Good morning! By the time some of you read this, I will likely be standing in line at the ships doctor to get an injection for seasickness. Yes! The ships doctor! We leave today! And word on the street is that we are, eeeek, going into 50mph gale winds and high seas, and all that other kind of wording that sends stabs of trepidation into my stomach. HOWEVER, onward and upward, off we go full speed ahead! Pray for us! Homeward Bound!👏
I got up early this morning to say good bye and because I just couldn’t leave without a quick explanation of what’s going on with my last post. Right now, there are 969 comments in moderation waiting for me to read! Shocking number! So far I’ve been able to read and comment on almost the same number, 921. Some of you that have written may wonder what has happened to your comment and I didn’t want to go off without explaining. I’m going to have to close my computer this morning, and it’s very likely it won’t work for me again until we get back home, which is a couple of days after Thanksgiving. They say there is “Internet Service” on the ship, but if there is, it’s from 1865 and only 3 people can be on at one time ~ is my experience of shipboard Internet. It also may seem to some that I pick and choose which comments to answer, but the reason it might look that way is because the comments show up, last ones, first. So if I go to bed with 300 comments waiting, when I wake up, those 300 comments are at the bottom, and 400 more are on top of them, so I just go with whatever is in front of me and work down until until I can’t anymore (because of things like having to sleep, or packing, or the frown on Joe’s face when he sees me on the computer for many hours). So that’s the situation right now. No one has been deleted, those that don’t see your comments, are still in “moderation.” And that will be true for the comments you leave on this post too, I probably won’t see them until I get home ~ and by then it will be time to get the Christmas tree, and write a new Holiday Willard, and all of this will be old news.
I will also add, in case you decide to read the comments, it’s become a much bigger discussion than I ever imagined, most of the comments are wonderful. Some aren’t so wonderful. Be careful of your heart. I suggest you go watch an old movie or cook something afterward to get rid of political cobwebs. I tried, with every good intention, to talk about how Americans are being divided, that no matter who is president, nothing seems to change, except things get worse for the middle class. I tried to say we are all upset about the direction things are going, not just one side or the other. I pointed out it didn’t used to be like this, we used to be able to disagree, and still like each other. Divide and conquer. United we stand. These are truisms to take to heart.
But as you’ll see, a few Girlfriends, who have been longtime readers of mine, even good friends, have “unfriended” me because I talked about election specifics. I probably made a mistake by telling who I voted for and why I chose her over the other guy. I was naive. I thought I could do that in this country, especially because of our years together, and all we have in common, and everyone would still like me. Don’t worry, I keep what is worth keeping, and with the breath of kindness, I blow the rest away…
My cup, I want you to know, is more than half full. From BOTH SIDES, both Republicans and Democrats, and those that are neither (like myself, by the way, a long time registered Independent), have sent supportive messages for which I am SO grateful. It does hurt to have people so mad at me. Some are upset because they considered this blog their “happy place” and for them I have ruined it by inserting politics. I’m sorry for that. I don’t intend to keep this up when I get home, but I saw something, like when I go on a walk, or make a pie, that I wanted to share with my girlfriends. I’m not asking for us to agree on everything, I’m asking us to look at what is happening to us. Families and old friends are being torn apart. Its wrong.
The photos of the women I put in that post are there to show how much we have in common. If you found out one of them was a Democrat or a Republican, would you instantly hate them? Thank goodness that has never been part of my agenda. I think we 
Americans are amazing, all of us, and it breaks my heart to see what’s happened in the last 25 years. While we have been goaded into hating each other by the rich and powerful in this country, by corporate media, fake news and shock jocks, lobbyists, and many of our government leaders, the powers that be have been getting away with murder. Follow the money, who is profiting from us not getting along? It certainly isn’t us. We’ve been dragged into two wars (unpaid for, on our backs, they made millions maybe even billions on that war), they have sent our jobs overseas, turned our small towns into ghost towns, let our bridges fall down, and let the banks run away with our tax money, our homes, our retirements. They have decimated the middle class. And where has all that money gone? Look how many billionaires there are now. Now, they want to get rid of health care, because the insurance industry, the drug industry can’t make as much money on us, that IS the reason. It’s not perfect, what we have, but neither was social security when it started. It gets tweaked. But the Congress WON’T do it. They want it to fail. And it’s OUR money. Watch how they keep taking things away from us in order to please the corporation lobbyists. And, while we argue among ourselves, they line their pockets with our tax money. It’s a true thing. But some people, for some reason I cannot fathom, do not want to hear it, bigtime. Hence, we have some rather vitriolic responses.
I am sorry from the bottom of my heart if I have offended anyone. Truly I am. I just thought I would shine my little light on this thing I am seeing. In many countries across this planet we all share, citizens are being put into prison and killed, simply for disagreeing with the people in power. It could happen here. This anger, blaming and vitriol is the first step. Demonizing the press? Isn’t that like Nazi Germany? Next comes … what? Violence? Is that really where we want to go as a nation? Is that our vision for our children? If someone tells you your neighbor is no good, tell them to take a flying hike off a rolling donut. K? OK, I’m done. That’s all I wanted to say. I love you, I’m sorry for anyone that I hurt with this. You’ll never know how much in my heart I want to help. That desire has been with me since I was five years old and I can’t help it. 💞 Wish me luck on this rock and roll of a ship. I still have lots of England I can’t wait to share with you when I get home. And Happy Thanksgiving! May your hearts be filled with the spirit of this lovely season we are about to embark upon. 
PS. The sweet letters in this post are from children who wrote me after their teacher read the story I wrote about a Martha’s Vineyard woman who lived in the 1800s named Nancy Luce . . . in case you were wondering.
Speak on sweet girl and carry your head high!! I so appreciate you sharing your kind and loving heart! YOU are what is good about this land we call America! I love you and always look forward to reading your post no matter the subject. You have blessed my life, touched my heart and taught me so much. Praying for a very calm and safe journey home!! Give the map man my CONGRATS for taking such good care of you!!
Dear Susan- I left a brief post before and just want to say that I will always love what I love about you and look forward to hearing about your trip to Scotland. All you have given to us, the many ways you inspire us, are from your very unselfish, caring and loving heart. I will always appreciate you and consider you a true kindred spirit. Maybe now is a good time to tell you that years ago when my girls were little, they were asked “if your mother was stranded an island, what would she want to have with her?” And yes, their answer was “her Susan Branch books!”❤️ Wishing you and Joe a safe trip home and a wonderful Thanksgiving. ❤️
Adorable Ruth, can’t thank you enough for your dear comment. xoxo
Dear Susan,
I hope that you, Joe and Petey enjoy your trip back home in spite of the rough sea. Enjoy your Thanksgiving aboard The Queen Mary! I still smile at that picture of the SWEET POTATO that they served you on your voyage to England! My gift to you: “Keep Smiling… It is ever true that sun comes after rain, And we have often proved the fact that Joy comes after pain. It’s when the Light is breaking through the clouds which made us sad, Our hearts rejoice with Peace and Love and once again we’re glad”. (Author unknown) I wish you smooth sailing…may the wind be at your back, and God hold you in the palm of His hand. ❤️Happy Thanksgiving! xoxo
When the sea becomes rough just think of who is waiting for you at home – JACK! He will be sooooo excited to see you. No worries. Relax and forget about all of us for a while. We will still be here when you feel up to writing again.
