Hello Everyone, yes, we’re still in England, but not for much longer! On our way home soon. 🏡 But ever since our election, I’ve had a hard time sleeping, I can’t turn off my brain, I wake up thinking about it, and go to sleep worrying about it. Finally I turn to the cure, I’m going to work it over in my mind by writing about it. It’s not that I have any secrets from you. I usually see my blog as a happy place, even as an escape from the negativity these days, where kindred spirits gather to talk about the little things that make life wonderful, things we all have in common. And, until recently, I always thought
And I have done it, risen above reality, quite easily throughout most of my life. When bad things happen, I go to the garden and pick a few flowers, make a cup of tea, get under my nap blanket with an old movie, and I feel better. I put away the disappointment I feel for the direction of the world and go knit my 89th scarf instead. I invite friends to dinner, light candles, pour wine, play beautiful MUSICA that fits my mood and forget. Even during 9-11, the worst, most intrusive example of man’s inhumanity to man, followed 
by all the other ones since, I could turn on Shirley Temple or Fred Astaire and slowly but surely, be healed. Maybe this made me a shallow person, but I didn’t see it that way. I saw it as a “take charge” of my life gesture, and it has always worked (except once, Sandy Hook 😥). But what has just happened to our country, I fear, is a 9-11 in very slow motion…no Shirley Temple movie is going to help. Where this election will take us, as a people, is still to be seen. And I have to talk about it. Please try to read this, because it comes from my heart. It’s not so much about the election, but more about us, and this angry world we live in.
See this photo, this room full of anything-but-angry Girlfriends? This and the photos below are the wonderful faces of some of the people that Joe and I had the privilege of meeting while crossing the country in the Fine Romance 
Van this last spring. I have no idea what political party they affiliate with, and I honestly don’t care. Because that’s only one small part of who a person is, and these people were so giving, kind, and filled with light . . . and we have so much in common! I would much rather concentrate on that . . . I could write a book about our commonalities! Oh yes, I forgot, I have! I’ve always known it from the wonderful letters I’ve received over the years, my whole life is based 
on it. We love our families and our best friends, we love nurturing them. We love to decorate our houses, make curtains and pillows, pick wildflowers for vases, because we all agree, home is where the heart is. We fold clothes, warm from the dryer, on the kitchen table (sometimes we wrap our kids or husbands up in them), we call each other to catch up, bake cookies and birthday cakes, feed our beloved pets, make Thanksgiving dinner, welcome family home with open arms, work hard, get the kids to school, put their drawings on the fridge, give to charity, mourn our lost loves, count our many blessings and are so grateful we have this amazing opportunity and gift to be able to do these little things that make life so very sweet.💞 We know how quickly everything can change and we are grateful for a normal day.
These days though, another thing we have in common, we worry. Mostly for our children and grandchildren in this changing world ~ we want them to hold on to the look in this little girl’s eyes for as long as possible, to grow up free as the wind, 
so tenderly careful never to touch butterfly wings, never experiencing war, sure that all things in our world are right and good. We want them to read books, embrace honesty, integrity, and ethics, have the very best education possible so the stars are the limit, honor family traditions, lay under trees, watch the leaves fall, dream, and 
feel perfectly free to reach for the moon and make this world a better place because I’ve never met a child who didn’t wish to do that. Every one of us wants our families to receive the best health care, and none of us want to see our parents grow old, destitute and alone. I don’t care which political party we’re from. Or even which country. Right? Isn’t that who we are as human beings, all of us? It’s what I believe.
Some of us are Catholic, some of us are Methodist, Jewish, or Muslim, and some of us have no religion at all, but that’s okay, because we respect freedom of religion as our forefathers, those we honor on Veterans Day, have fought so hard to preserve. We aren’t afraid of people that are different from us. We know their children will be bullied in school if we adults do not stand up for the rights of their parents. No child should ever be bullied because of some crazy adult thing. And common sense tells us, you can’t hold a person down without staying down there with him. And it’s our intention to rise and rise together. Right? One world, one people? Our grandmothers taught us that we’re going to disagree with people, but to be respectful, don’t throw our trash in other people’s yards, and remember that religion and politics are taboo subjects in mixed company and good manners means that sometimes we just keep our mouths shut.
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If A is success in life, then A equals X plus Y plus Z. Work is X; Y is play; and Z is keeping your mouth shut. 💛Albert Einstein
We might be Republicans or Democrats, but until the last few years, we’ve always believed we were on the same American team, trying to make a better country. We agree that we’d like to use our tax money to have safe bridges, clean water, good schools. Despite what we are told by a divisive media, we do want the same things, Yes we do, and are mostly just exactly alike. And that is true for peace-loving, garden-planting, women and men of all backgrounds, in all countries. Imagine waking up each morning not knowing if your child will make it home from school 
alive. Not knowing if men with machine guns will pop in the door of your little house with the one flower in the vase. Really imagine it, because it’s like that for some women in the world, women just exactly like the ones in these photos, people like us, who never stop dreaming of a better world. We are so lucky to live the way we do. To knit Christmas presents, make soup, take the kids to a movie. To go to tea parties wearing a new hat. All the joyful little things that make life so wonderful.
But our peace is under threat. We are being torn apart from within. I can tell you for 100% sure, no one in any of these photos hates America, whether she’s from Iowa, California, Arizona, Texas, Utah, Oklahoma, New York, or Wisconsin or all of the lovely places in-between. You know it, and I know it. Believing they do hurts our country. The people who tell us one part of the country is BETTER or WORSE than another, is a traitor to his country. His purpose is to rip us apart when he does that. It’s cruel and wrong, it has not a single American value in it, and if I was queen I would put these people in rehab (on a desert island). They do it for money. Look closely at those faces, we all love our country. We are good people, all of us. Anyone who tells you different is lying. That’s the first thing I wanted to clear up.
“Reporting is expensive, and making stuff up costs nothing.” 😜 BBC
But something has clearly changed when we elect a President of the United States who 
admits grabbing women by their private parts. I don’t care about one political thing, but that statement was a knife in my heart. That was the moment I said to myself, “Done.” Because it tells our young men that we condone this, it tells our daughters they are nothing. There is not one honorable thing in it, it is against everything I want the world to be. I would be very surprised if we didn’t all agree on this too no matter who we voted for. When I think of women in other countries who are buried in the dirt up to their necks and stoned to death for not following the local rules, and remember how hard we’ve fought for respect in this country, my heart bleeds and I cry very sad tears.
So what changed and when? Our country didn’t always suffer from so much divisiveness. Our media didn’t always take us to the lowest common denominator. I know, because I’ve been around a long time. When I was in high school, whether you were a Republican or a Democrat did not matter a bit. Most of us didn’t even know what we were. When did half of us become “the other” and the other half become “reviled?” How did this knife get driven into the heart of our country, dividing us like we are today? How did we all get so hurt, because both sides are very hurt by this. And, with all this glorifying of negativity, this shamelessness, how do we raise our children? How do we teach them? How do we take care of the sick and dying? How do we live and work together in peace?
How’d it happen? I think I know because I watched it unfold. Age is very good for this type of thing. It began for real in 1988. . . when radio and TV talk shows (on stations owned by huge political corporations) starting using fear, 
telling people that half of us were trying to undermine America by doing things like getting rid of Christmas (which is the MOST ridiculous thing I ever heard, no one ever wanted to do that, breaks my heart to think anyone would believe it), that our leaders, our media, were “not to be trusted” — that only THEY could be trusted. And guess what, fear worked! And radio talk proliferated, and moved to television. This kind of media, with their 24/7 brainwashing, was allowed because of a change in the law called the Fairness Doctrine in 1987. Turns out the people doing the talking were cheating on their wives, having affairs in bathroom stalls in airports, were addicted to 
drugs, yet the very things they would blame on “others.” They told us Obama wasn’t born in this country. They said he is a muslim (as a fear tactic). These days they are starting to call this Fake News. They’ve lied to us a thousand times, and yet, for some reason (due to a myriad of personal experiences) many of us believe them, and, slowly, over the years, we have allowed them to tear us in two. Because there wasn’t anything we could say. We couldn’t stop them, they gained strength and filled the airwaves with this stuff. Now it’s all over social media. Families are being torn apart, friendships are ending, violence is occurring. It’s not getting better, and no one knows what to think. Or, we think we do.
I used to imagine it didn’t matter who became president, because if I turned off the news, I couldn’t see how it made an actual difference to my life. Sun still came up, trash was picked up in same big trucks, street lights still worked. Then two things occurred. First, 
good paying jobs began going to other countries where people could work for a lot less. Our little towns were robbed of our small businesses, some look like ghost towns now, because they could not compete with large corporations such as Walmart who bought everything cheaply-made from foreign countries. (And, to be fair, we forgot to notice that we supported them by flocking to their stores.) In my art licensing business, in the years just after 2000, so many manufacturers closed, I was no longer able to license my products, the jammies, or the 
dishes, the way I used to…there was no one to make them anymore. All the money that used to go into the hands of small bookstores, publishers, editors, printers, authors, PR people, and agents, and most importantly, their families (who spent that money supporting other small businesses), now goes into the hands of just one person, Jeff Bezos, who owns Amazon. Yes, a billionaire is born every minute, to the exclusion of the rest of us. Everyone was affected by this mass abandonment by our government and big business who had gotten their successes on our backs. Our middle class was having the rug pulled out from under it. It was going away. ALL of us felt it! Then they had the nerve (and greed) to invent Black Friday and open stores on Thanksgiving (no, young ones, Black Friday is NOT an “American Tradition” despite that they tell us it is). There was a time when corporations felt a duty toward the country and the people that supported them. But no more. We’re losing our American way of life. We’re all in the same boat, together, the people on the coasts, the mid-west, the south, the coal miners, the manufacturing towns. And we put up with it. But we are mad. And media and the powers that be used our anger to divide us even further. It’s not US, it’s THEM.
Then in 2008, the banks walked away with all our money, they foreclosed on us and our neighbors who had done nothing more but applied for and were granted a loan from a bank, and walked away with retirements and pensions. Zip, too bad, gone. They were bailed out with OUR TAX MONEY (but not any for the foreclosed-upon), and the powers that be did absolutely NOTHING about it, news media did nothing, talk news ignored it. I have never 
been so upset with government in my life. Someone should have gone to jail. Someone should still go to jail. None of my friends got through it unscathed. It’s become much harder for everyone to make ends meet. It’s not just you. It’s not just your imagination. We are all worried sick about what will happen to us when we get too old to work, or if we get really sick. Most of us, including me, now work for nothing most of the time, and 
steal money from the retirement funds we’ve managed to put by, to make ends meet, still trying our best, adapting, the only way we know how. New graduates from colleges and universities are hurting, young people saddled with massive debt that the government gets interest on (btw, university in France and other countries is free, we could most definitely have that too, if it wasn’t for the large faction of our legislators that are trying to convince us now that we don’t need a Department of Education in this country) and these kid’s lives have a hopelessness to them that we never felt. These are our children, and words such as “Liberal” or “Conservative,” used as poison darts have NOTHING to do with it. Some things should not be politicized. They have undermined our beautiful American middle class. There is plenty of money in this country, it’s OUR money, and our government officials, corporations and media are using it to enrich themselves, through changes in laws, tax codes, and sadly, war. It’s our money, it should be used to make America better.
I hope I haven’t lost any of you. I want more than anything to figure a way to bring us together. I speak right out of a broken heart. There is common ground in every single subject and we are so sensible, and so like minded, kindred spirits can always, always find a way. 💙 But not unless we can see the truth that we are being used, divided, and conquered. 
Who’s in charge, who are the powers that be, who are the ruling class in this country? It’s not just the President, or congress, it’s the guys behind the scene, it’s the CEO of Walmart 
and every large corporation in America, the heads of CNN, CBS, FOX, oil companies and insurance companies, drug companies, chemical companies, bankers, and all their lobbyists that work behind the scenes making sure the laws are written to make them richer and happier. It’s the media and talk radio that have realized that they become richer and more powerful by separating us. And they are willing to say 
anything to do it. They tell us they are the “true news,” the only believable ones, and they use fear, the cruelest of all, that Isis (or whatever the fear is because they make up tons of them) is coming into YOUR town to GET YOU, and that they are the only ones that can save us. They tell us that people (the other, who just might be your family member or your next door neighbor) who disagree with them are Godless, or hicks, or racist, violent, or anything they want and tell stories to back it up. Problem is, it’s legal to say 
anything in this country. You can go in, make a fake newspaper, put a fake article in it, put it on your website, all fake and newspapery-like and say it’s true. And it’s really hard to tell the difference between fake and real these days. And some websites are so inflammatory, using despicable language, frightening everyone into fearful action, when what is needed is slow, thoughtful contemplation based on truth and fact. We don’t trust anything anymore. Friends and families are being torn apart by these lies, and our country is being torn asunder from within. Our beautiful country. I know this is strong, but I don’t care, I call this treason.
Imagine a town meeting: I’m sure many of you have attended them, so you recognize the process: the town identifies a need, a water system or stop sign at the corner of Park and Main, something. So they hash it over in the most boring way possible, what’s the best way to get what they need, how do they find the money for it, etc…and then, the town votes, and they SOLVE the problem between them, and the water system gets updated, the stop sign gets put in, and the town is better.👏
Your national government should work exactly the same. But if half the people refuse to deal with the other half, nothing gets done, your air turns dirty, your water becomes poisoned, your health care is taken away, your education system gets dismantled, your bridges fall down, regulation goes away so big business doesn’t have to tell you what additives they put in your food or how much lead is in your water. And who benefits from all that? Because definitely someone does, and it isn’t us.
