wrote, “Despite everything I think people are good at heart.” Thank you, Susan and girlfriends, for giving us so many reminders of that goodness. This horrible, unthinkable act was done by one very sick, deranged young man. We are already hearing about the many, many acts of loving kindness and goodness in thousands and probably millions of other folks.
Surely there are some answers in rapid fire gun laws and mental health assessment and services. We must all continue to honor these Conn. Angels by moving forward in those areas
I love having you all as friends. Your feelings and ideas give me comfort and joy…….I’m breaking into song……..as always, DonnaRay
Thank you, DonnaRay, for the reminder to be sensitive and respectful to all of God’s children, especially during times of heartbreak. Hanukkah was ending as other children were counting down the days to Christmas, as other children were concerned about Islamist relatives in Syria. At our house last night my granddaughter was showing me how to bake challah into the shape of a Star of David. The night before, my other granddaughter made Christmas presents for her teacher with me. God bless us every one.
How beautiful! We are all in this together!
~ God doesn’t care what you call Him ~just so you call Him~
There is not a day that goes by that I don’t say THANK YOU!
Me too~ Thank you for everything~especially the daily things that get taken for granted~ putting on my new glasses so I can see~ clean drinking water~ a warm shower~ dirty dishes in my sink~ which meant I ate today~ parking my car in a spot far from the door because I can walk~even if I creak a little ~I have my health~a warm bed at night and my dear family and friends~ I will never be able to say “Thank you ” enough Lord for all the blessings in my life! ~ When I’m starting to think about jumping into the Pity Pool I think of all these little things~ little to some maybe but not me~
~Gratefully~
Lynn
This was the perfect thing to read as I start my day. Thank you! I work in an Alternative High School and a lot of our kids are at risk. I look at their faces and try to understand their lives and offer compassion. To keep this kind of thing from happening. Will we ever know what brings a person to this!? Kit
I pray someday we will. xo
Thank you, Kit, for your work with high risk children. That is so important in helping to prevent this kind of tragedy from becoming an even more frequent happening.
Thank you! Our whole staff is commited to trying our best to help these teens. We were all hand picked, from me (head cook) to all our incredible teachers and administration. We are like one huge family. And we have graduated over 500 children. 🙂
So proud of you, please let them know how grateful we are. xox
Thank you Kit. In your opinion, how best can we as a nation help at-risk kids? Such a big question, but where to start?
Wonderful question Laura!
You should be very proud of yourself, Kit – being chosen. Decisions like that in a school district are made after very careful and thorough review & discussion. Keep up that wonderful attitude and outlook too – you may never how much of an influence you’re having/difference you’re making but I guarantee you ARE making one. Merry Christmas! :>)
Every morning I go to your blog first (I follow several), and this posting is why. In an ugly world, you put forth positive, beautiful thoughts and images. I turned off the news on Friday night and have decided to ignore it for now. Fiscal cliffs, political bickering and senseless bloodshed is still there, but I choose to dwell on the positive. Thank you for helping all of us do that.
My pleasure Melina. Love that you’re here.
I write this with the heaviest of hearts. I tossed around all night, just thinking of the parents who have endured this mind numbing horror. The thought of their little rooms at home. Clothes in the drier. Presents under the tree. And the siblings, the way their lives have been forever changed. If this isn’t our breaking point as a nation to demand stricter gun control and enforcement of those laws I am at a loss to imagine what it would take. Thank you Susan for your words of wisdom and comfort. As the Joy candle is lit on the Advent wreath today, I am going to pray that with Christ’s love and his Mother’s embrace, these families may one day know joy again.
Tawni Urrutia
Lovely tribute ! It is such a shock and soo sad that this happened ! I cant imagine what these families are going through . I can only pray that they find peace and my heart goes out to all of them !
We are angry and sad and sighing. Our schools all have little signs on them saying they are unarmed. Who are those signs for? Bad men, I think. Take down the signs…..at least. Thank you for the poignant words and pictures. I’ve not watched an inch of the coverage…..all I could bear was to hear that it happened, and to pray….