So glad you won’t ‘back down’– and anyone who tells you to stop your blog/opinions needs to get a grip. The notion that you can’t hold a different viewpoint from their’s is downright frightening. What are we supposed to be? A bunch of lemmings blindly following along as we go off a cliff!?!?
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I think some people who have objected to your post have chosen to be ignorant of the facts – and they have fallen under the spell of “Faux News” and the con man – so sad.
I can’t go out and join the protesters – but I’m taking the stand that I will support organizations whose programs I value as well as subscribe to newspapers that continue to do true journalism – with research and FACTS. (Remember what the Washington Post did with Nixon/Watergate and the Boston Globe did with the child abuse in the Catholic church)
People need to be EDUCATED as to what their government can and can not do – stop fretting about their weapons being taken from them by the government, etc. (If they knew the process – and how long it would take – IF they could get Congress and the states to comply, etc. they wouldn’t be running around feeling so threatened!)
But I digress………….I am so looking forward to your return – though I have to say I have thoroughly enjoyed your time away! So rest up on the voyage home – and be ready to flood our lives with the GOOD things you bring to us.
Love and appreciate you so much!!!
Hi Susan, I hope the seasickness never happened and you are home safely. I’m sorry that your blog has become a place I don’t want to go any longer. Surely you knew about half of all voters would not agree with you. And when you explained you didn’t want to hurt anyone, then said the same things that were offensive again, it just didn’t help. I wish you well and know that in your heart, you only did what you felt you had to do, just as I do.
Susan, I am not sure what is happening with your fans, but read not too long ago what I consider good advice—never take anything personally.Does that make sense
to you?
I’m not. I think we are all in the same boat. xoxo
I am sending a big hug to you!!! I am still and always will be one of your girlfriends.
I was sad to see the negative comments on your last blog. Everyone has a right to voice their opinion in a free country. This is the first national election, where I’ve seen and heard so many hateful responses to people saying what they think. I’ve never been so worried about where our country is headed, not even after 9/11.
Your books and blogs have been delightful to read. Have a safe journey home. Happy Thanksgiving!
I’m visualizing you and your Joe, snuggled up in your lovely bed, the sea and wind outside, but not wild enough to make you ill. Visions of Sugar Plums and Jack dancing in your heads. First blast of cold air coming to New England this weekend, crackling fires, advance preps for Thanksgiving going on all over this wonderful country. I’ll be making the pumpkin cheesecake to share. We’re having some health issues in our home, so instead of all coming here, we’ll be meeting friends and family for dinner in a lovely restaurant serving a traditional TG meal. Much love and thanks for your courage and inspiration. You give so very much in every way.
Debbie
Dear dear Susan, You are brave and eloquent and this is the perfect place to give your opinion. How else would I know how you feel? There was SO much that I didn’t read every word of your last post but I sure got the jist;-). I agree with pretty much all of what you wrote but one thing that stands out is we all in this country have freedom of speech and I admire those who can put so many feelings in to words. I also marvel at how much you notice that goes on and your ability to ‘read between the lines’. Safe journey for you and Joe and waiting for your return and more musings. God Bless you.
Susan–I bought “Christmas from the Heart of the Home” in the base bookstore when we were stationed overseas (England!) in the 90s. It warmed my heart. Have bought lots of other ones since then! I’m so sad about the state of things in America. My friends are divided just about down the middle. I can never hate them. But I am so sad. Wish that more people had voted and that the election’s outcome had been a truer reflection of reality. I don’t understand why people don’t vote! Happy Thanksgiving to you and Joe.
Safe travels. I voted as you voted, but as I tell my friends who voted for the “other guy,” our friendship outweighs a single vote so let’s agree to disagree and both work to heal the wounds opened by this ugly, contentious election. It’s about respect for the opinions and beliefs of those different from ourselves and it’s about listening to the voices of those different from ourselves. I, for one, thought you were very brave to speak your mind. Your blog is my happy place too, but you were no more than a voice of reason.
The truly wonderful blessings we have in the US is freedom of speech. Not everything everyone writes or says will please each of us. However, we have that right. What we should value is our differences. Should we keep quiet when our next leader ridicules a disabled person, is know to threaten with lawsuits simply because he does not like what someone says or does. We are the ones who will need to wtxh ro make sure everyone’s rights are protected. It will be hard to stomach the next four years watching a man whom has questionable intelligence and insecurity surround himself with offspring and borish men who will tell him what he wants, rather than needs to hear. We already see the trickle down effect of Trump. Students chanting about building a wall, Gold Star parents with their son’s remains waiting to be place on the plane, booed because there was delay in a plane departing. All we can do is pray the majority of voting citizens stand up for what is correct and not give in to behavior no one would be proud of. Susan, I am proud you took a stance on what you are feeling. It is your blog and quite frankly yours to do with as you wish! Keep it up.
Susan I am right there with you!! Don’t worry too much about people who disagree with you or defriend you, they will be the ones who loose. You are so entertaining , I love your books and your art. In fact I just frame the December painting that was in one of you calendars. It is so cute sitting on my counter for all to see. Have a safe journey and keep up the good work.
Hugs to you
Charlene
I too am saddened by all of the things that have happened before and after the election. There are too many people on both sides, underline both, that are doing their best to drive a wedge between us. I have family that unfriended us because they didn’t like what mainly my husband has said. The way I look at it too bad for them. We’re supposed to have free speech but that only applies if they agree with you. So we will go on without them sadly. Big hugs to you Susan and know we are still here and we love you very much.
Growing up, my mother always had your books scattered about her kitchen. As a young girl, I absolutely loved looking at your illustrations and reading everything you wrote. I can still remember my mother making me hot chocolate on a cold New England morning and handing me your book that she had bought the night before. I just sat there in front of the roaring fire, reading your book for hours. It is a memory that I still cherish so many years later. There is just something so quintessentially cozy about your work. Now as a new mother (and living in sweltering hot south Florida), I find myself reading your blog after a hectic day and needing a dose of that warm New England charm and coziness. As a conservative woman, I found your blog anything but offensive. I have always enjoyed hearing other people’s perspectives, and really enjoyed (and agreed!) with what you had to say. You will continue to have me as a reader for many, many years to come. Thank you for being such an inspiration Susan, reading your blog surely adds such a bright spot in so many of our lives.
Lovely Brittney. xoxoxo
Dear Susan, I left a (supportive) comment on your previous post, but I wanted to write again on a separate post that hopefully won’t have so many comments awaiting moderation! I am a new commenter, but not new to your blog. I love your autobiographical books (and cookbooks, but especially the former). I have loved following along with you and Joe on your trip to England and I eagerly await your return to shore and Internet so that you can continue to share with us. Safe travels, and thank you for all the pictures, videos, and updates! And…WHERE do you find all the wonderful quotes?!