We have to work together. Because there is a way to bring America back together, but not with all this name calling and fake news. And saying it’s okay because the other guy did it first, doesn’t help. The buck must stop with each of us. Turn off the radio. 
Just say no. Don’t believe everything you hear. If there is an issue, follow it through to see who is benefiting from the divisions it causes. A very good place for that is C-Span, it’s a little boring because it sticks to facts, but it lets you see all sides of issues and decide for yourself. It doesn’t lie. Your presence in your government doesn’t end with your vote for president. Watch your congress. Watch them like hawks. Don’t let anyone TELL you what they do, see it for yourself. Many of them (not all!!!) are selling us out. Doing NOTHING for the people, giving all our tax dollars to the lobbyists for the large corps. We are alike, we are Americans, we sink or swim together, and what we provide for our fellow citizens through laws we all work to make together, in jobs, healthcare, affordable housing, clean water, the best education, internet and hospitals for small towns not only brings up our country, it brings up our children, and it brings up the world.
We are being kept apart by an evil force that we need to join together to fight. Please, 
believe in each other, please don’t believe in these voices using us for, when it comes right down to it, money. They take our tax money and give it to each other, while we are fighting about stupid things, they manage not to spend it on the things we want, those schools, those roads, a VA that works for our lost and suffering veterans . . . they ignore us completely, pay lip service, and all the money, OUR money, goes to wars that we don’t want or ask for, to make up for the taxes that corporations don’t pay. And at this point in time the 
ruling class, media, government and corporations are in cahoots against we the people.
Not to throw out the baby with the bath water, because there are several wonderful politicians/people who are in it for all the right reasons. Of course these good ones are first to be demonized by the media. A politician that they can’t control is a bad one as far as they are concerned and has to go. If one of them chooses to vote for gun control, the NRA does everything in its considerable power to unseat that person no matter what his or her other achievements 
have been. The NRA, therefore, runs our country, not us. (And don’t go crazy here, nobody and I mean nobody, wants to take away everyone’s guns, that’s another lie, but who needs machine guns in the hands of crazy people or children? Lovely to be in England where people don’t have guns, and go to the movies, and be perfectly sure that no one will begin to mow everyone down.) And yes, politicians with that kind of bravery, who put their jobs on the line for doing the right thing, are few and far between. We should find the good ones, check backgrounds, find out what they’ve stood for, and bring them forward. It’s not what they SAY, it’s what they DO. But if our elected officials divide us, refuse to work on behalf of the country we love, we should vote them out of office.
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Americans are WONDERFUL friendly, hard working, generous, creative people. Don’t believe ANYONE who tells you differently. Our country does not have to be made great again, it is already the greatest country on earth. This bit about some of our United States being filled with “hicks” and some filled with “elites” makes me sick, they are doing this to separate us and we are letting them.
We have to outsmart them. If the media outlet you’re listening to tells you your neighbor thinks you are stupid, laugh in their face and say, “You must think I’m stupid if you think I believe that malarky.” 
If they tell you, “They don’t think like you,” “or those people are baby killers,” or “Christianity is under attack,” be aware that these are total and complete lies, they make it all up because our laws say they can and no one can stop them. If they blame Mexicans, Jews, African Americans, Iranians, Muslims, whoever, it’s because they want to separate us. Remember, Timothy McVeigh who blew up the Murrah building in Oklahoma City was a white Christian American. Terrorists come in all colors and from all countries. You and your neighbor are in the exact same boat, and the powers that be want to OWN the boat and will SINK it if they have to. Government has limits. It’s not supposed to be in charge of religion (they honestly don’t care about it, they use it to divide), it’s supposed to be in charge of roads.
Trump was appealing because he sounds like change, and at least he spoke to our total national frustration with the ruling class that shipped our jobs off-shore (even though he manufactures all his products in China), and let the banks walk away with our national treasure, foreclosing on people (hardworking citizens of this country) to whom they had approved loans because they thought they could get away with it (then blaming it on them), and the truth is WE ALL FEEL THAT WAY, no matter WHO we voted for. We all feel the need for change. But, unfortunately, electing this divisive man, a billionaire who told us that if he lost, the election would have been rigged, thereby inviting violence between the American People, for whom he was purporting to work, was not the answer. It is the saddest day America has ever seen. It’s the loss of presidential nobility, honor, honesty, integrity, truth, justice and the American way I lament. 😥 I know some of you disagree with me, and you have every right to do that, and write about it on your own blogs. But you can’t disagree with some of the things he has said and done. I see the election of Trump as the culmination of massive amounts of misinformation coupled with total frustration at the system. Everyone has a right to vote they way they see fit. Remember, I’m still here in England. I JUST basically woke up to this, and I’m torn apart. What has happened to us? There has to be more to this than meets the eye, this wall building that Mexico’s going to pay for, this “Lock Her Up” rhetoric, I don’t believe he will do these things. It will unfold. If Trump puts people in his cabinet that are on the side of We the people, I will be thrilled and happy. But if it ends up as all deal-maker conmen billionaires, heads of corporations that have been running this country for years anyway, I will be heartbroken even further than I am now. 
Yes, we desperately needed change and Hillary should have said, “I will jail the people that stole our national treasure, I will stop us from subsidizing corporations for taking our jobs overseas (that money will go to rebuild our infrastructure and fix health care), and I will raise taxes on corporations. I will work for the people.” Obama, instead of trying to “make nice” when he got into office, should 
have had opened a huge investigation into the banks. Banks should have been broken up. Drug makers should go to jail for overcharging us. Insurance companies should be prosecuted for not being there when we need them. But he wanted to soften the rhetoric between the parties, so instead he went to work saving the auto industry … he tried to be a healer, but the congress had vowed not to work with him, and in the end, he missed the boat. Hillary is also more of a hawk than I would personally like. She voted for that ruinous war we were lied into. But at least I know her as an honorable person. Despite the fake stories, she is not a murderer, she has worked hard all her life to make a better world. At least she tried to talk about roads and schools and children’s health. And, sadly, the powers that be (which even includes foreign governments like Putin) would rather see a man in office, no matter how inappropriate he might be, than any woman. Tons of manipulation went into that. (And now Melania Trump is in the crosshairs. She’s not evil either, and neither is Michelle Obama.)
But our country was so upset, we needed change so badly, we’ve been lied to and manipulated so much in this post-truth world, we forgot our core values as defender 
against tyranny, champion of the little guy, equality and justice for all. If you see an article beginning with, “Sources have told us . . . that so and so is sick, dying, meeting with the KKK, in a rage, falling apart . . . whatever . . . be suspicious. What sources? Never forget, they can say anything. The unvarnished truth is the only way we can make a better world. We need to know. There was a huge discussion on BBC here yesterday about false information coming from Facebook. We can’t let the forces of evil take over the world. We need new foot soldiers to join in the fight against the misinformation they are using to control us. If you think it’s all one side or the other, you are wrong.
We grew up in our lovely middle class world believing in the American Dream, and this includes Hillary Clinton, who is my age and remembers it the way it was, is a good mom and a hard worker, and since I’ve been around long enough to watch it unfold, I have to tell you, she is the most investigated person in the history of this country. It’s been almost constant since I first heard her name. Looking back, ever since Rush Limbaugh began calling her a femi-nazi in the early 90s (because she wanted to help fix health care and the powers that be didn’t want that, because it would change the status quo, i.e. their pocketbooks, follow the money Insurance and drug companies), she has been demonized. I don’t know how she’s stood it. She’s a brave person, and in my opinion, she stood it for us. Despite our congress spending millions of dollars of OUR tax money on the best and the brightest lawyers hired to prove something against her (should have spent it on reopening the mental health facilities in this country that were closed in 1982), she has never been charged … not with the murder they said she committed, nor any of the “crimes” they say she did. Because accusing someone of something is perfectly legal ~ totally reprehensible, without integrity or honor, but legal, and lucrative. And if you put them through hell and find out they did nothing, too bad for them. If she was guilty of something, she would be in jail. Obviously the system, despite Trump’s lie, is not “fixed” — or, for example, Donald Trump would not be president. He was willing to say that, to shout LOCK HER UP, to incite violence (because he never had any intention of locking her up, he knew she’d never been charged with anything), even to bring this country to civil war, in order to win. Donald Trump, supposed outsider, was not the answer. He is the ruling class (and so is Hillary, btw). Before he 
ran for president, he was a pro-choice, bonafide card-carrying Democrat who invited Hillary to his wedding in order to court her for whatever he wanted voted for, now he says he’s a Republican and he’s vowed to lower corporation taxes from 35% to 15%. But we have no idea, none of us really know what he will do; he will say anything because what he really is is an opportunist. He’s the art of the deal. He would have done anything to win, and he did. Now we are going to have a government run by his children. Please God. Common sense tells us this is not good. Yes, we needed a shake up. But the damage that can be done in four years can actually never be undone. We can never take back the Iraq and Afghanistan wars, the costs associated that we paid for, we can never bring all those soldiers back to life, we can never take back what the banks were allowed to do to us. And if it’s bad for us, you can only imagine how hard it is on people of color.
One thing I know for sure, the enemy is not your neighbor. Look at the faces in these photos and ask yourself, who benefits from reduction of corporate taxes, reduction of 
death taxes, and who profits from war? Because people do, and those people aren’t us. Who benefits when there is no regulation or weak regulations on car safety or safety of our food or water so they can make it cheaper, faster, using slave labor? Who profits when they advertise disgusting drugs on TV that none of us ever heard of? Who benefits if the legislative process is stymied? Do you think that oil companies want us to believe in global warming? Heck, no. Standard Oil started calling it a hoax 40 years ago. Kids gun down their classmates with AK47’s and we’re scared when we’re told that “libs” want to take away our first amendment rights, who benefits from that 
lie? Us, our kids, or gun manufacturers? Who benefits when we fight each other over gun control or Obama Care? Everything is fixed to benefit them, not us, and in this, Trump was right: the system IS rigged against us, but not the way he says it is. When we fight, they get away with it. It’s our NOT ALLOWING them to divide us that can save us. Can we do it? I don’t know. We’re in 
so deep. The yelling on Twitter breaks my heart, moms screaming at other moms. And the powers that be are loving every moment of it. I mean, how better to sell a newspaper than the screaming headline VIOLENCE ENSUES OVER ELECTION. And some media outlets say the violence is coming from the right, and some say it’s coming from the left, and the only thing we know for sure, when they do this, they win and we lose. We’re being used. They would rather we don’t vote at all actually, they make it harder and harder for us to do so, and when media made both candidates seem so unpalatable, when they decided issues didn’t matter, many people stayed home and didn’t vote at all!!!! Perfect. Just the way they like it.
See this photo? This is a room full of Girlfriends who have EVERYTHING in common. We can be mad, but not at each other, let’s be 
mad at them! Some of you may like what I’ve written here, some of you may see it as political, some of you may wonder why I didn’t write it before the election. Now I wish I had. If my dad was still alive he would have made me, but, sadly, I no longer have his sage advice. I’m on my own. Although I’ve paid close attention to politics over the years, I’ve never been a political person, I’ve believed that goodness would always just automatically win. I have a vision of a strong, inclusive America. Some of you might agree with me that our divisions are not real, but are caused by influences from within, from the powers that be who have everything to gain by keeping us separate and off message, if you do, pass this blog around, because we need all the help we can get. Some of you might decide I’m the enemy and never come to my blog again. So be it. Let the chips fall where they may. Many tears have been shed over the choice of best words here, maybe I didn’t do it perfectly, but please, never doubt one thing, my sincerity for the outcome: Us. Together. Forever. One country, one world.🌎
He drew a circle that kept me out, heretic rebel a thing to flout, but love and I had the wit to win, we drew a circle that took him in. 💖
I’ve said my piece. Now back to our regularly scheduled programming.
We’re on our way home! We leave England on Saturday, via the Queen Mary 2, back to America across the deep blue sea. It’s been wonderful beyond words and I wrote it all down in my diary.✍🏼 And don’t worry, my blog will come back in its same old homemaking celebratory way because that’s my heart and it’s almost Christmas🎄, and despite everything, I was born with the happy gene and I know I’ll come out of this. I could probably go on all day, but I believe I have entertained you long enough.💞
F. Scott Fitzgerald said it best……“Possibly it had occurred to him that the colossal significance of that green light had now vanished forever. Compared to the great distance that had separated him from Daisy it had seemed very near to her, almost touching her. It had seemed as close as a star to the moon. Now it was again a green light on a dock. His count of enchanted objects had diminished by one.”
Yesterday I wanted to get my opinion across. Today I am just sad that the magical and sweet world you worked so hard to endear to us… with Jack and your Beatrice Potter window, the three books I bought, the sugary sweet calendars, the musica… none of it was important enough to you to think that you might be hurting the feelings of at least half of your loyal followers. You wanted to express your liberal opinions and your sadness… Of course you are entitled to do that (as a person), but your distaste for opposition clearly shows through your responses to those who disagree…
Congratulations. My count of magical people who are thoughtful enough to protect what they created (and charged money for) is definitely diminished. You don’t need to blame the media for that, Susan. You did it with your own fingers…
Because of the dividers, you are saying that because I voted for Hillary, and didn’t care for Trump, nothing I have ever done in my life matters anymore. That simply can’t be. I am not mad at you for voting for Trump. But the dividers make me “the other” and it isn’t so, I still have much more in common with you than not. MUCH more. My work is my work, my heart is my heart, and I have to go with them. I’m a whole person not some sort of robotron. I work for free 90% of the time. In case you haven’t noticed. Not that I have to stick up for myself. But your words do hurt. And I know you don’t mean them if you really think about it. You like me and I like you. I don’t care who you voted for.