This tragedy puts things into perspective for my family. My thoughts before last Friday were “please just get me through Christmas and then we can resume our normal lives.” As much as I hate to admit it, I just wanted to hurry thrugh the holiday. After the shooting, I wanted to do more than just hug my children. I’m trying to get back my Christmas spirit. In awful cirsumstances like this, we need to do everything we can to band together and help those most affected. It reminds me of a qoute from A Christmas Carol, “the only time I know of, in the long calendar of the year, when men and women seem by one consent to open their shut-up hearts freely, and to think of people below them as if they really were fellow-passengers to the grave, and not another race of creatures bound on their journeys.”
Beautiful Shanon …
Yes, Sharon, thank you for sharing that wonderful quote!
Thank you, Susan. This is such a difficult time for everyone, but especially those of us who are close to young children. Your words are comforting and very much appreciated.
One of the signs shown in Newtown says “Our hearts are broken, our spirits are strong’. That speaks to all of us too I think!
Thank you for your beautiful and calming thoughts thoughts at this very tragic time. Looking to the good in life is so much better for all of us – than dwelling on the evil.
Thank you Susan for putting together quotes that comfort the soul and examples of human kindness that sooth our saddened hearts. I’m so glad I’m on your list of blog recipients. You are a treasure. Today I’ll be with my own grown children for our traditional cookie decorating party. So grateful to have them near me. Much love to you and Joe and the kitties.
I’m making it a point to be thankful for all I experience, and I’m thankful for you and all the cyberfriends out there. We all help each other thru rough days, even if we don’t realize it. Bless Sandy Hook and continue to comfort and heal them.
Oh Dear Susan,
Thank you so much for this post, I have been crying inside and out and praying for all of us. You have brought some comfort and joy back and given some perspective. I feel so helpless and want, so like you said, ” wave a magic wand”. We do have to have faith in mankind to choose love and kindness and always do the right thing. God is there and he knows our hearts, we need to take better care of one another in our society. Everyone doing their own part, every day ! As simple as “Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself”. We have so many blessings and we need to count them everyday. You Susan speak so gently to my soul and I Thank-you sooooooo Much !
WEll said, Susan. I run an elementary school library & read & deal with kids K -5th grade every day. To think that these kids could be gunned down by a totally non stable human being is completely unthinkable to me. I cannot imagine how these kids, parents & teachers can possibly return to this beautiful school in such a safe setting. I cannot imagine ever losing the kids (basically, an entire class) to such horrendous circumstances. A VERY sad time in our society.
I already see hope coming from this hideous tragedy. I feel it is coming. Please, make it come!
Tears and more tears, some of joy, while watching the link you gave us. It is wonderful and priceless and fills my heart with gladness. Thank you! I will share it with everyone I know, to help lift spirits and remind us to believe and hope in this very sad time.
Thank you – we all needed that.
I thought of you today as I was watching Sunday Morning…actually I think of you most Sunday mornings because I know you are watching. Today there was a lovely piece about Peter Rabbit and Beatrix Potter. I was saddened to think that the little angels taken from us on Friday will never again share in the joy of those stories.
Thank you Susan for reminding me of that beautiful quote from Kahlil Gibran and also the one from Gladys Taber
Hi Susan
Thank you for your thoughts and feelings and to the girlfriends for their thoughts about this latest tragedy, it is so sad and very hard to put into words. I agree with Nadine, young people unless nurtured seek ideas from television and films and they are more often than not just soaking up violence. I once read, I don’t know where, that there is a higher authority than authority, that authority is Love and we have to hold on to it. There is so much love in the world and I am grateful for that. Much love to you all.
On Friday when I heard the news I was so full of anger, there are minutes when I still feel that way. What has happened to society? Why is there so much violence? Then I started to think about all the good people in my life, people who live their lives caring about others and making this world a better place in their homes and out. It gives me hope for the future of us and our children, all of them. There are enough of us out here that can make a difference with prayer and respect for life. We won’t ever forget all those souls we have lost……these are the people we will remember in our prayers forever.