Your previous post was honest and thoughtful. There is no need to apologize for it. I don’t know about everyone else, but I feel much more like your true “girlfriend” because you felt confident enough in our understanding and care to share such personal concerns with us. True friends are there for the happy, sunny moments and also for the darker, worried moments. Thank you for sharing your true feelings.
And now, safe travels to you, my friend! And then, welcome home!
Melissa
Girlfriends Forever!! ♥ Susan, dear, I so admire your courage to speak up!! I can’t imagine how hard it was to write that post. We love you for all of the times that you have spoken up here and in your books. It was lovely to see pictures of all of the Girlfriends enjoying special times together during your book signings. I know just how they felt!!
I hope you will take a little blog break during your trip home. Just enjoy quiet times with Joe, reread your diary, and get lots of rest. I hope the sea will be kind. (Fingers crossed!!) This will be such a special Thanksgiving for you and Joe. Can’t wait to hear all the details later on! I have been following along quietly on Twitter. It was so lovely to see all of your photos and videos. I was enchanted by your visit to Scotland! Best of all, you and Joe were able to make truly wonderful memories with dear friends!! Those are the travel memories that I always cherish the most. ♥
We just returned from visiting loved ones in Arizona. After beautiful Autumn days, winter weather blew into Illinois last night. Brrrr!! So, I spent today inside, ironing our Thanksgiving linens, choosing our dishes, and planning a centerpiece. I’m celebrating the little things that make life sweet… and taking a break from the news. I will be thinking of you on Wednesday as I make your Cranberries.
So happy that you will be home soon, Susan!! We need your light to shine over us all. Wishing you a safe crossing!! Hope we can watch the Queen Mary coming into New York Harbor. So many of us watched as you set sail for England!! Will you be arriving on Friday??
Happy Thanksgiving to ALL of our Girlfriends!!
Warm hugs,
Dawn (in Illinois)
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I think we arrive Saturday morning! xoxoxo as always Dawn, with much love.
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Susan, do a couple of deep inhales and exhales while you are now on board. The old saying…Can’t we all just get along or agree to disagree has gone by the wayside sometime ago. It makes me very sad…..sending more hugs. One of your forever girl friends. DeLynn
Susan, I felt so sad when I read about the Girlfriends’ reactions to your post. My best friend lives far away. She is very conservative and religious. I am very liberal and atheist. We don’t talk politics or religion much, but respect each other’s beliefs, find common ground in other areas, and email & FaceTime regularly. I so loved Dinah Craik’s quote, I sent it to her along with a link to your post. You are a beacon of joy, beauty and kindness in a world. Keep on doing what you do. We love you!
Catherine
Safe travels back home, Susan!! Sending much love your way! ❤❤
Praying that you have a safe trip home. Thank you for all the loving and kind thoughts you share with us, your “Girl Friends”. I treasure your friendship.
Susan, I am so happy that you expressed what was in your heart. True, it doesn’t matter that we might disagree on religion or politics. We can all still be friends. As I read your blog it expressed exactly what my husband and I have been feeling throughout and since this election. I applaud your sharing your thoughts with us.
Throughout the campaigning one of the pen pals, that I met thru your website, posted her feelings and lots of articles about her favorite candidate and rude ones against the other. I didn’t feel the same way about her candidate, but I never mentioned it on Facebook or in our letters. And I never agreed or “liked” or disliked any of the other posts on Facebook.
I did, however, comment on a post about the outcome of the governors’ race here in North Carolina. All I said was the loser should just accept defeat and not demand a recount at taxpayer expense, when it was so obvious that he lost. My pen pal wrote me a rather unfriendly private message about what I posted and supposed my feelings about the presidential outcome. I advised her that she had no idea of my thoughts and it hurt me that her message was so rude. She suggested I not be her pen pal any longer and unfriended me on Facebook. I was so surprised and disappointed. But…if she couldn’t accept what she thought were my feelings then she is not the friend I thought she was.
I just had to share this with you. Don’t let the haters spoil your outlook on life. People should be accepting of anyone else’s beliefs, feelings, thoughts.
What happened to kindness? You would think I’d be over such behavior at my age- 66. All of my years as a teacher that was what I taught in my Kindergarten classes- kindness and acceptance. We all like ice cream or candy, maybe different flavors, but we all like them.
Just know that I will always follow you and love you for who you are.
Happy THanksgiving.
A friend forever – Peggy
Dear Susan,
Be still my heart! My collection of your books grew without any serious intent to seek them out. They “spoke to me,” and I bought them as gifts then couldn’t stand the thought of giving them up. Your views of family, friends, and home encouraged creativity, a happier less critical view of the world and faith in myself. If they could, the Adrian Dominican nuns who taught me in high school would want to take credit for the woman you have become. Stay true to yourself, thank God for where you are in life and continue to do what you do. You have great presence. Enjoy this special voyage home with Joe, and think of your happy heart walking through your front door. Here in Michigan snow flurries, rain and wind are reminding us who is really in charge!
I think I see where the problem might be. You said that you “saw something” and “wanted to share it with your girlfriends” and as a result are surprised that so many either took offense, were put off, or withdrew all together……but….the reality, the REALITY, is that we are not really your girlfriends. Not really. We will never sit at that cozy table of yours, adorned with wonderful glasses and dishes and delectable meals while candles burn and conversation flows. We will never come down to that cozy kitchen is fuzzy robes and slippers and linger over hot tea in darling little mugs while munching on home made scones. Those are scenes for your true, real-life girlfriends, like Diana and the others. And it is to those dear, REAL friends to whom you should have poured out your heart. THAT is reality. That is what friends are for. We, on the other hand, are virtual reality “girlfriends” and we are bound to you by what you offered us…what you created for us, a virtual world of love and warmth and safety and a dream life of a happy marriage, sweet cats, a magnificently perfect home in everyone’s dream location, The Vineyard. It was a place where we could share recipes, feel inspired to hang out sheets to flap in the wind and actually believe it was fun doing so, watch the birds, tend the garden, hang out in the coziest studio ever, and more. You created a brand, if you will, and we allowed ourselves to be a part of that bit of virtual reality, and live vicariously through your posts. Can you see that? Can you see that our relationship is based on that which you presented and created for us. Politics was not part of the deal,particularly politics which insulted a great deal of us. If we want politics, there are a zillion overly zealous websites and facebook pages trying to pull us in every direction. There is no escaping it. But there was one way: by entering your world vicariously. Your real-life girlfriends can accept all parts of you, your politics, your dismay, your vitriolt. But for us? It was the happy gene that lured us and centered us and made us believe that there was such joy in the simple things. Your mistake was trying to blend your reality ( anger over the election) with the reality that is your brand. Hence the people who have bolted from your life after that post, feeling deceived and disheartened that what we thought WAS, really was not. Kind of like finding out that your husband was cheating all along. The real Susan Branch is allowed a full range of emotions and all that goes with them. But when you are selling the happy gene, you best stick to being happy cause that’s why we tune into your blog and buy your books. We want to feel good. And that’s the bottom line.