Gayla…is YOUR distaste for opposition not clearly showing in this harsh response? Whatever Susan was to you on Wednesday, she still is today…she still loves the same things – cats, dishes, England, AMERICA, music, art….girlfriends! The way someone votes is not reason to show this level of vitriol…you may be surprised if you knew how some of those around you voted. The joys of a secret ballot!
Aah, Rachel,, well said!!! LUV you. Xoxo
Gayla—double standard here===I went to YOUR blog and you boasted about voting for Trump (which I voted for also) —did you worry about offending your blog followers?
Linda. I do not know you. I have no idea what you are talking about. I did not once mention who I voted for on my blog. I think you need to calm down. You must have looked somewhere else. I posted cat pictures on election day, and I said I hoped the “good guys” (plural) win with the intent that “guys” was just slang for people. In addition, thanks. You probably are about the tenth person to even see my blog! ha ha… It doesn’t have followers much, but I love the ones who do…..
Dear Susan – Thank you for showing us that part of you, and for seemingly looking into this girlfriend’s mind and putting her own feelings into your words. I am with you all the way. I have not seen nor heard it said better than you just did, and I have never respected you more. Thank you.
So nice, I’m really trying … sometimes I wonder, but it’s in my heart and just wants out. I love us all.
Susan, thank you for being YOU! Sunday, November 13th was Kindness Day! I am proud to say my granddaughters, ages 10 and 9 participated in the Dance for Kindness Movement. I am proud that my son and daughter in law are teaching them to show kindness to others. That is what we need to continue to do “Be KIND to one nother”. I love this country and I know it is the greatest country in the world. Let us all be UNITED in this United States of America. God Bless you and God bless our country.
United doesn’t mean we have to agree, it means we don’t hate someone who thinks differently.
Reading some of these comments made me really sad. I guess the internet allows people to anonymously spread hate, and it is very unfortunate. Regardless of our political beliefs, we should all practice kindness.
And girlfriends can always find common ground…in tea, and kittens, and fresh herbs, and bubble baths, and laughter…and friendship. Let’s all remember the simple, special, beautiful things that unite us, when there is so much division. Your ability to recognize that beauty inspires me, Susan.
(PS. I have been reading Isle of Dreams, and I just love Holly Oak, and your kitties, and Ellie!)
Thank you Sarah!
Hello Susan & “Happy Thanksgiving” to you & Joe.
Since you have been in England, were you able to vote? Every vote counts, & I pray that everyone who wanted to vote for Hillary were able to get to the polls to cast their vote! Mrs. Clinton DID win the popular vote & we should all be proud of that.
I too have a sad heart, but they say there are reasons for everything.
Safe travels HOME. . . it’s where the HEART is no matter what!
Peace,
Rose Ann
Yes, we had our ballots sent over to our friend’s house, and they were here when we got here. So yes, we got to vote!
Wow, Susan… wow. I am surprised you took this on in your blog (and it is your blog, so you can). Thank you. I’m with you on this. And I’m from the Midwest, born and raised, and still living here in small-town America. Grew up with mining all around us, now long gone. I appreciate what you are saying, even though some, in the comments, disagree. I have been so saddened by this entire election. Safe travels to you and Joe as you return home. Wishing all a Happy Thanksgiving. Looking forward to your next post, Susan (and an update on dear Jack).
Forgot to add the lyrics:
I’ve seen brighter,
I’ve known brighter days
Lying alone in the shade of a Manzanita;
It’s been sweeter,
Bitter sweeter days.
I know it’s not for always,
But all I can say is
I’ve seen better days.
Is summer gone?
Has it been that long?
I guess that’s what seasons will bring.
I’m caught again in the autumn wind,
But I remember spring.
For I’ve seen brighter days,
Seen lighter places to stay
Along my way.
Oh, I’ve seen brighter days
(Scat interlude)
I’ve seen warmer, soft and warmer nights
lying with love by my side in the sycamores
There’ve been finer, yeah.
I’ve seen mighty finer nights
Knowing what’s wrong or what’s right
Just don’t matter when you’re in warmer nights.
But here I am like a sea blown wind
Under my thunder and rain
I’ll ride the waves till a sunny day
Comes to me again
For I’ve seen brighter days,
Seen lighter places to stay
Along my way.
Oh, I’ve seen brighter days.
Praying for more to come.
Thank you Susan for speaking from your heart, (which you have every right to do anywhere and everywhere and especially on your own blog.) Your message was so important, and needed to be said.
I hope all the negative comments will not spoil your wonderful trip. I’m sure you have many happy memories to take home with you.
Wishing you and Joe a safe journey home (and Petey too!)
Bet you can’t wait to be home again and see that adorable Jack’s face waiting for you.
Much love Susan!!
No, they don’t spoil anything. I know even these commenters are good people, just under the influence of dividers. But maybe they’ll walk away with just a small glimmer of the light I am trying so hard to shine. Thank you Lisa!
Thank you so much for stating my feelings so eloquently. Long before the election ended I was trying to make people see thru all the smoke screens and slight of hands and to seek the truth!! My grandfather always told me not to always believe everything I read because a piece of paper will lay there and let you write whatever you want on it and there are many people who will say one thing but do another. BEWARE!!! Your blog is one of my warm spits in my life so keep on keeping on!!!
Beware, we are being used.
Oh dear Susan . . . thank you for your bravery and love. You have given me so much to think and pray about! You have put into words what I feel deep in my soul, but have been unable to express. We truly are all One… ♥
We are, we have everything in common. We do, we all want what is best for the our country and the world, if we could just sit and talk it out and find common ground because there is no doubt in my mind that there is common ground in every contentious challenge we face. From there anything can happen.
I appreciate your heartfelt post. Thank you for sharing so thoughtfully. I am so saddened and disappointed by the negative comments. Girlfriends (and Americans) are better than that. Agreeing to disagree without judgement and vitriol is what true diversity is all about. I have missed you so. Travel home safely. It will be a treat to have you post more often.
Hugs,
Lissa Rogers
Absolutely agree, we are in it together.
Pray pray pray! Do what you can, where you are, and pray about the rest. I am truly not trying to over simplify things, but we all have to start in our own towns, small and large. It helps to take a fast from national news (you may want to keep up with what’s happening on the local square ☺️), Facebook (nothing but a techno tabloid), all talk shows – oh heck, ALL t.v, put your phone on airplane mode, and have some ice cream. Just do what you can, take deep breaths, and sit down and reread your latest Susan Branch book. Wish we had a magic wand, but we don’t. Susan, enjoy every second of your trip home. There’s a precious furbaby waiting for you just a short way from where the ferry docks. ❤️ Love to all of you, no matter who you voted for!
XOXO Love you all, no matter who you voted for!!!
OMG Sue! Well written. I haven’t had time to read all the posts here but I wanted to post this to say that I believe we can make a better world and the naysayers will be silenced someday…through love not hate.
Just sending a Canadian hug…..recently returned from trip to New Hampshire….beautiful people ,beautiful country .Keep the faith .
I too love the quote you had at the end of your blog. We must keep making bigger circles.
Heretic, rebel, a thing to flout, but Love and I had the WIT to win . . . xoxo
It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man…psalm 118:8
well Said!!! I also would like to remind women that we are one and let’s not forget those before us. The woman before us paved our way to free choies. We can be a Mother, Doctor, Scientist, teacher or even President.
We may have not liked our candidates, but we just let the most qualified person for the job go, and that is shameful. I have heard more men say how could a woman ever vote for Trump…imagine that they even get it! My husband said very frankly ” woman sold Hillary out and they should never complain about sexiest behavior at the job or low wages, because they help put that in office with a large amount of their vote,” My husband works in a corporate work environment as a department head, and he has to deal with a lot of this stuff daily, so he has a valid point. I think he is more of a feminist than most woman. We better be careful what messages we send on how we want to be treated. This has nothing to do with a party or politics this has to do with how far we have come, and how much we respect ourselves, and for that reason only we should have voted for someone who cared for those values and Trump said with his on mouth, he did not.
Correction for me The women before us…auto correct! And choices…women
Sorry
I will try to forget this blog ever happened and enjoy what you’re good at…writing lovely books, not political commentary.
You shouldn’t forget it, you should look at how we are being divided and know I was trying to help heal it by shining a light on who is doing it and how they benefit from it.
Here Here, Susan!
I don’t know how you are going to get through all the comments – I only read a few. But, I, like another commentor, felt tears brimming as I read your ‘political’ blog. If you were here I’d give you a big hug and repeat the quote about “…the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe…”. (A favorite of mine.) There are certainly many who will give you that comfort. It’s true that so many have gone to the extreme and can not give the kindness of listening politely to opposing opinion – but I, like you, still believe the vast majority of Americans want to be able to live a peaceful, loving life. My heart hurts for any pain you are having from anyone who is nasty (and I’m not talking about anyone who merely expresses that they don’t agree with you – that’s fine!)
Truly feeling blessed, cup way more than half full. Coming home now! Thank you Sandy. xoxo
Dearest Susan: Thank you for the time and emotion and, THE RISK you took to write this!! Like sex, money and religion, we’ve been taught NEVER to talk about politics. But the time for silence is OVER. Regardless of who anyone voted for, regardless of how anyone feels about our president elect, we ALL — every single solitary American citizen — needs to talk about what is happening in this country! Silence = death. Truly. And, everyone has a right to speak their TRUTH. Yours came from the heart, and with deep concern, worry, and fear for the future of our country and the world. It’s awful to see some of your readers chastising you for this blog entry and basically telling you to “go back to what we want you to write about!.” If a person — any person — loves this country then they should be talking, questioning, researching, watching, listening, to ALL OPINIONS, and ALL PEOPLES. Over 40% of Americans DID NOT VOTE!!! In my mind, that is a disgrace! In an era where we have more means of communication than we can possibly keep up with — and most of it garbage reality TV and slanted misinformation, narcissistic Facebook posts or Photo-shopped Instangrams — we have no excuse for not being informed and not voting. Shame on anyone who takes that right for granted and doesn’t exercise it. I miss the days of Walter Cronkite and Huntley/Brinkley when all of us got our news from the same source and it was actually reporting of the days NEWS. We could feel or think whatever we wanted, but at least we were receiving the information from the same source. Thank you, Susan for your heartfelt appeal for all of us to take these issues seriously and to heart. WE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE FUTURE.
Susan, I have bought your work and will continue to do so. Although long, your words echo my thoughts. We have been duped. Hillary was always the more grown-up, balanced, experienced choice. Never in my long life have I seen protests such as this after an election. Thankyou
Glad you said what’s been on your heart; and well said, by the way. This resonates with me. I understand your emotions, I’ve been feeling them, too.
I hope your readers will try to step into your shoes for a moment, and whether they agree or disagree, simply have compassion for what your are expressing.
God bless you and have a safe journey home.
Susan, a reader in Munich, a long-distance voter, who’s very concerned
It is more important than ever to take an active role in our democracy. I have shed some tears on quite a few recent mornings waking up to this reality. Thank you, Susan, for letting me know I’m not alone.
I agree whole heartily. Please NO MORE politics. Back to the great things that Susan writes about. Safe trip home Susan.
I’m with you, Susan. I met you in June at FoxTail Book Shoppe. At that time, I told you that your writings were healing, like going to therapy. This blog is no different. I don’t have anything to add that hasn’t been more articulately stated than I ever could.
You are amazing.
Robin
Thank you Robin. So sweet.
Susan,
Over and over you maintain “they” are “dividing us” yet it is clear if someone doesn’t toe the line with your thought stream and dares to say as much, they get an online tongue lashing. You’ve deeply offended many of your fans. If you’re OK with that, as some of your sharp rebuttals indicate, you are exactly what you are accusing the media of being–divisive.
As my late mother would say, “You can’t see for looking.” I recommend some deep soul searching as there is a crack in the veneer of this “girlfriend” business and an ugly truth has been revealed.
Goodbye and good luck.
Maybe the written word looks harsh, but in my heart, I truly can not see a single tongue lashing. I am listening. I don’t call your truths ugly. I don’t know, it’s sad.
I strongly disagree with the “tongue lashings”. I think Susan has been kind and gracious in her comments. Who else would make it a point to answer each comment like she has? No one! She has even answered the comments that have been mean spirited with the same grace! To say different is unfair!
Thumbs up, Kara Lotte. I’ll be sticking to Susan’s Christmas book. She lost me too. I need to smile, not read something divisive.
I’m the opposite of divisive…rather, head not in sand, seeing division, but loving all, I begin to ask why?
It was so pleasant to go to a blog that was whimsical and wonderful…leaving politics behind…personal idealogy shelved….mantras for the day…whatever the heck…just for the pure joy of reading and being immersed in contentment and all that is sweet and good.. Alas…it was not to last…sad day for me!
I’m sorry, I just couldn’t ignore the heartbreak and anger that is taking over our world.
Susan, our country has always been divided politically. What I see now, in our country, is heartbreak and anger from the side that lost. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself. While you seem to be “stuck” on vulgar words that Mr. Trump spoke years ago, he has done a lot of good in this country and that is not reported anywhere on the news media…..have to do our homework. Okay, I have put my two cents in and I’m hoping you don’t think poorly me or are offended. I truly, truly enjoy your blogs (except this one)…..I cried when your Dad passed away and when you lost “Miss Kitty”….. I smile when I see your pictures and absolutely love that we have the same interests. I don’t want to see anyone’s views on politics, religion, sexual orientation, abortion, etc., because these subjects are so controversial and no two people think alike on any of them. We have different views on these subjects within my family and circle of friends and all have agreed to not discuss any of it because it goes nowhere. Our son is a police officer and our daughter is a special ed teacher….. very tough jobs and very little respect in this country for either career…….. they both have very different beliefs on who runs this country…….. but that does not stop me from loving them with all my heart. I pray that our country will heal and this will all be behind us………..I’m not going to “un-friend” you, dear Susan, because I love what you do and I respect that your blog was truly from your heart…… and, having met you several times, think the world of you. xoxo
First off, police officers and special ed teachers should be put at the head of the honor roles in this country, along with veterans and nurses and teachers of all sorts and everyone who contributes their lifeblood to the service of others. I could never think poorly or be offended by you speaking your heart dear Ann Jane. You should know that.