Susan–You are such a good writer! I have 11 grandchildren, ages 3 to 14, I too can’t stop crying, my heart is broken for all children and their parents. What has this world come to.
I’m so sorry Pamela, this breaks my heart to hear. xoxo Sending love.
Heartfelt thanks for your beautiful words today, Susan! I am newly retired, after 35 happy years in second grade. So, the news has been truly devastating and almost unbearable. Last night, when I reread Christmas from the Heart of the Home, I came across the Gladys Taber quote… just when I needed it most. You always bring us all so much comfort, joy, and lovingkindness… when we all need it most! It feels so right to be part of this amazing community of kindred spirits! Love to all! ♡♡
Thank you Susan…thank you!
Thank you for this post, Susan and for bringing some comfort our way with your beautiful words.
Thank you for putting in words and pictures our prayers and thoughts for the families of all invovled with the tragedy in CT. Very adequately stated.
Susan, you and the girlfriends might be interested in this website:
infinitegood.com/stories?story=4282 which focuses on inspiring experiences. The “26 . . .” moments reminded me of it. I had a hard time turning my mind off last night, kept trying to pray. I’ve heard a suggestion to pray for each family now that the names have been released. I also read that a bloggers young son asked to turn on the Christmas lights because all kids love lights and they will know we are thinking about them. So wise. Hugs and love.
BTW, just today I encouraged a young mother with a quote from your Girlfriends book: “Feed your life from the well of sweetness.” My favorite of all things you’ve ever said. She was so overwhelmed and decided to skip reading the news/opinions on social networks and focus on her 4 very young children, giving them a warm & happy Christmas.
Perfect. That’s what matters, and you are a guardian angel for her and for her four children — I think that’s how it works! xo
One time Joe and I were on the train, crossing the country from Boston to Los Angeles about a week before Christmas. It moved us so much to see that this country is connected, from sea to shining sea, by Christmas lights! From tall buildings in the cities, to neighborhoods that looked like Santa Claus Village, to downtown stores in small towns, even just one string of lights shining all alone on the porch of a tiny house in the middle of nowhere. So much hope in all of that, we just loved it. When we stopped in Chicago, Joe bought a string of lights for our room on the train. So when we passed through towns, and people saw our train, they would see the colored lights in one of the rooms go by . . . returning the favor.
I have always loved that little story how you decorated your train window to return the favor of the Christmas lights! Just think how many smiles must have been generated seeing the sleek dark train scooting through the night with the single window of colorful Christmas lights. What a thoughtful thing to do… :>)
Sometimes we just need Susan Branch.You know just the right words to say.Thank you for the link,it was a perfect thing to see at this time.We are so sad and heartbroken right now.You and your Joe,Jack,and Girl Kitty are such bright spots in this world,thank you,thank you,thank you!!!! xoxo Ruthie
Marianne Williamson today wrote on her Twitter: “The only way to end a culture of violence is to proactively create a culture of peace.”
I thought of that as I read your beautiful post and all the beautiful comments above. It’s not “doing nothing” (as some might say) to turn on the tree and watch “White Christmas” (which I did last night too – it’s a favorite!) or invite a neighbor in for tea and so on. It is about focusing on what is good, true, lovely, funny, sweet, peaceful and so on in this world. It’s about making sure our choices, decisions, behavior are all motivated by love and peace. It’s about creating beauty in our world, not ugliness.
I think when we bring more joy into the world we are being radical. I think the light can put out the darkness, but we have to keep focusing on the light. Thanks for being a place on the internet to focus on joy and the little things in life (which matter most) which (IMO) is our best hope to heal the world.
I’m always singing, we are the world, we are the children. We can make our world the way we want. I truly believe that. And for the first time, through the internet, we find each other, and know, that what we have in common is by far more important than our differences. xoxo Thank you Stephanie, that was beautiful!
I believe that too Susan – we can create the world the way we want – so true.