You have decided, for me, that politics was not part of the deal. But since I set the terms of the deal, this is what it actually is: the deal is just me, connecting with my wonderful readers, including you if you are one, and even if you aren’t, on every level of interest, with all welcome. I am not angry over the election, I am angry that we are being divided against each other and are not seeing it. No matter who we elect, things don’t get better for us. I don’t “sell” anything fake. And “real,” whether it be recipes, cleaning house, gardening, or our country, does not have to be “sold.” Feeling good comes from within, no one can “make” you feel it, by “selling” happy.
Understood. I continue to wish you well ( and I even bought one of your books, “Christmas Joy”, yesterday), and I hope that….despite what some others have posted…it can be understood that those of us who disagree politically are not “haters” or “puppets” or “hateful, hurtful, nasty, mouthy, and disrespectful” or any other unkind words… These are actually more descriptive of those who have taken to the streets advocating murder and rape and destruction and insurrection in response to a fair election. I have every hope and prayer of our Country having a positive and productive four years. Happy Thanksgiving.
I agree with Diana. The 9 11 in slow motion comment was over the top.
I’m not so sure… time will tell. We are all praying.
Hmmmm…..well, maybe we are not really girlfriends in the usual sense of the word – we don’t regularly sit at Susan’s table – but she has invited us into her life, and isn’t that what girlfriends do? I think she would welcome us all at her table, if she could.
Susan, I, too, think of your blog as my happy, safe place, but it’s your happy , safe place too. I don’t want to get stuck on one blog post. You have created such a wonderful and special place here, and it’s still got its magic.
Take a flying hike off a rolling donut??? LOLOLOL!!!
Diana, I think I know where you are coming from…..but, you are only seeing what you want to see. Yes, Susan is a happy person and what she does(her blog/artwork/books) makes HER happy. If it makes us happy/content/connected…that’s us deciding we want to be a part of her world. If you read her books, especially the last three that tell her life’s story, you find out that she’s much much more than just happy/cozy/safe, but a whole person, warts and all. Yet, she choses to share her life with us….all of it, politics included. She’s not a brand, but a caring, loving, classy lady, who would literally invite you into her home if you showed up at her doorstep. Rachel from Texas
…and again, Diana, I believe that Susan’s post was NOT political in the sense you are mentioning. It isn’t one vs. another. The main topic is about American citizens being drawn apart, being fooled into fighting against each other. I don’t see any blame being placed on one party or the other but on the media, the corporations, the wealthiest of the wealthy that benefit from everyone being separated into their own vicious corners and snapping at one another while they run away with the prize – sort of a fox in the hen house analogy. I do wish people would see THAT instead of becoming offended. I simply cannot imagine why anyone would be offended by what Susan is trying to express. And, besides, we should all know that Susan would never knowingly offend anyone. I’m saddened to think that some of her oldest girlfriends would think so.
AND – I do consider Susan and all of you “girlfriends”. For heaven’s sake, people meet online all the time and marry, why can’t we be girlfriends online!? I, for one, love that aspect of the relationship we all have!
Happy Holidays, Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Kwanzaa, Happy Eid al-Adha, Happy Festivus for the Rest of Us! (I hope I didn’t leave any out. I absolutely do NOT want to offend anyone 🙂 )
♥Deb♥
YESSSSSS! Being tricked into fighting each other while they all walk off with our whole way of life! xoxo Thank you Deb!
You’ll never be able to please everyone. Haters are going to hate and spew, because that’s their comfort level. Your last post gave me such positive reassurance, and the knowledge that I wasn’t the only one sad and afraid about the direction of our beloved country. We have so much to offer each other, but we also need to love and respect each other, so that we can accept differences in opinions and points of view. Threatening is a way to hold you hostage to guilt, and affects your sweet nature to please everyone – not going to happen. You have a great support system, and we love and respect you for your contributions to our happy place. Reality TV has opened the door to the worst behavior in some, and make it acceptable to be a bully, hateful, hurtful, nasty, mouthy, and disrespectful to everyone – equal opportunity for all. When a candidate (and now the leader of the free world) has certain behaviors, it trickles down to those who don’t have a filter on their brain, conscience, or skills to behave in a rational mature level – it’s all about them. Don’t beat yourself up for the shortcomings of others. Stay positive, and keep those happy posts coming.
Haters are just puppets for whoever they listen to on TV news and corporate media radio. They repeat back, like parrots, words like “snowflake liberal.” It’s so obvious, I want to say, where did you hear that one. They don’t realize that they, just like everyone else, are being ripped off by this negativity, they make the talk show hosts rich while their jobs are being stolen, their bank accounts emptied into the coffers of the powers that be ~
Just wanted to say that I love your art, your books, your stuff and all of the “happy” things that you share even down to the kind of font you use :). I have found that politics are just hard to talk about with anybody (family, friend or stranger) especially if someone has even a little bit of difference of opinion. Thank you for using your talents to help make our lives a little cozier, a little warmer and a little fuzzier :)!
Dear Susan,
Wishing you and Joe a safe and wonderful trip home. Can’t wait to hear more about your fabulous journey! Also wanted to wish you and your family a very Happy Thanksgiving. Many thanks for the elegantly written posts. You are truly amazing and I will forever be a fan!!
I didn’t known that an person could get a shot aboard ship for seasickness! 😴. The wind is howling here in WI for the last 13 hours.
Now shut off your computer and cuddle up to your Joe!!!
I am still your GF….and everyone else’s no matter what is happening, or if I agree or not with everyone. 😄 I wanted to wish everyone a Happy Thanksgiving this week! I feel especially grateful….we now have a new kitty who adopted us, and “Winston” is the cutest ever. Happy sailing Susan and Joe! Xoxoxo
Susan,
I read your post & was upset, but, it never occurred to me feel angry. You have your opinion & I have mine. I do agree with much of what you said but not all by any means. I was disappointed because I have every book you have written going all the way back to the beginning. I love the so very much. I have always wanted to be an artist & admired you for doing so. My life took a different course and I found myself a single mom running fast to keep it all together. It was very hard to read your words and think about the times I sat at work worried sick waiting for me daughter to call to tell me she was home, in the house and safe while you were sitting at your table, painting. But then I thought about it all and realized that I have no idea what when on in your life other than what you have shared and that we all have our ‘stuff’ whatever it is or however hard. I’m much older now and things are good. I’m blessed in so many ways and am so happy that you are too. We must let each other be themselves. No one can really be just exactly what we want. I have many friends who have been so vocal about this election too and it has been a real stress. I think my best solution may be to remain true to my beliefs and let each do the same. I realize God did not put me on this earth to be the judge. That’s his job & must each stand before Him someday. I hope when it’s my turn He knows I did my best for my family, my friends & my Lord. God Bless you & have a safe, restful trip home. We all can’t wait for your next blog post, Willard and, if we’re lucky, book. Happy Thanksgiving. PS, Give Jack a giant hug!