That’s why I think we can talk. “Heartbreak and anger from the side that lost.” Wouldn’t that also describe what has gone on in Congress for the last eight years where they treated Obama not just as a president from the opposing party, but as an extreme threat to the American way of life, lying about his birth certificate (led by our new president elect) and said to be muslim? Congress simply refused to work with Obama. It’s both sides, and that’s my point, that it doesn’t really matter who is president, because what really matters is that we are stalemated by the ruling class, the corporations that own media, the media that seeks to divide, and us, that can’t see it and allows it happen. It’s a much larger problem any of us can actually imagine right now.
This is one of the most compelling articles I’ve read concerning the election. Cheers!!!!
What a nice thing to say. Thank you Sondra! Together we stand, divided we fall.
Thank you Susan.. i agree.
I feel the same sadness. I have been so depressed since I read Susan’s post. Yes, I know all of the terrible ways in which we are manipulated, but Susan’s blog WAS my happy place. Let’s please go back there…
Sometimes the potential for harm is too great to ignore. It’s impossible to bask in contentment and all that is sweet and good while so many of our sisters and brothers are afraid for their family’s lives.
Bless you Susan. I too have been rattled since finding out the election results. So many emotions. None of them positive. My friends call me a Pollyanna because I truly believe things will turn out OK. Thank you for your kindness, your generosity of spirit. Thank you for your courage.
Believing there is hope for the world is a way to move toward it. Believing all Americans are good people and shutting out the voices that tell us differently is a way to bring us back together. So let’s be Pollyanna! She could see the good in everything.
Can you kindly email me why you took off my post? I would think everyone having a voice is important to you. I’m confused.
I haven’t taken off any posts…but I do have 860 posts waiting for moderation … I’m trying to get to them, but I know I won’t, we have to get in the car in a few minutes and go to the ship to go home. I never expected such a reaction!
My kind hearted original post is not on here just all these other confusing harsh comments
Me too Annie…neither my comment nor a reply to another’s comment were posted. Both were short and made very early in the thread. You’ve had plenty of time to read and comment on all the others…so much for fairness and allowing differing opinions for your own.
Your blog and books always brought me such joy but the magic has now faded.
Are you serious. You try to read and comment on 1800 comments in a day and a half. If the magic has faded, so be it. I don’t think I can do things right for you.
HEAR HEAR! Trish – take deep breaths and have a nice cuppa tea!!!
She got mine all all balled up too. She needs an assistant.
Susan Branch writes for a living…..you have no right to dictate what she thinks or says. She has rights as a private person. It upsets me when people think they own someone simply because they have a public forum. She has the right to a vacation. She is a giving person so out of the goodness of her heart she chose to share her vacation with people she thought would enjoy it too. I personally hope she does not decide to retire. Something such as this can be very disheartening , particularly when a person only meant good. Love to you Susan, Barbara in IN
Well said, Barbara.
Thank you for your beautiful comment. I say this from the position of being a Susan Branch Girlfriend – someone who will ALWAYS be a Susan Branch Girlfriend. No Matter What.
I will always love this blog and I will always be a fan of Susan Branch. I will always LOVE her. No Matter What.
No matter your thoughts or opinions, peace on earth, goodwill toward men.
God’s Blessings to each and every one of you – No Matter What.
oxo
Patience, friends! I’ve waited awhile, too, but my posts made it one by one. Waiting for the other to appear. I know it will. Remember, Susan shows us the courtesy of reading each post and commenting on quite a few. AND, we need to let her enjoy the rest of her trip. The magic hasn’t dimmed for me. Susan is still the same Susan we’ve all enjoyed. It’s just one blog post.
Today is Thanksgiving – hope you and Joe have a wonderful day!
Thank you Sweetie … Hope yours was fabulous!
Alot of these post are pretty harsh! I admitt i was also angry at first..but i definately wasnt going to say anything i regreted…i read your blog because we do live in a crazy world and you help give us solitude and peace.. so i think you gave all of us a suprise! Lol…. im just glad to know your just as opinionated, vocal, and vivacious as the rest of us…haha. so heres why i follow you….”whatever is true, whatever is lovely,whatever is admirable, -if anything is excellent or praiseworthy-think on these things”. Phil 4:8
And that’s why I love all my Girlfriends. We are so much more alike than the media would ever want us to know or believe, and together, we could change the world. Love you Tara.
All my comments are awaiting moderation still? Was I skipped over by accident? 😻
At this moment there are 869 comments waiting for moderation, and Joe and I are about to get in the car to begin our drive to the ship and back to the USA! I am NEVER going to get to them all, and I’m so sorry for that! I want to, it’s just that soon I won’t have any computer. Makes me crazy. Thank you for whatever you said Amanda!!!
Hi Susan, this is my 3rd comment on this blog post. My other 2 comments are not being “moderated”. Don’t know why you aren’t doing that. I’m not even sure what that means other then you have to read them and “OK” them??
But I just wanted to say that even though I disagree with your take on all this, and that you feel most of what is going on is a lie, I still like your blog, and all the other things about you. You are a good person, and you have the same expectations we all have…..to be happy. Your art does that for us. So keep doing what we all love about you, and what brought us to you in the first place.
Because at this time there are 825 comments waiting to be moderated!!!! It’s taking forever, I’m so sorry! I didn’t expect this response, and we are driving across England today to sail home tomorrow, and I know I won’t get connection to the Internet on the boat, so I feel very stuck. So sorry. The way comments come in is newest first, so that’s why I see this one, the rest are buried way down there somewhere. Thank you for understanding. xoxo
Oh Susan, Thank you for being so brave and speaking out from the heart. For over a week now I have watched and listened to what all the girlfriends and women in my life have or haven’t said. I found myself in tears as I read your message. No one knows what to say and yet once we start to talk and share we are all in this together. Your blog struck a chord. The day after the election I went to quilt group and we were uncommonly quiet. Then one lady came in and said she promised herself to give everyone a hug today. The flood gates opened and we all started to talk and share. No one asked how anyone voted. So many of us are still trying to wrap our minds around the core of worry and even fear we have for what we have witnessed. I have read all the comments so far and am amazing at those that I feel bordered on rude. I will be sharing this blog with the people in my life. Thank goodness for people like you who can put it all in the words and context that give pause.
No one knows what to say, including me, but I had to give it a try. You risk turning off a lot of people. But if everyone would just look at what’s happened to us since the beginning of 24-7 news programs and shock jock radio, follow the money, see who’s benefiting from our division and demonization, they would see it. They are taking it all, and they have us blaming each other. It’s a joke. A sick joke.
Very well Done Susan. The hate racism and violence has been around but Trump taped into it and the media fed it and somehow people now feel that it is ok to demean women, to take away their rights and to be hateful and violent towards people who do not look the same as they do. The OTHER has become the villan. We are ALL the OTHER!! but because the anger is there, does not make it right or acceptable to use it against one another. He has conned the country and god love us for falling for it!!! We are ALL, Every single one of us, the children of immigrants, yet it is ok to tear families apart and deport them and to hate them and call them names and beat them up? That is what Trump legitimized and somehow people bought it and say that” his heart is in the right place and they know he is a good person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!” REALLY ??? How do they know this- they want to believe so desperately that they have fallen for the Con. He is a manipulator and a bully and he has turned all that anger away from the puppet masters, the banks the huge corporations, the oil companies, the ones who will now make him richer as he does their bidding. – HE IS ONE OF THE 1% who has been ripping off this country for years and having all of his products that bear his name made overseas taking jobs from our neighbors. We have been manipulated and we are so very much SMARTER than this !! STOP IT!! EVERYONE!!! Live by the golden rule- Do UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE THEM DO UNTO YOU and BE KIND!!!!!
We can only decide for ourselves if we are going to let them keep doing this to us, driving us apart. Seeing opposite views does not hurt, it helps us weigh things, yes, no? Do I see any value in this, or not, should I do fact check on something? Things we ALL do!
So better to vote for a murdered who accepts a cheating husband, lies, hits men with a bible who are protecting her and has lived lavishly off of our tax money ALL her life?!! You democrats!!! Have your own opinion, yes, but idolize someone like this?!!!
And that person that’s held the office for the last 8 years…the massive, massive debt alone!!! That wife of his who had shamelessly enjoyed extremely expensive vacations to foreign countries, extravegant shopping—all while we struggle to pay exhorbitant taxes. Notice the majority party of the states in the worst financial shape?!! Hmmm, taxing people to death, high ratio of government workers to private sector income earners/tax payers and long-term welfare recipients who refuse any sort of work payback.
FYI-the BOOKSIGNING you held in Danville, CA??! I was so excited to go ….but was crestfallen to see that I would not be able to. The store was charging a fee AND required a book purchase from the store.
My husband had just been laid off (H1b Visas are hurting American workers far, far more than most realize) and there was NO way I should spend money on something like that, even as much as I desperately wanted to go. I took responsibility and worked within my means at the time. I didn’t slam it on the credit card irresponsibly, I didn’t whine, I didn’t expect someone else to pay nor for the store to wave the fees just for me(hmmm, sound like redistribution of funds?). I didn’t go, because it would not have been responsible.
That’s NOT the mindset of many, many people.
While it’s truly wonderful you’re on the trip that you are currently, truly hope you have a nice time and travel safely…just know that is competely unobtainable for me and many others. So perhaps while one is on foreign soil, on an expensive trip, soon to return to home to an exclusive area, don’t lament about how a great deal of people are tired of the status quo from the last 8 years.
Also, 9-11 was absolutely terrible but wasn’t THE worst-look how many Americans were murdered at Pearl Harbor, and how SO many have lost their lives or livelihood like my father who courageously had to fight in the Korean War and literally came back to the farm he worked So hard to build before he had to leave was completely lost when he returned. So this tip-toeing thru the tulips you paint with the GI bill wasn’t the case for everyone.
Listen to yourself. I’m sorry Melinda. I didn’t mean for you to take this so personally, I was really trying to help.
Dear Melinda~
In regards to Susan’s book signing in Danville…I never spent a penny…I had been able to buy a book prior and came in with it…not a problem. Also, why would you deprive yourself of seeing someone you really wanted to see, if even just to meet her…we all have issues with money of some sort or other. We just have to do the best we can and not be so bitter.
Hope things improve for you and your family.
Then what occurred for you was FAR different from what i was told-by shop staff. I called the shop twice, second time to confirm info given to me on first call, and both times was told by the shop that there was indeed a fee and required book purchase.
As for you questioning me as to why i deprived myself-it wasn’t a matter of deprivation, but one of priorities. That was my point. With 3 children and basic expenses, paying a fee for a book signing is very low priority when laid-off. Being laid-off is something those in private sector experience, it is when you have ZERO paycheck. So one should immediately cut every single expenditure to the very basics, that is to be responsible.
Also, calling me bitter is another missed mark. I am incredulous though to those who are NOT responsible financially and run up major debt which imposes costs to everyone else. Don’t think this happens? Take a basic economic course at a local Community College. Then these people vote for candidates who run up debt, thus rolls the snowball down the mountain.
As an economist, I could go on further but will simply conclude with this thought:
Far TOO many people are TOO quick to point a finger at politicians. Finger needs to be pointed at oneself, and anymore this is especially true with finances.
Terrible misunderstandings with words that don’t have faces and hearts attached. This is not something to argue about, because we’re all doing the very best we can. Life isn’t easy for anyone. Sending healing love to our whole darn world. xoxo
Your blog today made me realize I have wasted a lot of money on your books. I am tired of snowflake liberals.
“Snowflake Liberals” — divisive talk that has nothing to do with making a better world for our children. This is what I’m talking about. When did half of us become the enemy? It didn’t used to be like that. We are being manipulated by the corporate media into blaming EACH OTHER for the total failures of our governing bodies. It’s them, not us. I’m the good guy, and so are you.
Beautiful reply.
Hang in there Susan. Your reply is right on. “Snowflake liberal.” Another demonizing of the word liberal – which really stands for being open minded and willing to consider the opinions of others.
Barbara~
Don’t we want to be part of the solution. Susan has brought great joy to the lives of so many. Be happy for that.
An insult such as “snowflake liberals” benefits no one and hurts the person who utters or writes it!
It’s just parroting some talk show host, a divider who uses these phrases to demonize “the other.” Liberals are just as nice and home-loving as Conservatives.
Yes, why can’t we see that if we can treat each other with kindness and dignity the whole dynamic of this country could change. We would actually be able to hear each other and have some empathy for others.
Yes, yes, yes Susan!…”We are being kept apart by an evil force that we need to join together to fight”. Our greatest weapon and unifier is to Love our neighbor as ourselves. Loving our neighbor is more more powerful than who is president.
If we did that, nothing could stop us, and they know it. WE would be in charge, and that very thought is what fuels this disgusting manipulation. The sooner we see it, the sooner we can get to the business of fixing our bridges.
Dearest Susan, bless your great big American heart! You’ve shown such bravery in writing this piece that expresses my own beliefs. I simply couldn’t have said it better. I am so saddened by the great divide our nation faces. Let’s strive to try to understand and to protect each and every American, no matter what the future brings. We can do this – united we stand!