Beautiful thoughts, Stephanie! The little things bring the greatest joy!
Ditto what Stephanie said!
Beautifully stated, Stephanie. We focused on the beauty and peace in our home today. Tomorrow morning I will hug my own children a little tighter before sending them off to school and try to bring some of that “radical” joy to my kindergarten students.
Susan, thank you for this little spot of loveliness. The many touching comments are so comforting.
To me too ♥
I love the way you have stated Marianne Williamson’s call to create a culture of peace. Too many people feel wringing their hands in anxiety and calling for the use of violence to deal with violence is doing something. Yes, they are doing something, only it’s not on the side of good for good. And I agree having a place on the Internet where we can focus on Life as it is meant to be lived is wonderful. Thank you for your part and for Susan for being our rallying point–our forge-aheader in all things good! 🙂
Thank you for this inspiring post. It made me feel a little better this morning. I’ve been hugging my 17 year old girl several times a day. She’s getting a little tired of it but I don’t care, and she understands.
Seems there are no words right now. My cousin Kim, 49 years old, passed from a massive stroke at 10:30 Friday morning, also. So at least, the whole country is grieving with us. I just am so sad. But grateful to a loving and compassionate Father who did not let her lay there suffering. Kim never had to hear what happened to all those wonderful people. Perhaps they arrived at Heaven’s Gate just about the same time. God Bless All the Loving, Caring, Kind people out there that share my ideals that love and faith conquers all, in the end.
Oh my dear, this is terrible! I’m so sorry Bonnie!
So sorry for your loss, Bonnie.
Bonnie,
Please know you and your family will be in our prayers. It is so difficult to lose someone so young. May time bring you peace, but for now, feel hugs from everyone here.
Thank you Susan for such a beautiful post. I too watched the TV in shock but had to tell myself to turn it off. I feel guilty for having all of the blessings I have and can not imagine being in those Parent’s shoes. I have 3 daughters and just cherish them more than life itself! I decided to turn off the TV and my youngest daughter and I baked cookies while listening to Bing, Perry and Dean, then watched White Christmas and felt a little more comfort afterward. I have been praying all weekend for the survivors to find the strength to get through this awful time and pray for Peace this Holiday Season. GOD Bless you Susan with your kind heart and Bless all of you SB girlfriends!
I think this is what is meant by “grounding the children.” Wonderful relief for them xoxo and you!
Ah, I knew I’d find comfort from you and the girlfriends. Its too sad to wrap our minds around -its something only our hearts can deal with. I know that many children went to bed that night with more love, hugs, kisses and I- love- you’s than they did the night before. We just have to believe that things happen for a reason – no matter how painful or sad or senseless: we just have to hold on tight to one another and celebrate the little things, smile at strangers, give the damn parking spot to someone else, be charitable and forgiving. Love and hugs and blessings to you, dear friend, and to all my girlfriends. Keep safe. Celebrate LIFE!! We just were reminder how precious it is! xoxo
I truly believe this is going to change everything. It just has to. xoxo
Thank you, Susan. Thank you, every teacher.
Susan. Thank you and your readers for all their comments concerning this terrible tragedy. I taught children for over twenty five years, and learned so much from them. Every day was a gift for me to be with them. One of the best Christmas gifts’ I ever received was from a child who really couldn’t buy anything. It was a bar of soap, and I kept it to this day to remind me of the wonder of children. Sarah Malchoff.
Thank you so much for this beautiful post. I cried so many tears Friday, yesterday we did not turn the TV on all day, instead my prayers were sprinkled throughout the day for those who were lost as well as their families. No matter what, I do feel very blessed and will connect with our grandchildren close and far away today… Watch White Christmas, and remember the innocent times in our lives of long ago. Thank you for this much needed reminder of our faith.