I’m sorry that anyone and especially you, were upset. I was trying to point out something about how we as a nation are being divided by the media. Who we voted for, that is a different issue, and I honestly respect everyone’s opinion. Thank you for your kindness.
Hi Susan,
Catching up on my reading, which includes your blog. Just happy to know you are still a kindred spirit, as I voted the same as you. Don’t worry, remember the First Amendment. We are entitled to our opinions. As everyone is, and if someone disagrees, they still should be respectful of your rights.
As for politics and the media, I have chosen take a vacation, and avoid the news, and the hateful rhetoric. It just makes me depressed. Instead, I watch the Hallmark Channel and the old tv shows of yesteryear. Now that’s happy! I also am enjoying Fall, the colors and the refreshing cool weather. You are so lucky to experience New England in all it’s glory. Someday…I hope to experience the East Coast.
Just wanted to reassure you are loved, and people still crave your beautiful artwork and fabulous cookbooks. I still hope you will dust off the start of your book, “Pancakes” and finish it. I love Breakfast food (yum) and that title intrigued me.
I will always read your blog and Willards!! You are my friend. I adore your style and upbeat-ness. Do not despair, no apologies are necessary. You are beautiful just as you are.
Always,
—<—<–@ Randi —<—<–@
Hi Susan, Although I don’t agree with everything you said, I will still follow your blog and buy your books, so please write another one. Don’t worry about what people think or say, and if they don’t want to read your blog or buy your books it is their loss. Hope you had a wonderful time in England. I was actually born there, and we still own a home in Yorkshire. My family immigrated to California when I was 5. 52 years ago. Safe travels. Love, Karen
I usually read all of your posts, but because of the death of our dear aunt, I clicked off of the last post. Glad that I did! Let’s just move on & hope & pray for our beloved America!!! And that’s all I have to say about that! By the way…I am ready for another book! 😊 Safe seasick free travels! Anxious to hear about your adventures! 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
I was totally stunned to find that one of my most favorite sites has gone so political. And uses a site that is looked at as being a ray of light for so many of us as a platform to air your personal views on our country. What a shame that you cannot overlook what you fear is coming without giving the man a chance. Our country thought he might make some positive changes by electing him to be our President so instead of spreading unhappiness at the way things are going, and extoll the virtues of another country which you have just visited and think so wonderfully of, why not have more happiness, more beauty and more tea parties and leave politics out of the picture. I personally do not want to hear any more about politics. I have heard it for almost a year before the election, the people have spoken and like it or not it is our duty as American Citizens to give this elected man our support. You live in a very protected area where Illegal Immigrants are not taking your husband’s job away, where your children can get into college because they are American Citizens, not because they have come here illegally and are admitted before our children. You live in an area where most families have to buy their own groceries instead of the government giving them Free groceries, Free telephones Free Medical care, free dental care, and Internet services for $10.00 a month. I have worked all if my life to pay for the comforts I am able to enjoy and resent our government “giving” to everyone who comes here illegally and expecting me to pay for their benefits with more and more taxes.
We need to set aside all we have heard during the election process. Do we really know that it is all true. So many are paid to defame others. We need to support our new President and give him a chance. And shut off the fuel that promotes vitriolic demonstrations.
I have so much love and respect for you dear Susan.
. I pray you have a wonderful Thanksgiving and Christmas.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing all your gorgeous artwork and lovely stories.
I wish you safe travels home.
I hope your journey home is going well and soon you will be loving your kitty cat with kisses and hair band chases. Last night I think I finally didn’t wake up with some scary fear from the election. It sure has bothered me and I truly can’t thank you enough for your former blog post as common sense viewpoints seem to get pushed aside for drama theatrics instead. I say people who “pick up their toys and hurl nasty words all the way home” are those who have closed minds and ones I chose not to keep in my life to converse with so you too should let them go. You have much more happiness, creativity and wisdom to continue to brighten us this coming winter with and I look forward to hearing all about your holiday activities!
Thank you Susan – when I first saw your post, I wanted to pass it by – not being in the mood or ready for your usual cheery greetings and updates. But I read on and boy was I surprised! You voiced what was in my heart as well – I was so glad you were brave and posted your thoughts! You go Susan!
I hope you both a safe and swift journey home, Susan. Never be afraid of saying what is in your heart. Girlfriends have different opinions and beliefs, we should feel safe sharing our ideas, that is how we learn.
I say let’s just start over. You can read the comments but don’t publish or comment on the rest of them. They were for you and not all of us in many cases, anyway. By the time you get home it will be a new and festive month. Let’s wipe the slate clean!
Soooooooo happy for this post. I have been so upset that its been so long. I see why now as you could not aboard ship. I hope you really enjoyed that trip.
Sorry people are so ignorant and do not allow someone to think different than they d. You are right it did not use to be this way. I feel its because people are so wrapped up in their unhappy tiny lives they cannot look beyond. Its me me me and wa wa mommy. I do not get that. I never have and Never will tell anyone how ever vote. People will ask and i say its secret ballot for a reason. Its personal and i refuse to defend why i vote as i want. Well i tell the pup and kitty..but thats the only ones i tell. Please do not leave us here and only do twitter. I dont twitter, do not plan to. I am creating my own little kitchen windowsill with Potter figures. I found a couple at a recent flea market trip. Just think cooking, holudays, home, fireplace and ignore mean people. Its their issues and for them to deal with. Do not let them suck the joy from your life and success. We love you and have missed you so much. Go to the sea, to your garden and Pots of tea and kitty snuggles.
Warmly,
Debra Sewell
Dear Susan,
I have followed your blog for sometime now. This is my first time commenting. I just wanted to thank you for most recent posts. I too was shocked and saddened by the results of the election and the direction this country is headed. I’m sorry that some of your followers have decided to call it quits. It’s their loss! Thank you for speaking from your heart. Wishing you “smooth sailing”.
Hi Susan,
I agree with the others who say don’t use your precious holiday time reading and moderating all the notes that came in. I sent one earlier and I give my blessing to dump mine in the proverbial trash bin. Enjoy the time with your friends and family and let the rest go! This too shall pass! You said what was in your heart and your intent was obviously to help, not hurt. I appreciate your light of sunshine in a sometimes dark and scary world. Keep being you, you are a blessing! Love and safe journeys to you and Joe!
I haven’t dumped any of them, but you are a dear to suggest that very tempting idea!
I don’t think you ever got to mine either but I say let it slip into internet oblivion. Let’s start out fresh and never mind the unanswered ones!. Safe trip and Happy Holidays.
Dear Susan
Remember some people don’t know any better.
Bon voyage!
Love ,
Nancy
Not knowing any better really isn’t working for us.
Oh this made me laugh….and that is a good thing. Every time I start to let go something else happens, on my some of those cabinet picks have me worried!