Thank you, Susan, for every word, and for reminding us about what is really important ~ “united we stand, divided we fall”. I agree with each and every word, and I’m ashamed to admit that I have commented on some pretty harsh posts on FB, with my own message of division. I’ve been angry and really afraid since the election: I see everything that I believe in about to be under attack, and it scared me. I’ve seen the same forces that you talked about, and have felt helpless. It seemed like a river of poison that you could see spreading, but couldn’t stop.
You’re so right when you say that it has to stop with each of us. I’ve always ignored the posts on FB that I have disagreed with (because I feel each of us has a right to express how we feel), but I have put my 2 cents in on posts that I have agreed with, and some of them were pretty harsh.
I would like to express my sympathy on the loss of your Dad. I had a sense from some blog posts from some time ago that all was not well with him. He seemed like such an interesting person, and so wonderfully invested in his children. I loved reading about your childhood, and all of the adventures you had together. I’m sure that you do miss his sage advice, and I’m so sorry that you have lost that from your life. My own Dad is gravely ill right now, and I’ve been going back and forth trying to help out for the past six or seven months. (My parents live 5 1/2 hours away, so I stay a week at a time each month). It’s such a sad situation, but one common for all of us if we’ve been lucky enough to reach the age of 68. And it’s just one more thing that binds people everywhere ~ the common experience of loss, but of course it’s anything but common when it happens in our own life.
I’m going to read this blog every time I lose heart about the situation we’re in. Because you’ve (as usual!) found the heart of the matter: we are one people, and we have to believe in each other just as we always did before media types on radio and tv told us not to.
Yes it goes both ways, until we can connect on a common sense, what is good for our children level, we have to be careful not to offend. We have been stretched to the breaking point by the powers that be.
Thank you for the kind words about my dad. I will miss him every day. I’m so sorry you’re going through the pain of helplessness now, I think that’s the worst part, not being able to DO anything. SO much more in common than our “differences” could ever be. Family Love. xoxoxo
Well it is your blog and you have every right to post what you want. I am very saddened by some of the unkind comments. Your blog has given us such a sense of community. Even if we disagree we can be kind and respectful of one another. I think you have been gracious in your responses. I wish you a safe return home to your loved ones.
Thank you so much Marilyn. xoxo
Susan I haven’t heard one good reaction about the election. Here in Australia I feel sorry for you all. I have never met Trump but I am so glad he is not ruling our country. I really enjoyed reading your blog.Safe travel home. Judith.
Susan, you are a perfect example of (what this world needs more of) an independent thinker. It frustrates me that so many people blindly believe OPINION pieces that are presented as news. Where did the investigative journalists go? Most news just seems to be generated by social media, these days without any fact or even investigation.
Fear and hatred had also been ‘spun’, here in Australia, against Muslims. It was reported that they wanted Christmas carols and decorations banned, but upon digging further, I found it was the leaders of local councils and also some politicians deciding it would be best to remove Christmas references ‘in case’ it upset Muslims! Naturally, everybody was getting on the hate-wagon against Muslims because ‘they’ don’t want us to have Christmas. It’s simply not true, but when trying to explain to others, they don’t want to hear it because the lie has now become ‘fact’. I escape , like you, with fabulous music and art.
I have gorgeous American , Middle Eastern, British and French friends and I don’t care what religion they are or how they vote. I just love them. We are all bigger and better than the hate. Let’s do more independent thinking.
Yes, my dad said forever, be careful of what you hear. Before you believe it, check well. There’s no perfect side here, but the untruths that circulate are hurting us, and giving the people holding OUR purse strings the power to do whatever they want.
One of my favorite sayings – Don’t believe everything you think.
Susan, I am so proud of you to have the courage to put yourself out here on your blog and tell it like it is. You are so right about all of these issues! You don’t know who to believe and then the cause is something made up. I love all of your regular blogs, but I’m so glad you did this. A lot of us that read your blog are proud to hear what you have to say and know where you are on these issue! I know I am! Thank you! God Bless America!!!!
xoxo Thank you Ginny!
Thank you so much for this post! Just thank you. Please know that it helped me -and many others, I’m sure.
Oh my goodness…what has happened to common sense…..I find this whole thing extremely puzzling. That anyone could see negativity in what you said is hard to understand. I enjoy your books, your blog, all the things we have in common so very much. Our poor world must feel so beat up and confused wondering what has gotten into us. The media certainly doesn’t help. The total lack of civility? This is not the way most of us were raised. Stop the insanity ! We need to look at all the things that need changing before the point of no return. What most people are missing is the fact that if we don’t clean up our environment nothing else will matter. If the water, soil and air aren’t fit to use it won’t matter whether or not we find cures for any diseases. Life in general won’t be possible. There are those in positions of power who believe global warming is a hoax. The problems are much bigger than we realize. So glad to have you almost on your way back home. We have missed you. Wish you God’s speed and safe journey…hug each other for us..Love, IN. Barbara XOXO
Thank you Barbara!!! Our environment. We can barely discuss it at all! We are so separate that terrible things that will affect our children slip through our fingers. Oil companies do not want us to believe in global warming and spend zillions of dollars to make us believe it’s a hoax. And when we believe half of the American people are baby killers who believe in global warming …. well you can see the problem. We are being fed such a bunch of lies so these people can continue the giant sucking sound of our money leaving our retirement accounts and going into theirs.
Speaking from England it has been a tumultuous year. I was so saddened by Brexit, and terrified by your election results. Yes please let all of us remember we are friends, we may need to over the coming years. Thank you for posting this. It feels very measured and considered. X
Yes, one world. We need each other in this tumultuous world. xoxo
Abigail, I want to personally apologize for America in general….. I cringe when I think of how people all over the world must think of us ! We must appear to be a nation of idiots. That we live in a country that would allow a person who has no sense of what is right,no sense of boundaries to be elected to public office…….unimaginable! and….. extremely embarrassing. Sorry !
Oh being in Europe during this was such an eyeopener. On BBC we heard from leaders in every country … obviously they have a geographical interest in what is going on with their neighbors, since in the last war, neighbors were bombing each other. They lived through something we have never had to deal with, so they know that nothing is impossible.
The first part of your post was wonderful. It said everything. I also defend your right to state your opinion, to anyone and in your blog. Saying that, it does upset me to be called not normal (in one of your responses) because of my choice of vote. You reside in CA, my state, part time. You live full time back east. Hillary lost the election because of one major item. Immigration. The western states are going broke. The illegals get free medical, free education, welfare, etc. We are all immigrants. Become a citizen. You keep saying in responses that you are only pointing out that we need to come together. By stating all of your feelings it sadly did the opposite. I do respect them. I can’t come together if I am not respected for my vote. Your responses to others is to argue back and condemn our opinions. Please don’t say what you think or know is the TRUTH. The media does lie. Susan you need to do some extensive research. No need for a response. I don’t need hear about Trump’s groping. That was wrong. All the many things that Hillary did is just as morally wrong. I am entitled to my beliefs, too. Safe journey home. Enjoyed so much being able to go on your trip. Thanks so much for sharing.
Only truth I’m putting forth here is that we are being used, torn asunder from within. Everything else is whatever you want it to be. I am not trying to put forth a political agenda for others, I did explain my thoughts on the election, but that should not and does not diminish other views in any way.
Just to clarify a few things. I do respect everyone’s thoughts and choices but when they are based on some lies it bothers me. Why do you Bev think immigrants get everything free? Trust me they do NOT! They get medical care from clinics that choose to serve them, their children can attend public school, so essentially free, but they pay rent, which has taxes in it. They get very little if any government help contrary to what you read. Go out and see how much it costs to become a citizen— you will be shocked! 895.00 to just apply and 2-3 thousand dollars more to complete process! Do you think someone has made it so we can cherry pick who becomes a citizen? I work with hundreds of poor immigrants every week and they just want a better life for their children and themselves, now they live in fear of tomorrow. You had a right to vote for whom you chose and I pray that he will do what is right. I have found though that most of the people who voted for Trump are very angry and continue to lash out. For eight years we had to listen to people who disrespected and maligned President Obama and now in 10 days those who did not vote for Trump are expected to just be happy and embrace what has happened? Where was that embracing 8 years ago? Everyone drank the koolaide then too, the lies were awful, Obama was not born in the US, he was a secret Muslim, I could go on and on. Thank God we had a strong man who never let it phase him. I did not mean to go on but if we could get everyone to help some of our immigrants they would see what loving and kind people they are. My last question is what are we White Americans afraid of? My humble thoughts.
Details are important, so thank you for expressing yours. I wish they were easier to hear for both sides. I do know how hurt people are, feeling so totally misunderstood. It’s THEM that’s doing this to us,meaning corporate media, it’s not as difficult as they make it out to be.
We are a nation of immigrants. That is what makes us great. My grandfather immigrated to the US in 1917 and I am proud of it.
We are NOT a nation of immigrants. Stop overlooking slaves brought here against their will. See? You’re still ignoring their very existence. You don’t even see them in our “color blind” society, huh?
You are SO right Limner, slaves were not immigrants. What I was thinking of when I used that word was of us all having come from somewhere else ~ I should have just said that instead of using the word immigrant.
Limner is mistaken, we ARE a nation of immigrants. The first people who stepped foot on Plymouth Rock after sailing across the Atlantic were immigrants. The nation continued to fill up with immigrants from all over the world. No the slaves were not immigrants – they were taken against their will. The Mexicans nor native Americans are not immigrants as they were here first.
I am so glad that you mentioned the cost of becoming a citizen, as I think that many people do not realize the monetary aspect. I work with several people who have come here from other countries. Many of them would love to become citizens, but are unable to due to finances. Some work at minimum wage and struggle to make ends meet. Others work at jobs that pay more, but they send half of their paychecks to their families living in conditions that most of us can’t even imagine
Putting ourselves into the real-life shoes of the other guy makes it so much easier to see both sides.
Where I live a local hospital had to close due to all of the free emergency room visits they could not keep up with. I am 5th generation where my ancestors came through Ellis Island legally. I live in a town where I am now called a minority, due to mass illegal- immigration. I’ve seen the face of my community drastically change, and I don’t like it. I want a balance of people. People who follow the laws to become citizens.
Free emergency room visits? So, someone gets in a car accident, their arm is hanging off, and the hospital is supposed to say Go Away? Healthcare is a problem, but ignoring it doesn’t help.
i too have lived in an area with a high number of illegal immigrants and can attest to the problem with emergency rooms and urgent care centers. Illegals are indeed seen for free and flood these medical facilities mostly for basic things like OTC for colds. (not dangling arms) While the rest wait for hours, yes hours, to be seen. Please! Those who aren’t anywhere near areas like this, don’t throw judgement down.
Anyone who believes that all our problems can be solved with a sweep of the arm, this is just a perfect example of how complicated it is. When I was younger, I used to see everything in black or white. But now I know it’s all grey. You solve one problem, and it causes a new one. It’s complicated; to satisfy and help everyone would be the goal, it’s just that compromise never makes everyone happy. And compromise is grown up, honest, hopeful. Think of our problems like a chess game. You move your man, sure you’ve got it, forgetting to look ahead, if you move your man there, what will happen???
No Susan, you put forth that Christians being persecuted was a lie… you are so, so wrong. You are so misinformed on so many issues.
Divisive rhetoric gets us nowhere.
Consider taking your own advice before telling Susan she needs to do some extensive research. Not all Americans are immigrants. Yet too many of us still overlook the millions of innocent slave who were brought here in chains. They built this country, and its economy. Politicians thought slavery was good for our young America. Not all slaves were from Africa either. Some were indentured servants who were eventually freed.
Be careful of the stones you throw. And be kind. Allow Susan to speak her truth in her own space. But then again, she does allow us to disagree. I know fellow bloggers who would never post some of the negative comments she’s had the courage to allow. See? Democracy in action. (grin)
More political debate, will it never end? This discussion has proven again why it is never a good idea to discuss religion or politics in polite society. Best done in church or by joining a political group. I think we just lost the magic, along with some friends.
It shouldn’t be that way, and I have a big problem accepting it. We the people are not the enemy, but those who work to divide us in order to line their own pockets, they are the enemy, they need to be recognized, and disenfranchised.
I just had to write and tell you thank you for writing this post. It was exactly what I needed. Because like you, I have been having trouble sleeping also. This morning I woke up and I have decided that I am going to change the thinking of the one person I can control and that is me! The sun is going to come up and life is going to go on. I am going to bake carrot cake cupcakes (recipe from your book!) and share them with my neighbor. I am going to plant tulip and daffodil bulbs and love on my new grandbabies (twins!). Looking forward to hearing about your next adventure….you are loved!!
Lovely, a brand new day. xoxoxo bake those cupcakes and spread love. xoxo
Hear, hear!!
Since you’ve been to a lovely place, here’s a quote for us all to remember:
“There is enough beauty in this world….for every man to brim his heart with. And all we have to do is put away the hard things of life awhile and look at our world all over again.”
Gladys Taber, “The Book of Stillmeadow”
Susan,
I finally had the courage to read this post this afternoon, knowing what was probably going to be shared and even then, I only had the heart to skim it. Weak on my part I know, but it has been so disheartening (and truly something unexpected) to go to several of my favorite (totally non-political, heart-warming) blogs after the election and have to read how “we have to hold our children a little closer now”, the trouble w/ sleep, etc. My husband and I can totally relate to the feeling and have felt that way for the last 8 years, but I don’t think we shared it w/ anyone we knew wasn’t like minded. Just sort of hung on, smiled and tried to live our lives by our convictions. Well anyway, the HOME is where it’s at. If we as a nation want to see real change and healing…have dinner together as a family more nights than not and don’t forget to say grace. Turn off the screens and read together or just catch up on the day. Take a minute and listen and look each other in the eyes. Make your home a place of peace and joy. To that end, you have been such an influence for the positive in my own small world. My family has been hugely blessed by your inspiration over and over and for that I’m so truly grateful. 🙂 Just thank you for that. xo
ps. I have such fond memories of 1976…awesome time to be a kid. USA!