Blessings,
Gert
Susan, this is a beautiful post, and we share the same feelings. I got lost in the glow of my Advent wreath candles and prayed, and cried some more. xo
I spent Friday afternoon with 23 children making gingerbread houses out of graham crackers. Our church hall was filled with happy children, moms and dads, bowls of brightly colored candies and gum drops, lots white icing, foil covered cardboard, “sweet” houses, fire stations, manger scenes, and barns. Seizing the moment to treasure our little ones and to make a memory for them. To say to the evil that wants to overtake the joy of the season, not here. We have wept and we continue to pray. Peace and comfort to all men is my grown-up Christmas wish.
My broken heart needed your post today. Thank you for your insightful words – I surely needed them. I’m off to my church now, to pray for those who were lost, their families and our country. xo, Nan
Thank you Susan….again, your kind heart reaches out to each of us. Today, it is the birthday of my youngest granddaughter. She is 8. I called her a little bit ago and said that I loved her very much and wished her a very Happy Birthday. She had a sleepover—- one child came. I think that because of the events of late, parents just wanted their children at home. She was very happy though. Her mom (my daughter) made her her eggs benedict for breakfast and her dad set up a Christmas movie for them with sleeping bags and popcorn.
Oh yes, you’re still lingering on the eggs benedict, right? Yes, I know. Grandma Moose (as I’m called) always made eggs benedict….the luscious kind dripping with real butter and meyer lemons. Yes, she is now ‘benedicted’ to them.
It’s also Rod’s father’s birthday….so in counting my blessings, I count these wonderful blessings, young and old….. and everything and everyone in the middle.
This morning…..when the sun was quite hidden by the clouds of the heavy sky, I am reminded of this: It’s there…..even if I can’t see the glowing orb in the sky. Like Faith….hold tight. It’s there….
Blessings to you and yours for a Sunday filled with life and love and hope and joy…..
xoxo
Joann
I do not see you as Grandma Moose! I’ve seen you and there is not the slightest bit of moose-like appearance on you!!! Thank you Joann! Best to your kidlets too.
Thank you for the tribute you posted. We must cherish each little moment. We had a joyful day yesterday with sons, sisters and brothers, nephews and nieces and their little ones, and our three little grandsons all coming to visit. I loved each hug and the time we had together.
Susan….thank you so much for this most inspirational message. Those of us who have worked in classrooms most of our lives (I taught 6-9 yr. olds at a Montessori school and our classrooms had 18-25 children), have always felt the awesome responsibility of nurturing and protecting these tender hearts. It is unimaginable that this could happen. Our hearts ache as we wrap our young Grandchildren in hugs and surround them with love.
Hugs and blessings to you Susan.
Thank you for your wonderful contributions Nettie! xoxo
My heart aches more and more each day over this….it is a parent and a teacher’s worst nightmare come true. Moving toward faith and light is indeed the only choice we have, while we weep…..thank you for your inspirational words, Susan
I did the same thing you did, Susan. I sat up late Friday night in the dark and prayed, then I found twenty six candles…large ones, small ones, tea lights, whatever I could find….and I lit them. Each one a prayer, each one representing a new angel. These last couple of days I have wrapped my daughters around me. We baked, we watched The Bishops Wife and Christmas In Connecticut, we went to see The Hobbit. We turned off the news and looked for the helpers in life, as Mr. Rogers said his mother taught him to do when bad things happen. We looked for the helpers, and in no time at all we saw them everywhere in our community! We are using this horrible event as a reminder to be gentle, to be kind, to reach out any way possible to those in need. And we laughed this weekend. For a moment I felt guilty for feeling joy, thinking of those families whose children were not at home, for whom the holidays will never EVER be the same again. But then I realized that every bit of joy we can feel…and share…is just that much more positive energy being put out into the world. And it’s needed. More then ever before, it’s needed. So that’s what we do, we look for the helpers, we share our joy, and we give our love. God Bless Us, Everyone!
Thank you, Susan, for your timely thoughts. So beautifully said and much needed in this horrible time of sorrow and grief. We must not get lost in the evil of what has happened, but rather focus on the goodness of humankind. Your words and thoughts bring us there. Thank you again.