That wasn’t very nice. Another comment against the women who read your blog but do not agree with your politically. We are not all Neanderthals who crawled out from under a rock to vote on election day. We have been loyal, reading your blog,participating in your Facebook page but also buying your books and products with our car learned $$. I have a drawerful of stickers purchased while they were still available, scrap books, fabric and lots more. So you can see why I might dislike being called a weed among the flowers on your Facebook page (by Candace R.) -not helpful or tolerant. Perhaps it is time to bow out and leave it all to the women who are of the Democratic party.
That was not a comment against any one side. No one thinks you are a Neanderthal. You have a RIGHT to vote for whomever you want. It’s the way we are being driven apart I object to ~ and calling each other names is just proof of it. So sorry JuLee, I know there are hurt feelings on both sides.
Susan, I appreciate this post so much. I can’t deny that your last post bothered me, bc while I am not a Trump supporter, nor was I a Hillary supporter. I would have liked a better choice. I love your post for their happiness and inspiration. Politics being brought into your post seemed to darken the situation for me. Though we have never met, you are my friend. And a friend should be able to discuss whatever they need to. And I do agree that we are a nation divided. I kept saying, “Why can’t they just say what they stand for and let people vote on that? Why does it have to get so negative, violent and ugly?” As a Christian, I believe the more we turn from God and His Word, the worse things will get, no matter who is in office.
We can NOT wait to hear all about your travels to England and Scotland!!! Safe journeys! Oh, and by the way, we were so sorry to hear about Girl Kitty. She’s very much like my Callie Cats (by your description of her over the years), and we feel sad for you. If you lived closer (we are in Arkansas), I would give you a new kitten. We have a new litter of Christmas kittens and they are precious! Love you, Susan! 🙂
Dear Susan,
I absolutely agree with Debra Henderson 100%! If this had been your blog post instead of the other one, I feel you would not have had all the responses you received?! Religion, Politics, Sex and Money were topics that were NOT discussed with family and friends at my parent’s house!?
Have you not tried the “Patch” for your motion sickness? I’ve had motion sickness since I was 9 months old – I’m 60+ years old now and still have it (my husband tried to tell me once that I would outgrow it?! What the heck does that mean, right?) I LOVE the “Patch”, I do get one of the sick effects – dry mouth – but I can live with it because I’m not in the bathroom throwing up my guts for the whole trip! What and how does the shot work? Any side effects? Might have to reconsider my options next cruise………..Good Luck and Good Sailing………..
Margie (your CA to PA transplant friend i.e., New Hope, PA book signing)
I love what you said, Debra. I love Susan’s books and blog about the joyful, peaceful and beautiful things in our lives – nature, recipes, travels, holidays, etc. Susan’s stunning artwork, photographs and quotes make her books and blog “a thing of beauty,” an escape for me from the darkness in the world. I am saddened by the divisiveness that politics brought to Susan’s beautiful column. I was brought up with the maxim that discussing politics or religion in mixed company was neither beneficial nor appropriate.
Susan, I hope your next columns can leave politics behind and get back to the beautiful things which bring us joy.
P.S. One more thought – how about starting a blog just for politics? Then your readers could pick and choose what topics appeal to us. I certainly would never discourage you from expressing your views. I just don’t want politics muddying the waters of joy and beauty.
Susan,
I loved everything you said in your MAGIC post. I have been “DOWN” ever since the election like never before. Your words made a huge difference in my psyche. I needed your comments as they were my feelings completely. You & I are kindred spirits to the max… I was an elementary teacher and now a travel agent for the last 20 years. I too am an independent. I have never felt so lost as I have with this awful man and all the hatred he has insighted all over the world. Everything I believe to be true has been shattered. I had a big cry and then your blog posted and gave me hope again. Thank you, Susan, for our honesty. It made me feel much better to know soneone else feels the same way I do. Much love, Becky
Dear Becky and Dear Susan,
I live in Canada and I’m as upset as you both have been and we are not alone. In the midst of all this there has been for me a small glimmer of light, a candle in the darkness that is an anchor for our spirits and our lives and that is you Dearest Susan. You have for so many years been our joy and heartfelt true friend and the most patriotic American it has been my pleasure to know through the pages of your wonderful life. Your postings have always been appreciated and so was the clear picture you presented about the election. I’ve decided that one way I can say thank you is to encourage you by to continue reading your wonderful postings and to order all my gifts from your company and to buy your books always! Thank you for being the most exceptional woman I know Susan. 🌹
Dear Susan: You introduced me to Gladys Taber and Nancy Luce. For that alone I am so very grateful. You also unknowingly (with all your scrapbook products!) helped me to scrapbook a memorable trip to the 2002 Betsy-Tacy Convention with my beloved nieces–the only scrapping I have ever done or most likely will ever do. I am so sorry that anyone feels free to attack you for your views, which are beautifully articulated. And I sincerely hope that in spite of the present mean-spiritedness everywhere, you and Joe had a wonderful time in England and Scotland. And that the seas home are calm. Home and hearth are waiting for you. Cocoon yourself there.
You did shine the light and it was a good light. No apologies necessary for me.
I don’t think I realized you’d be spending Thanksgiving on the ship. Fun! Lots to look forward to as you make your way home…home and heart; the best.
There’s ugliness here in the U.S. right now but, I dunno, Christmas is coming and I somehow feel optimistic, probably because I want and need that optimism so much. Wish and a hope and a prayer…
And we might get rain here in Southern California tomorrow, so that’s always a blessing.
All the best to you and Joe…counting the days til you’re reunited with Jack!
I voted for Hillary. My husband didn’t. I’ve fussed and fumed. I’ll still fuss and fume but direct my energies toward other officials for whom I voted who I expect to be my voice. I will make myself heard in a reasonable, informed way. A really-good thing that came out of this election is that I’m more aware and have a driving need to educate myself much, much better about what’s going on in my government. That’s not a bad thing; I’ve just been lazy about it in other years. The courts, Congress, the President…and the Constitution. For me for now, it’s going to start with the Constitution, which I’m going to go over word by word til I memorize it and thoroughly understand it. (It’s a long time since high school; I need the refresher!) No more blind trust (blinders off), but that doesn’t take away from patriotism, democracy and love for my wonderful country. I love America now more than ever and would never want to live anywhere else, even when fleeting thoughts of moving to Canada recently came into my mind (it was very temporary, although I do love Canada; it’s a beautiful place to visit, with beautiful people, too!). I thought I’d be affected, at least for a long time, by the fact that beloved other-family and friends voted for Donald Trump. But, it’s true, and I love this expression, ‘love is love is love’. We’ve all made sure…and I’m proud of this, in my own little circle of loved ones…to not let this election and who voted for who COME BETWEEN US. We had a talk about it; it was a conscientious, mindful decision after the election results. Your message is true and pure, Susan…let us not be divided, families-friends-neighbors. Better together in all ways; whole. We Americans are good. We are smart. It isn’t natural or healthy to hate. I’m changing my pessimism to optimism but with everything I can do to keep finger on the pulse and look at how I live, how I consume, what I’m doing so that I can be part of a solution and not part of a problem. Turn anger to action. The pollyanna in me wishes I didn’t have to think about all this stuff…life is hard enough…and I don’t have it all figured out yet, and I’m just one itty-bitty fish in a huge sea, but I’m giving it my best shot. From the smallest gesture in the last couple of days, to shaking someone’s hand to a friendly verbal hello, I’m trying. A smile goes a long way. Reach out; love thy neighbor. In four days, we’ll sit at a modest Thanksgiving table and count our blessings, which are still bountiful. My life is far from perfect…for one, I’m a cancer survivor; we all have our challenges…but I feel hope in my heart. I wish it for everyone.