Thank you for using your blog as a place to express these very important ideas. Our country has experienced a nightmare…one that may affect us for years to come. I can only hope that morality and common sense will prevail and extremism will be moderated by facts, education and experience.
Susan and all, I had to let this post sit for a day or two before I responded. A little digestion instead of a knee jerk reaction which I think we all need. Thank you for your bravery in posting what is in your heart. It only makes me love you more. I enjoyed all the photos of happy, smiling people at your book signings, no politics involved. We are all going to have to step up and work for what we know is right, love wins. There is a magazine called Yes that only prints positive things, I highly recommend it to everyone. Fox news is poisonous. I like the BBC and public broadcasting because I think they tell the real news. Beware, especially of the internet and FB and be skeptical, so much of what we are told is not true. Fact check, educate yourself. Mother Jones has always been a great resource for true reporting. Try not to despair. You are so right that manufacturing jobs need to come back to the US. Don’t buy cheap junk made in China, vote with your hard earned dollars. Support Made in USA products, be an aware and informed consumer. If we ALL made an effort to buy made in America we would be a strong nation again. This is something we all can do, it’s NOT easy, just try it. Read the label to see where your stuff comes from. Make things your self, people used to do it all the time.
I wish I knew how to end this post on a positive note but I am also afraid, scared for the world my grandson will be living in. Be love, be strong and do the right things.
Dearest Susan, I have been having so much trouble sleeping since the elections, and have been in deep turmoil about my beloved USA and where it is going now. I was taught as a little girl in Sunday school not to make fun of the boy with the polio brace on his leg, or the little girl with glasses, because we are all worthy of love in God’s eyes. The song I learned at Sunday school that I loved the most was ‘Jesus loves the little children, all the children of the world: red and yellow , black and white, all are precious in his sight, Jesus loves the little children of the world. ” Inclusive and caring before I understood those terms at all ! Mama and Daddy taught us to respect other people and their property, that all people are worthy , whoever they are. There was a lot of anti-German sentiment around after the war, but my parents talked about how ALL of us Americans came from SOMEWHERE else, and that we all had different traditions and religions, but that we were now all AMERICANS! I had next-door neighbors with a German last name, and our last name was French, and my friend across the street had an English last name. Life is like that in America, read the wall at the ‘Arizona Memorial”, and so many ethnicities are represented! I was proud of you for speaking from your heart , and you said what so many of us women and men are thinking. The American Dream involves everyone of us, each citizen and each company, doing the right thing, living ethically and morally, and caring for all. I often have felt that we are so lucky to live in such a melting pot of cultures in our land, and for me, the nationial banner we carry in our hearts and across the land could be the simple Golden Rule : Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” Darling Susan, thank you for speaking from your heart, and from dear old England. May we all learn to live and laugh together in kindness again! Hugs from Oregon, Suzette
Another moment that shook me to the bones was when he made fun of that person who suffered from a disability. Love every word you said Suzette, and thank you. Our melting pot is the thing that makes us “the last best hope for the world.” The way we’ve been able to assimilate other cultures, at least up until now. Please, that it continues forever.
Dear Susan,
I have followed you for almost 30 years, purchasing and enjoying all your lovely art, fabric, books, bank checks, and items from the store you owned in Arroyo Grande plus your online store, of which I will continue to patronize. I also owned two small stores in Laguna Beach area, very similar to your Heart of the Home store in A.G. I sold your calendars, notecards and books through Little Brown Distributing. However, as a small business owner, it became difficult to flourish, as you so eloquently stated in your blog.
I love your blogs and although I disagree with a BIT of your recent post (the political one that wasn’t supposed to be political), I still love you as human being, as a girlfriend, and a gifted artist and fellow American. I know sometimes when we put our thoughts into words, in our mind and heart, we know what we believe to be true for ourselves. At the end of the blog, you took a sharp left, if you know what I mean AND THAT IS FINE, because we are all entitled to our opinions and views. And one shouldn’t have to stay silent about what they feel strongly about. I truly respect your blog post.
Although I am a little younger than you, I grew up in similar circumstances, only 5 kids (not 8) in Granada Hills, quite close to where you grew up. I’m 7th generation native Californian. I am Native American & Californio (not a misspelling). What I find unfortunate is that the president-elect originally stated in June 2015 (the day he announced his candidacy) was that he wanted to deport CRIMINAL ILLEGAL immigrants that were rapists, drug dealers, bad guys. I don’t have a problem with that. Since then, the media cuts that sound bite, but I watched it live on CNN when it was happening. He has no problem with people immigrating to this country LEGALLY. Granted, I don’t agree with his statements regarding women and his prior conduct! I don’t know anyone that thinks that’s okay!!
However, I grew up when immigration laws WERE enforced and businesses (clothing manufacturers, car washes, bakeries, etc) were actually raided and they would deport Mexicans back to Mexico if they were not documented. It was a part of life in the San Fernando Valley in the 1970’s. My only point is this. When people emigrate to this country, it is usually for all the wonderful reasons, we, as American citizens love it. And it’s a wonderful country with unlimited opportunities. But part of emigrating means assimilating and becoming one with all the rest of us bringing the best of your heritage and traditions.
The town I grew up in (this is Southern California suburbs to your readers) now resembles Tijuana. I know this firsthand because I volunteer one weekend a month at an orphanage in Tijuana. All of my family has moved away from Granada Hills, except my Dad and sister. Theft, home invasions, drug dealing at 7-11’s, and gangs are a normal part of everyday life. Spanish is the primary language in many parts of the Valley. When you pull up to a drive-thru fast food restaurant, they greet you in Spanish and continue to respond in Spanish. What was once quaint and quite lovely suburbs is no longer the case. Those days are gone. The little houses built in the 60’s are now equipped with wrought iron bars on the windows to avoid thefts and break-ins. Mexican flags are hung on many houses and on vehicle antennas; automobile insurance is ‘iffy’ so you try to stay away from the 5 freeway from San Fernando – to La Mirada. Many Mexicans, El Salvadorans, Guatemalans, and Columbians that have emigrated here want to change our state to resemble their homeland, NOT assimilate into their new country bringing their best attributes.
No, I’m not exaggerating in any way. I speak fluent Spanish. My family owns a large income tax preparer service with over 11,000 clients/families (95% hispanic). Many of this particular clientele (some citizens, many not), do not want to pay ANY taxes even though they have a TIN, because in their country – they don’t pay taxes. Many of them receive Medi-Cal (free medical), receive disability SSA benefits, don’t marry their mate but have several children to receive maximum EIC (Earned Income Credit), receive foods stamps – while oftentimes both parents are earning large sums of cash under the table, not reporting their true income. They’ve learned how to work the system. THAT may be a different perspective on why I voted against Hillary and her Open Border stance. Meanwhile, our household, (3 of us) pay $1,914. per month out of our pocket for our medical premiums because we are self-employed and once the Affordable Care Act was implemented – our insurance left the state forcing us to purchase from another carrier at much higher rates.
Because of your lovely books, we took our first trip to Martha’s Vineyard in October. It was our first vacation in 10 years. Weather was lovely and your little island is just perfectly beautiful. I think after visiting M.V. – I understand that you’re looking at life a little skewed from your vantage point. If you’ll notice all your pictures in your recent blog, there’s not much diversity there…I’m sure it’s just demographics. I think your view from Martha’s Vineyard is a little out of touch with many other areas of the country and maybe that is why you are receiving so many challenging responses.
Please keep doing what you do so beautifully. Open dialogue is always a good thing. And it’s your platform to do as you see fit.
Happy Thanksgiving to you, Joe, and Jack!
P.S. Don’t feel you have to post this or respond. I just wanted to give you another viewpoint:)
Barbi,
Thanks for your detailed post about your community. Many people are unaware that this is happening all over the Southwest and it truly is frightening. I am all for helping people who want to come here and legally become Americans but I am not happy about people wanting to come here to take over our country and bring their “laws” with them to change us. (I think I saw a town in Michigan where they were trying to vote in Sharia Law!). We can’t let this happen!
No other laws can override the Constitution. None, never ever. We have our laws in America. This Shari’a thing is something else they use to scare everyone to pieces. Don’t believe it, it’s not true, No other country’s laws will take over our Constitution. Who, for example, would vote for it? (Oh, yeah, I remember, they said Obama would!!!) Never, ever, do not worry. They are lying to you. Where you hear that lie being told, avoid that person like the plague.
Thank you for saying what you did. We all know that it is only the truth. I also remember when we were a better nation.
Hi, Susan,
My comment will be way down the line as I know I haven’t read 800+ responses that you’ve alluded to thus far.
Please don’t slam Susan or me if you disagree with our point of view.
I am a proud Democrat who has admired Hillary Clinton for decades. I also saw flaws in her campaign, & feared the hurdles she had to surmount in order to become our first female President. I’m not arguing politics here. I want you to ask yourself, as I think Susan was gently probing, which American vision do you want? Trump insulted group after group after group after group. Is this the vision you want for your children & grandchildren?
Time after time in the last year I’ve looked at tv coverage in disbelief and said numerous times: Donald Trump would never be invited to eat at our table. His behaviour would not be tolerated if he were five years old. Now he is the president-elect, and you know what I think? Well, he’s not MY president.
I’m still in a stage of disbelief and anger. Looking at Trump’s proposed support team/Cabinet choices doesn’t make it easier. I get the feeling that Susan is in the same place.
Are we right? Are you wrong? Only time will tell.
I’m in awe of Susan for stepping up to the plate & voicing her concerns and love for our great country. Even through the tears. Even judging that there would be repercussions from some of the *girlfriends*.
You know who else exhibited that same courage? Hillary. Think About It. Seriously.
She’s the voice in this conversation I will miss most.
Susan, Susan. Be our voice as well. You walked a tightrope & spoke from the heart.
Thank you for this is!!! This is so well written. I will need to read this often over the next four years.
Susan, thank you for this post. It is your blog and you are certainly entitled to
post about what you see as important. I think you are doing a service for all of us. I love your writing, your blog, your photos, your values and YOU! Thank you for all of it! I remain a huge fan.
ok, so maybe i’m finally ready to say how I feel. maybe. if I quit suddenly, you may assume it’s cause i’m just soooooo emotionally devastated ( by many factors…will explain as I go…) that I have to stop. first things first…Susan, I want to say, as I often do….THANK YOU!! OH!! THANK YOU!!!! what you did demands the label “brave”. having been in business (back in nh…retail store…) I got into the “political fray”…and, truly it did cost us business. but…relying on the fact that to “do/say nothing is all it takes for evil to triumph over good”…I went ahead. had to. long story. I won’t bore you, but I must say that although the “group” being oppressed (yes, oppressed) by others did not directly affect me….they had to be spoken-up-for. so, I did. in this election….it was shades of that…and, worse, that prevailed. i’m very close to 70 yrs old….have NEVER seen anything even remotely similar to this. the pure hate, vengeance, vitriol, bigotry, and, then….more hate that were vehemently spewn…and, bought by ALMOST half of the country…(yes, there IS that “pesky” popular vote thing)…is just simply, truly astonishingly stunning to behold. and, into what kind of policies do you think all that will evolve? while I deeply understand the plight and grievances of those who have lost jobs, homes, marriages, and more due to economic difficulties….those difficulties will NEVER be attended to, or even recognized for what they really are by the coming administration. those particular jobs are not ever “coming back”….most gone due to automation and other factors. new jobs are needed….by anyone’s calculations!! but, there are only ANGRY, vengeful, self-interested “policies” coming that will benefit almost none of his voters. hate and evil have won here. unbelievable. my husband of over 45 yrs….I have NEVER seen him so very despondent and sad for his country. I have been dissolving in tears due to staring at a reality that I am sad to announce. hate and evil have won here. be vigilant, everyone. watch and learn about the people he is putting around him. wow. learn the TRUTH about these people. they will be our doom if we are not careful. reckless, angry, defiant, impulsive, aggrieved, out-for-revenge of some sort…these are the folks staffing OUR White House & Gov’t now. and, IF there are any who do not fit this description…they have DEEP conflicts-of-interest. wow. watch. learn. and, then, be prepared to organize and act. have to. ugly but true. some of you will not enjoy what I am saying. no one wants to hear such gloom. I get it. but….I implore you….look at history. look at 1933 and on thru 1945. the things that are now about to fall on us….Europe knows them well. PRAY. but, know that prayer is not really enuf. sorry to be so strong. sad and fearful for my country. very sad & very fearful. Susan, you did a really brave & thoughtful thing when you penned your thoughts. thankfully, most have responded in kindness. to those who have not, I reiterate what someone else noted….these hurtful folks may be surprised if they knew exactly how some quite close to them really feels. to ALL, I really wish a Thanksgiving FULL of blessings to count. and, to Susan (&Joe, & all your lovely friends in UK that you have shared with us…) ALL LOVE AND THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!! xoxo ps: I, myself, have “lost” a very dear friend (who, when she worked in our store had our house keys!…that’s how dear to us she was…) over this whole thing. and, even your brownies could not cheer my hubby up. wow. God help America. and us. safe journey home!! say an extra prayer when you pass Lady Liberty!! may she help us to overcome.
you’re spot on Susan. You’re a light in the fog, and I believe only saying what so very many of us are also feeling and thinking. Good people need to be as awake, aware and informed as possible now. So keep on keeping’ on, and fight the good fight:) We’re right here with you.
XOXO
Give me a hankie~ Boo Hoo ~ Trump Won~
Hurray~ I voted for Trump~
I live in Middle America, am a Christian white old woman~
I lived through the Second World War, The Korean Conflict (hubby in
that one) Vietnam, etc. I live through eight years of Obama and finally
hopefully am free of him and Politically Correctness.
I am celebrating~ Hillary is gone~
God Bless America~ (*J*)
Sometimes I think “political correctness” is another word for “manners.”
You would be correct on that one.
Well said and heartfelt, Susan. I found myself tearing up at many points, because you have spoken what my heart is saying as well! Thank you for being BRAVE enough to share this with us! Whether your fans agree with you or not is of no consequence. The point is that you have poured out your heart from an authentic place of love and light – who could argue with THAT, for heaven’s sake? You are an inspiration! Blessings and peace and MANY thanks for this blog and all that you do to bring love and light to our planet. I have been a fan since your very first book, was a subscriber to the print version of Willard when it first began, and I will continue to follow this blog as long as you keep writing it! I just wanted you to know that I am here, in Florida, cheering you on. Thank you! Mwah! XOXO
It means everything to me Sheila. I don’t know why the negativity carries such weight, but I feel shined upon with every comment I get from a girlfriend who believes in us.
Because of you lastest blog I will never come back to this site again and I have trashed all your books. Have a great life
I don’t have words for this.
Ohhhhhhhhhh…….🙁😔
your response gave me a giggle. Wonder what she’s reading now. I bet she comes back
take courage, dear heart.
I sympathize with you SEE because it is you who has lost something unique and special by trashing the lovely books and blog.
Thats what dictators do, tear up anything they don’t agree with, jail the writers.
Amen! I did not comment when I first read this blog because I was afraid of the hate that would come from me. I can no longer remain silent. I was so angry and depressed that the country I love would elect such a man as Trump. How could they? Didn’t these people listen to what he said? Such a hateful man. The way he talked about women, the handicapped, war heroes, parents who lost their son in war and Hillary. How could you possibly vote for someone like that? A racist will now be in the White House. I feel like 60 years of progress is being erased. Progress in civil rights, women’s rights, handicapped rights, human rights. I swear I can see tears falling from the eyes of the Statue of Liberty. I feel this is the last hurrah of racist white men in America. Those men are afraid because they will no longer have the power they once did. They will soon be out numbered. We cannot let them think they have won. We must stand up to every hateful one of them and the hateful things they will try to do. God bless you for writing this blog, Susan. It took courage. I salute you for that. I have often felt that you and I were sisters from another mister..lol…and this blog confirms it. Love you.
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Susan I think your blog is very thoughtful. It saddens me as well the divide in this country now… I must comment. I believe the divide has been in existence for a very very long time, it just needed a leader to bring it out. I think people’s heart need to change. We need to take the time to get to know one another. I am astounded that people are so selfish and don’t really care about others until it affects them personally. Bravo to you to want to see change. Ghandi said be the change you want to see in the world, right? I think we all have to take the courage to stand up for others. I don’t understand as a person of color why I am hated so much in the only country I have ever known, the country I love. My heart tells me to continue to see the best, and believe the best in others. I appreciate your candor today.
You are not hated Bridget, it has to be so difficult to feel that way, and I can totally understand why you do, it truly breaks my heart. xoxo To a new world, where Love is the name of the game.
Bridget,
Not all people hate people of color. Please don’t think that way. I love ALL people!!! I love and will do whatever I can to make them feel loved and valued for who they are.
Bridget, you are loved by me!!
Dear Susan, Thank you so much for writing on this. You have put into words what is in my heart and many others hearts.💖💙💖 I pray and hope we will all see the truth and light to what is really going on and come together to heal and repair the damage this has caused.
Thank you Teresa, it’s gone very deep as you can see, and everyone is so very hurt by it. Keeping the faith, because this country deserves all of us.
Do not apologize for anything you said. If someone takes offense at anything you said, maybe some soul-searching would be in order. Thank you for verbalizing what I have felt for several years and the sickness I felt in my heart the day after the election and continue to feel. May God have mercy on our country.
Watching the slow unfolding of the division between us has been the single-most frustrating thing of my life. I see us as all wonderful, black, white, brown, beige, pink, purple, and every other color in between, all doing the best we know how to get along, and the fact that they can make us hate each other, through fake news, manipulation, and fear, makes my blood boil.
Dear Susan – I’m with YOU! I read a comment in which a person called you a “snowflake liberal” and she wasted her money on your books. That just proved your point! I was very happy to see that your blog could be something more than magical, whimsical and whatever else others are saying that now is lost. This is real life! We need to find a way to make our country a better place for our children and grandchildren. This election was really an ugly and hateful blot on our country. You couldn’t drive around the area I live without seeing signs that said “TRUMP THAT B****”. I have tried to teach my children and grandchildren not to speak words like that, to be respectful of others and then they see it on political signs for our president no less, the most respected office in our country. What does that say to them? It really upset me that this is what elections have turned into. How can anyone condone this? Is this the new normal for elections? I pray this election was a wake up call that things need to change no matter what side of the fence you are on. I pray that an election like this will never happen again. We can disagree, we can have different ideas about who should win elections, but PLEASE, let us be decent and civil about it. Thank you for saying what was in your heart. It was expressed so eloquently and felt by many who may not have been able to say it as well as you did for fear of being labeled a “snowflake liberal” or a “libtard”. You may have lost some followers but you have gained a whole lot more respect from others and opened up a place for everyone to have their say, good or bad.
Love & Prayers,
Mary
There is ALWAYS good with the bad and nothing is ever black or white … all in shades of grey, teal, and beige. No so bad when you think about it, very decorator-ish! LOL, Libtard! Haven’t heard that one! xoxo, to you Mary.
Bravo, Susan! You beautifully said what is in many of our hearts. Here’s hoping people will come to see we may have different opinions, but facts are facts, and it’s important to see the difference.
Many, many years ago, I stopped watching all the negative television news and I have never listened to talk radio, with the exception of “Mark and Brian” all the years they were on the air. Doing this has given me so much peace of mind, happiness, and contentment. When I finally got my husband to stop, something wonderful happened; he became the happy, positive upbeat man I married so long ago. I agree with you Susan… United We Stand, Divided We Fall. That is the bottom line. Everytime you put something positive into the universe, the world changes. Your kindness invites miracles to show up. Not just in your world but in the whole world.
“Those who don’t believe in Magic will never find it”–Roald Dahl. I just had to write a few words, time does not permit more. I greatly admire you, Susan. This took great courage to write. Tears fell throughout most of it for me. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Life is hard…it is not always sweetness and light. What is happening to our country is a tragedy…Senator Jeff Sessions was just named as a potential Attorney General. His civil rights history is deplorable! He had been quoted in the past, calling an African American Attorney, as “boy”.
The comments from those who felt betrayed by you, were never really genuine souls to begin with. We don’t all have to agree on everything, just kindness and love and compassion for us all. You are in my heart….always. Joan
Thank you Joan, but I’m sure the voices of negativity are probably normal people like us who’ve just been a tad bit more hoodwinked than we have. We’re being used and it happens to all of us. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
Safe travels back to our shores! We welcome you home. Thank you for your thoughtful commentary…we need your voice of reason which is tinged with respect and love of all.
Kind regards,
Pat
Susan, thank you for writing this post! I know it took courage to write about something that can be so devisive. As you say, many of us learned not to talk about politics and religion because it might cause disagreements. Yet, if I have realized nothing else after this election, I have learned that not talking about those things is sometimes a way of letting bad things happen and I don’t want to be one of those people who did not speak up in time. (I already feel like I waited too long but I believe we will all continue to be called on often in the next few months/years to stand up for what we know to be right.) I, too, believe there are good people in both political parties, that most of us really basically want the same things for our children and for our world. I believe we have a right to different opinions but that it is imperative that we have a common respect for each other in the conversations that have to happen because of those differences. The conversations are imperative so that we can again find that common ground that is so necessary for a country based on democracy. I feel like we have been manipulated to fear each other rather than to examine the path that actually led to where we are now. Fighting each other keeps us from realizing that the same people who have been profiting are the ones who are in-line to get even richer in the next few months and years if the election promises are allowed to go through. These are scary and troubling times but we have got to find a place to come together to work against the hatred and fear. Part of that is for people like you and me, who never talk about politics because we are too polite, to start talking. Not yelling, just talking quietly and respectfully but saying what we believe. Democracy requires that kind of discourse! Thank you for taking that first step. You did it in a respectful and caring manner and it is hard to believe that anyone could take offense to how thoughtfully you have written. I hope that all of us who believe in the goodness and rights and freedom of all people can continue to have the important conversations together as we work to try to help keep this country a place we can all still be proud to call ours.
By the time you read this, you will be back home. I hope your crossing wasn’t too bad and that the seasick medicine worked. Welcome Home!
Dear Susan . . . the rediscovery of your books this past year has brightened my life. I am flattered to know your mind when it comes to the recent election. My opinion, different from yours in several aspects and cultured by my own life experiences, only can be illuminated by knowing yet another perspective and one that I trust to be honest.
Safe journey back to your beloved home and country.
Thank you so much Linda!
Well Dear Susan, now you have taken down my gentle post and posted my email and put up a reply that feels like you are manipulating my post , feeling disappointed. I understand you can’t reply to all the posts but this does not seem right what happened to my original post.
Honestly Amie, from the bottom of my heart, I have done nothing at all, I haven’t “taken down” anything, nor have I posted an email on here. I explained we now have over 1000 comments waiting in moderation, I am fairly sure yours is in there along with lots of other people. As you can see, I moderated over 800 so far, I’ve tried my best, but the ship is just about to sail in more ways than one!.
I have been a Susan Branch fan for many years and this post only strengthens my super fan status! Unfortunately, it seems that some people are not comprehending the message of this post. The message in America is now “Either you are with us, or you are against us” and some are placing Susan in their “against us” bucket. The media and other powers have created this message but it’s not one that we have to buy into. My 11 year old daughter is entering the tough middle school identity crisis. We are trying to teach her that she doesn’t have to identify herself as any one thing – smart girl, sports girl, artsy girl – she can be all these things or none of these things. Shouldn’t it be the same with us? We can be Republican, Democrat or neither and care about different issues. We can also disagree with our own party, family or friends. But disagreeing doesn’t erase the commonality that brought us together in the first place. If we place people in “With us” and “Against us” catagories, we are going to lose lots of opportunities to work together on the common issues!
Susan – please keep writing about what’s on your heart – you are a true individual!
I don’t blame them really, they have heard these things so often, they’ve become true. But it hurts the world so much, I don’t think anyone really knows. The only thing I know is that it’s been a long slow downward road ever since the first 24-7 news media began, we are being sucked into the vortex of their hysteria.
Wow if this becomes a political forum I’m gone. There are so many of those those that I look
For forums blogs and vlogs that are uplifting and not deviaive. Just my opinion.
I have been with you since the first edition of your first book and I’m certainly not leaving you now. I have honestly meant to write you via snail mail for so long I am embarrassed, but this is my catalyst. I will write you. Promise This is America. You are America. I am America.
Blessed are we who can express our opinions and not look over our shoulders for ‘them’. Will you please refresh me on where to address my Christmas card to you? You are the best. Always. Always. Lisa
You can send it to PO Box 2463, Vineyard Haven, MA 02568 and thank you!!!
Just wondering why my comment Nov 16, 3:32ish is still waiting to be moderated. I so want you to know how grateful I am for YOU. All of you. Critical thinking is a skill we need now to be able to determine what we believe to be true.
Thanks, Susan, for your vast inclusiveness!
Elizabeth
Girlfriend, you are bringing it! I’ve loved you forever and now I’m so proud of you and love you even more. I was nervous about reading this but I should’ve known that your heart and mind would be in the right place. No need to reply to this, just know that there’s one more person you don’t know and have never heard of that thinks you are a blessing to this world. Thanks so much for the entertainment, enlightenment, and reminders of the beauty in the everyday people and things in our world.
ugh…let’s stop this
Dearest Susan,
I am Canadian and proud of it. But I am also the least politically minded person I have ever met. I’ve always felt that it didn’t really matter who was in office where, as they ALL seem crooked in the end. When I heard Trump was running for president I thought it was a joke, albeit a tasteless one! The whole sordid business just makes me very, very sad. This election will have repercussions the world over.
I am also saddened to read that some of our girlfriends have turned on you. It breaks my heart. I will always see you as my ray of sunshine in a sometimes dark world. Shine on, Girl!
Blessing to both you and Joe,
Laurie
Laurie
Thank you for writing that blog! I agree with you 100 per cent and really cannot understand why people are mad at you, well, just like I can’t understand the election results I guess…a woman president would have been lovely as women don’t send their sons into wars, and then there is the environment, global warming, women’s rights, education, on and on. I’m glad you wrote it. Let these people leave your blog, you don’t need them in your life..
Thank you, Susan, all these years, for everything❤️
Be true to yourself. Wasn’t America founded on freedom of speech?
I love you Susan Branch! You bring so much joy to me, and thousand of others.
Thank You, Thank you, Thank you!
My Susan my Susan !!!! I am absolutely breathless after reading all your words. As my studio Sign reads ” it’s not the breaths I take but the things that take my breath away that count” you have done that once again. I cheer you, and would hug you if I was there GIRLFRIEND. The woman of wonderful words has spit out a few more if them. I hung on every word you wrote. I usually do, but this time I could not even hesitate for a moment for was absolutely mesmerized. Yes I wish you had wrote all this sooner. And yes your Dad is, as always very proud of every word you have shared with us. I am too!!! Yes you have received comments from those less educated humans, but yep they do have the right, even if they are WRONG IN THERE VIEWS. I have been your loyal admirer since day one, and now I love you even more than ever. Don’t change who you are or what you stand for EVER!!! I after all these years want to live long enough to meet you more than ever now. With sincere love and respect, Gayle Hall
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Susan, in my opinion you said this as well as you’ve ever said anything. Thank you!