Thank you for saying what you said. Last week, when I couldn’t look at what was happening anymore, I picked up your books and imagined myself in a cozy cottage on the Vineyard. I am glad to know that you and so many others feel like I do, and it’s so important to use our voices. Have a safe trip home.
Thank you so much for the letters from the classes of third-graders who had read your book. You are an inspiration to them, and perhaps they will become a generation of readers, an accomplishment that will bring them hours of joy and humor and contentment, that will enable them to leave the confines of their daily life to become anyone, to go anywhere, to dream anything, to accomplish much. Books are avenues to both learning and enjoyment. I salute you, Susan Branch, for encouraging students to read for pleasure as well!!!
Dear Susan: it’s about time you and Joe came home, we sure did miss you! And please don’t apologize for being the amazing person that you are! You are an open minded loving person and anyone who reads this blog and your books knows that. And I’m sure that I speak for all of us when I say good riddance to bad rubbish. Glad you are on your way home to Jack and all of us. Praying for a safe journey 😀Noelle
Susan,
I’m so sorry you had to endure some “not so nice” notes regarding you recent post. One more item that saddenes me. Why can’t we get along no matter our differences. I enjoyed the post and felt it addressed, in a fair way, what is happening right now in our country.
Continue to do what you do, it brings a little sunshine into our life.
xo,
Karen
Friendship is…
By Becky Maxwell
Daffodils in springtime,
And puppy dog kisses.
Ice cream in the summertime
And a cool refreshing rain.
Friendship is…
Lending a hand in time of need,
When no else can.
Of telling the truth,
Even though the lie is wanted.
Friendship is….
Wishing for the impossible dream,
And being sympathetic
when it does not come true,
Or cheering when it does.
Friendship is…
Is always being there,
During the good, bad and mundane.
Laughing, crying and
Being bored together.
In other words …
Friendship is you and I
I wrote this poem as a Christmas gift for my best friend. I believe it best describes you and your relationship with all your girlfriends. Safe journey.
Becky —-Atascadero CA
Beautiful Becky!
Hi Becky, I hope to catch up on letters this week. Cindy in So Ca.
Thank you. Becky, for so beautifully saying to our dear Susan, what I wanted to say!
Susan! Your blogs are ever refreshing to my soul! Thank you for your trust, honesty, transparency! May you, Joe and the cat children be very blessed…even if you never have time to read this!
Dearest Susan, thank you for your transparent spirit and tender heart. Thank you for the compassion of your honest voice in a season when America has been given both the permission and the model of hating out loud. Now, more than ever, we must not lose either the heart or the courage to speak out for justice, kindness, equality, and mercy. Only light and love and listening will dispel this darkness, with work, with bravery, with patience, with steadfastness. Love with your whole heart. The universe never wastes love. I am glad and grateful for you.
We should all be able to have our opinions, especially on our blog page! I’m so sorry that people are hurtful over politics. I have family members that will actually start an all out verbal war over politics…which is why we no longer discuss it. It’s so terribly sad that we can’t all have our opinions and still have folks love us!
As for your books in public libraries, I ask our collections department to purchase your newest books, when I receive mine in the mail…and they do! I have turned many co-workers on to your work. They just love your artistic talent, and the fact that you hand write your books! Everytime I set up a book display, with your books, they get checked out pretty quick!
Stay strong, your girlfriends are still here, no matter whom you voted for this month.
Sending you love, love and more love! The BEST part about this country is we ARE allowed opinions and to speak them at will. I am so glad that you gave voice to your views and concerns. Your love for this country is so obvious. We don’t all agree and that’s ok. It’s dialog and action that will make change. Hold your head up sweet Susan !
Hang in there Susan! You will be back home to that healing,peaceful island of Martha’s Vineyard where the holidays are so magical and special . Bon Voyage ! And peace- MJ
I came to wish you a bon voyage. I’d hoped all the turbulence and readers’ emotional storms were behind you. Feels like someone punched me in my solar plexus. We forget that thoughts are things, and while unkind words go out to hurt others, they must go through our hearts first, leaving darkness and spiritual damage in their wake.
I am willing to bet you’re not keeping lists of people who showed their true colors. To the ones who left because you were your true self I say: You’re gonna miss this space. You’re gonna miss all the kindness and good will sent our way through these posts. It’s okay to change your mind and your heart. Please come back. Being here is engaging in fellowship.
I enjoy reading opposing views. We grow among like-minded souls. We become better people through opposition. If a Democrat and a Republican can fall in love and stay married for years, why can’t we remain friends here?
Thanks again, SB
Wishing you and Joe safe travels! Will be thinking of you. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving.
Oh dear Susan,
Thank you for this post. I was afraid that, with the negative comments being blasted your way you’d close down your blog. You are much braver than me. I’d written to you after the first post, telling you that your words and steadied my heart, which had been half broken, and helped me realize why I have felt so awful for such a long time–way before the election. I don’t want to freeze into inertia, can’t do that because I have young adult children who need to see that all is not lost, that making a stand–but without vitriol and hatred–is important, and can make a difference. And that it’s also vitally important that we take care of ourselves so we can be there for the ones we love. Laurie above reminds you that you have a “Girlfriend” in Maine; you have one here in the Bay State too. Now, I know you won’t likely be reading much on the boat back (I travelled forth and back on the QE2 many many moons ago, returning in Nov. in “interesting weather”) so will keep you in my thoughts. But I must tell you, that once you’re home if you need to get away from everything, I have a lovely book for you. It’s titled, “Fauna & Family” by Gerald Durrell, one of a trilogy of books about his boyhood years on the island of Corfu before WWII (someone told me the BBC made a series out of one of the books and it’s currently showing, but don’t know for sure). It is beautifully, liltingly, lovingly and hilariously written; I can’t remember when a book actually made me smile, snort, giggle, laugh out loud. Very, very healing that, laughter. So, I can’t wait to 1) read your next blog with whatever it contains–and I know I’ll love the art, your adventures, your thoughts–and you; and 2) read the other two Durrell Corfu memoirs to help keep me sane. Safe journey home to you and Joe (am SO GLAD he has been with you), and I’ll see you “on the other side.” Fondly, Rosemary
They did, I can’t get it on Netflix yet though!