Here! Here! I could not agree with you more!! I think you should run for office! And kudos to you for sharing this dear Friend. It just makes me respect you that much more. I feel your love for our country all of us wonderful folks of the USA.
God bless you Susan & safe journey home.xoxo
I noticed you deleted my post but that is ok…I guess you didn’t like what I said but it was all true. I still love you as a person and I think we all have a right to speak out on what you wrote. I hope you have a wonderful trip back home. God Bless you!!
Frances, I haven’t deleted any posts … I always do my best to let both sides be heard, but never forget, a computer is a machine, and sometimes, I’ve caught my own comments have been deleted. God Bless you and yours and Happy Thanksgiving!
Thank you Susan for your beautiful and thoughtful post. I am saddened by
all the angry comments. You spoke of how much we all have in common even when
we don’t agree on politics and yet that seems lost on so many of the angry people responding to your post. Thank you for spreading kindness and hope.
This is the very first time I have commented on any blog post you have written, but I have followed your blog for a good while. I have a blog reader, so I first read this post when it came out and there were about 200 comments. I read them all. Today, you have set sail for home and I read your tweet about several hundred more comments having been added. I have not read all of them, just the five or six more recent ones out of 967 when I sat down. I just want to tell you I’m a big fan, and I love reading every single one of your posts, even this one. I thought it was compelling and thoughtfully written. I’m glad you wrote it. I HEARD what you were trying to say (I have to wonder how many of the people who are annoyed by it really heard it, or just went off, seeing a “political post”). That’s all. I will comment again in the future, on a less controversial post. Just wanted to let you know I how much I love your blog and your books, especially “A Fine Romance” and the other two books that followed. I have been stalking your tweets since you have been in England and will miss them while you are aboard ship. Can’t wait to read more as soon as your Internet access is back. 🙂
Thank you Lisa, love my girlfriend stalkers! xoxo
Susan,
I haven’t seen this kind of division in our country since the Vietnam War. People all across the nation and families were divided then over beliefs about if it was a just war or not. I saw my grandmother’s grief over the death of her Marine son (18 years old) during WWII, before I was born, which led me in the direction of becoming a pacifist. I know the USA needed to step in during WWII, but I saw the Vietnam War in a different way. My parents and grandparents thought I was a communist. I wasn’t a communist, I just didn’t want American boys to be killed for no reason. (I still think that the media started that bit about returning soldiers being spit-upon. My friends and I hugged them.) The reason I’m telling this story is because I think this situation with the election is something close to that time. Everyone has a reason for what they think about the president-elect and the current situation of our country. The only thing that can unite us again is to explain our beliefs. That’s what you were doing. This “event” was a good thing. Now your blog holds a record of this historic time.
Hang in there. Like Grandma used to say, “If it doesn’t kill you, it will make you stronger.” (No need to comment on my post. Looks like you’ve got your hands full.)
You wrote, what I have been thinking! Thank you for your blog! So sorry you have to read the mean writings of so Excited!
Well said….no one has said it better. Those who disagree need to read your blog again and remember it comes from your heart with LOVE for all. God bless you.
I believe you have made a bad business decision in airing your opinion in public. You have now divided your “friends” into groups. I believe many in my group will no longer be loyal purchasers. I have read your Willards and bought your books etc for twenty four years and have concluded same as of this reading. My feelings have not changed merely because of your vapid attempt to unify your readers but in the misinformation you so willingly dispense. Your citing of talk radio (read conservative radio) starting in 1989 was inaccurate. In fact, in my area talk radio started before that and was entirely liberal. It espoused, in my opinion divisive and inflammatory information. As one responder put it, you need to do some research.
I am truly disappointed in your supposed healing message as I did love your past offerings. I now will think of them in the past tense and will sleep soundly doing so.
I’m much more about bringing us together, if you looked deep you would see that. I imagine what I think isn’t going to change the world very much. But to clarify, 1988 was when Rush Limbaugh went national (when the rules were changed in the first Bush administration and the Federal Communications Commission (FCC) passed the “fairness doctrine.” What liberal radio talk show did you listen to in the 80s?
Susan,
I can’t tell you how proud I am of you! There are moments in life when we have to “go to the wall” for people and ideas that matter to us. You did that in this blog. I have met and admired so many in my 60 years, but know too few who will “GO TO THE WALL” (risk everything) for others. My deceased father, mother in law and, a friend who died at age 91 were the few I’ve been blessed with. Thank you for joining their ranks! I’m off to work on a painting of my son’s puppy with a bell to heal my dashed spirit.
Fondly, Barb Bromley
I truely believed that your blog was a soft place to land; but not after this one. You are a bigger person than what you portray in this last message. I truely hope you have second good thoughts reference our country’s politics. Remember the old tried and true saying do not talk politics or religion with friends. Do what you do best, which was everything before this last blog.
I’m a whole person Marti, not just the fragments that you might approve of. And you are free to disagree, leave the blog, or stay, but you are not free to decide what I can and cannot say.
I don’t agree with what you said about Hillary. At all. For me the biggest issue is she is supporting abortion up until the time a child is born. This is nothing but murder. For that one issue alone I would not vote for her along with several other issues. I am not a fan of the other guy either.
But I am a fan of you and always will be. I hear your heart and I do believe we have become so divisive. Our Vice President Elect went to see Hamilton and got booed and booed and then the cast publicly said negative things. This is disrespectful and unkind. He was going out to enjoy an evening after a very long and hard campaign. How embarrassing for him.
I will never understand how our President Elect was chosen – why not kindly, dignified Ben Carson?! It was a bad year to vote for anybody in my opinion, but for me innocent children’s lives take precedence over everything. I am sorry so many were unkind to you, who has given us so much pleasure and comfy, warm moments. It’s your blog and you have a right to say what you want! Hope you are safely at home by the time you read this if you get that far through all the comments. You impress me so much reading all your comments and even responding to most of them. That is someone who really, really cares!
Such a huge question, so complicated, as in Hillary’s words below:
From my own personal experience, I have been in countries that have taken very different views about this profoundly challenging question [of abortion].
I went to China in 1995 and spoke out against the Chinese government’s one child policy, which led to forced abortions and forced sterilization because I believed that we needed to bear witness against what was an intrusive, abusive, dehumanizing effort to dictate how women and men would proceed with respect to the children they wished to have.
And then shortly after that, I was in Romania and there I met women who had been subjected to the Communist regime of the 1970s and ‘80s where they were essentially forced to bear as many children as possible for the good of the state. And where abortion was criminalized and women were literally forced to have physical exams and followed by the secret police and so many children were abandoned and left to the orphanages.
Source: 2008 Democratic Compassion Forum at Messiah College , Apr 13, 2008
Hi Susan. Your blog always is a bright spot. Your books are dear and bring happiness to all who read them. I love the world your books present. They provide an escape back to simpler times and the joy of making others happy.
I too, feel dismay over the way our country has split down the middle. We seem to have been reduced to taking sides with both sides throwing hate and unkindness at the other. So unfortunate. I don’t believe it will change until hearts change.
Hopefully you haven’t split your followers and fans down the middle when you spoke for one side over the other. Your fans come from both sides of the political spectrum. We love the beautiful world you paint for us both literally and in words. They transport us to a world we all aspire to. You have a kind heart as evidenced in your writings and endeavors. That is what we have enjoyed hearing and hope you will continue in that vein. Unfortunately I think you compromised your platform when you took sides in a public way. You do so much good for this world when you act as a unifier, presenting a more perfect world. There are so many good people, Trump supporters as well as Hillary devotees.
I couldn’t agree more. But the message gets missed. Nothing is going to change for us until we stop letting them divide us. I don’t care who is president. A robust debate about how to move forward with the needs of the country is a wonderful thing. Not moving forward at all, is awful. And while we don’t move, they take our jobs, tax money and use it any way they want.
Love you Susan. You spoke the truth from your heart. As you said, let the chips fall where they may. I know how you feel. I feel the same. I love you, I appreciate you, and, even if I did not agree, I respect your opinion.
I deliberately postponed reading this blog entry, but decided I was ready this evening. I read a lot of the comments, as well, but not all (!) of them, so forgive me if what I say has been stated more eloquently earlier. I’m a college prof who has taught Kindergarteners through high school seniors over the years. This is how I see it. The wonder of technology has opened many doors as well as closed one that is very sigmificant. I strive to provide my college kids with tools that foster creative, team oriented problem solving.This is not always easy as a lot of our teacher role models were more “sage on the stage” rather than “the guide on the side” It’s especially challenging during this time in our great American history when life as an individual is a particular focus. MySpace. Facebook. Twitter. Of course, the focus is on me, myself and I. My students are absolutely fantastic and it’s my most ardent belief that they will be incredible teachers in the years to come. But the struggle is real. Where does a person go for the truths that were supposed to be be self-evident? I believe it’s going to be far more efficient, and take you in directions you never imagined or considered, if you work with and for others to discover or uncover those truths. That is a very tall order when most of ones social experience has been peculiarly solo in nature. Turning outward with open minds and hearts is a road to understanding and, it appears, so many of your good readers know that. But one comment really touched my heart and left me so profoundly sad. One of your readers, giving thanks for all the good things you’ve brought into her life, feared she would be unloved as a “deplorable” while she tucked her little tuxedo kitty into her little quilt. That really got me. Name calling. What a terrible thing to do. Shunning. Shaming. You are spot on, Susan. That is most definitely not the American way. We the people must reject all forms of cruelty. Step by step and person by person we can all make a difference. Those young kids (and also some not-so-young) who didn’t feel that their vote counted may have learned an incredibly valuable lesson earlier this month. We owe it to our President, whether our preferred candidate or not, to give him or her our support. That does not mean we should not engage in the serious discourse that inspires us all to think creatively and work with each other to solve our problems. I believe we can do it, and must do it and, as a result, come to love our Country far greater because we did it together. I met you in Chicagoland in May. You and Joe are a terrific team. I met a new friend that day, because we both had you in common. Thank you for all your thoughtful work (and some darned fine recipes, too, for certain!)
Your words were so inspiring. I am the same age as Susan, and I remember growing up with a sense of community and a sense of responsibility to those around us. We, as a country, seem to have lost so much of that feeling. When asked by a co-worker, “what defines a meaningful life”, I replied, “to touch the life of another in a meaningful way”. It might be a simple gesture- holding a hand of someone in pain or sitting quietly with someone in despair. Just being present. We, as human beings, share the same basic needs, regardless of our race, religion, or country of origin. Foremost among these is the need to be nurtured; the need to connect. I agree with you when you say that we must support our president elect, whether or not he was the candidate of our choice. It is the only way we can move forward. We don’t have to agree with all of his policies, but we must work together- person by person, step by step- to solve our problems. We owe it to our children and grandchildren, and we owe it to ourselves. We must not forget the principles on which our country was founded.
I couldn’t agree more. Thank you. Raising children in this crazy, messed up culture of ours is frightening and sad. My extended family is divided over politics, and it threatens what we talk about and and how we say things to each other in everyday conversation. I keep drilling in to my children: “Kindness counts!”
And it’s Thanksgiving . . . 😥
Thank you for sharing your heart! I’ve purchased your calendars and books, but this was my first visit to your blog. I am not disappointed! Wishing you nothing but peace and joy!
Bravery is not for the “faint of heart”. Dear Susan, remember you are about Inspiration! You are kind and have a wonderful way of seeing the extraordinary in the smallest of things. I saw a wee lady bug on a windy day in Nov. The tiniest of red speckled cute made me smile.
Remember who you are! A princess ;there are many want to be, but it is a true Princess that will shine the light the brightest.
Anne Frank found beauty in the midst of darkness and shared it with others.
That my dear friend will not always be easy.
The Princessa “literally means she who takes first place.
Let your light shine! A good book is The Princessa by Harriet Rubin.
I enjoy the song “Rainbow Connection” by the Carpenters.
Viva le difference!
Celebrate every day and for the nay sayers always remember You are a child of God first!
Delightfully, Patricia
Thank you for writing from your heart~I applaud your courage to state in your blog how you are responding to this bitter election cycle; I am still in a state of shock about all of it and cannot bring myself to turn on the national news. I am an optimist and I am hopeful that the new regime will not set us all back 50 or more years. I look forward to your future blogs, beautiful art, inspiration and enthusiasm for all that makes us good and caring. By the time you have ‘moderated’ all of these comments, you will need another vacation or a couple glasses of wine~again, thank you for your friendship~hope you and Joe and Jack have a peaceful and calm Thanksgiving and Christmas~I loved being in England and Scotland with you~thanks for sharing~
Thank you Susan, for this heartfelt post. I have been struggling this past week to try to come to terms with this election. For me, this goes way deeper than just politics. I’m slowly getting back to normal and trying to enjoy the little things that make me happy, which is why I read your post. I do believe there is an evil force trying to bring us all down and if we are all fighting we aren’t paying attention to that evil and won’t notice it until it’s too late. I’m reminded of a quote by St. Teresa of Avila who says, “Christ has no body now but yours. No hands, no feet on earth but yours. Yours are the eyes through which he looks compassion on this world. Yours are the feet with which he walks to do good. Yours are the hands through which he blesses all the world.” We, now more than ever, need to go out and be love. There is still good in this world and it is worth fighting for. We must not let the evil one take our inheritance from us.
I love your thoughts and am now a new girlfriend. Words matter, elections matter, women and minority voices matter. I intend to read all of the comments and will agree with some, and others, not so much. Those in power (millionaires/billionaires/corporate media/corporations) have pitted us against one another, and, therefore, while we are needless bickering – they are lining their pockets with our money. Sad. You have a beautiful website. God Bless. Doris
Bravo!!!