Susan,
Thank you so much for just being you. I admire your artistic talent and the warm words you write. Many times you have been my port in a storm. Whenever I felt the world crashing down on me your books quieted me. I’m proud of what you wrote in your blog. Yes, I’m afraid too of where our country is heading. I worry about the future that my children and grandchildren will be facing. I grew up during a simpler time and do not understand how people can treat each other the way they do. All we can do is always be there for each other. That’s what family and friends do. Wishing you and Joe a safe journey home. Happy Thanksgiving, enjoy lots of turkey and stuffing!
Girlfriends Forever!
Susan—I think your post following the election was very brave. Thank you for your sincere insight. I appreciate your honesty!
PS—You don’t have to reply! 🙂
This is not the time to be silent, dear Susan. You are so right to have so eloquently presented the overall picture and asked to your friends to “think” about what is happening. We spent the better part of September and October in Germany where people are still apologizing for what happened in their country. We don’t want that to happen here. We also spent time in France a couple of years ago. There the people, with tears in their eyes, are still thanking the Americans for saving them. I wish more Americans visited these countries and could see that happened to them when they were in a situation similar to what we are in now. God help us! We can’t be silent now. All my love!
I know, I always feel bad for the common German who very likely thought things could never get so bad as they did, and when they finally wished to speak up and say “look what’s happening to us,” it was too late … if they spoke, off they went to prison camp. And the person they elected with only 33% of the vote, tore the whole world apart. I AM NOT COMPARING ANYONE TO HITLER. (Feel stupid that I have to say that.)
“If you tell a big enough lie and tell it frequently enough, it will be believed.” Adolf Hitler
“The receptivity of the masses is very limited, their intelligence is small, but their power of forgetting is enormous. In consequence of these facts, all effective propaganda must be limited to a very few points and must harp on these in slogans until the last member of the public understands what you want him to understand by your slogan.”
― Adolf Hitler
Never in my life did I think I would use Hitler quotes. But they are relevant.
Indeed, they are relevant. History is SUPPOSED to teach us. Learning is always a good thing.
Yes, they are, Sue. Sadly, tragically, they are. So none of us must EVER stop saying them. We must continue to say them. We cannot let the same thing happen in America. WE MUST RESIST. Anyone who thinks it can’t happen here is being incredibly naive, doesn’t know their history, and is trusting of people who haven’t said or done ONE thing worthy of our trust. Many lies will be told, lies that sound like the truth – but won’t be. And it’s critically important to figure out “who will profit” and “who will gain” before actions are taken. The hardest part will be maintaining our vigilance, because at some point, people will naturally want peace & calm back in their lives. This will be the most dangerous time. We can’t ever let our guards down, or believe the lies. This Is Not Normal.
this is so true, but unfortunately in the world how does one tell the difference between the liar and the one telling the truth??? gets a bit difficult there.
Pat, that is so true. listen to reputable news and they are so one sided….listen to others and ppl make fun if they know you listen to them. Loook at some major cities in trouble…what are the policies that have gone on for 25 or more yrs…..who was in charge of those cities for decades?
What is ironic is that I read these exact same quotes being thrown around on the internet when Obama got elected.
Oh and so much more. But Obama was not talking about an entire religion being the enemy.
right you are!!!! when you actually stop & wake up to what is happening…..and/or what could, VERY possibly happen right here….to realize that it all began with BIG rallies….LIES repeated over & over & over…..in other words…THE holocaust did NOT begin with killing…it BEGAN with words….words of HATE…it really goes far to making you really WAKE UP, AMERICA. or, we could face Holocaust 2.0….wow. God help us!again, Susan….THANK YOU!!!! sweet rest on a turbulent ocean. and, yes, THAT was a metaphor. xoxo
In my business, when I had a business, I discovered that the last thing of the day often colored my perception of the whole rest of it. Unfortunately, if that last encounter was unpleasant, it ruined the whole earlier, wonderful part. Please don’t let these last few days besmirch (great word, don’t you think?) the weeks of spectacular times in “jolly olde. . .”
I have responded several times since your “magic” post and want you to know again, I am so grateful that you are there, that you said what you said, and that you love SO much. I am heartsick and it’s good to know that someone as caring as you are feels the same. So sad that there are any followers of this blog who would choose to misunderstand you.
P.S. Have changed my name because I don’t want to be confused with one who has the same name and wasn’t very nice, Jo’L who was Jo.
Hi Susan,
This is your blog after all so you can write what you want. People have a choice to read it or not. I teach painting classes in my house studio and one week we had a discussion of politics and it was getting pretty heated. Friends were angry at each other which has never happened before. Before the next class I sent out a text that we would not discuss politics again and stick to painting and our usual friendly conversation. We all agreed to that and we’ve been happy ever since. I mention this only because it shows what you have talked about in your blog about friends being angry with each other, especially ones that have unfriended you. Have they ended friendships with people that don’t agree with them, maybe lifelong friendships?
Susan, I believe someone else has said this to you maybe not in these exact words but I think you should stop reading and answering all these comments. There are way too many and for all the positive ones, you will get a nasty one. It’s just going to hurt you and cause you pain. Your goal I think was to say what was on your mind and you did it well. Now, wouldn’t it be nice to just focus on getting home, and remember what a fantastic holiday you had! Don’t let the negativity that you will find in some of the comments ruin your days. I think it will take weeks to get through all of these comments and do you really want to spend your time doing that? I will continue to read your blog, I still love you and Joe and that silly cat of yours!!!
um, no. no. no. well-meant, perhaps….but for at least the next 4 years….years, everyone….not just weeks/months….we HAVE TO be aware….be alert….watch and SPEAK. if we don,t….wow! what an end we will come to. it only takes good people saying nothing to allow BAD people to get away with BAD things.
Dear Susan,
Have a safe and restful trip home. I hope that anyone who was upset with your Election Post will relax, re-read and find that true girlfriends talk about everything. We are there for one another. Bet you can’t wait to see your kitties and your lovely home. Let me know if you can still hear the bagpipes when you’re out to sea. Will watch for Willard.
Mixed with the wind, and the lovely rocking of the boat … close my eyes, I’m a babe in my mothers arms . . .
Susan:
I’ve been a “fan” for more years than either of us would care to admit to. I am envious of your travels and your talent and now I am envious of your courage. Thank you for your election post and for verbalizing what so many of us feel– this country’s public image is so changed it’s hard to recognize. But I think there are still a lot of us who can agree to disagree and respect people with different points of view. And deep down, I believe most people are good and decent…even if in some cases, you have to dig pretty deep. Thank you for everything you do and for the joy you bring to all of us. Good luck with the return voyage!
Me too, people are wonderful. Eye to eye most of them would NEVER say the things they do on the Internet. Wow, it is hurtful! And does it EVER solve anything? No, it makes solving things more and more difficult. We are being encouraged to take the divisive messages of the shock jocks to relatively benign places … Someone writes on their blog, “I love the healthcare I never had before,” and she gets pounded with all kinds of unrelated things, like Obama’s not a citizen and much much worse than that, for only mentioning his name in the context of the barest compliment. I’m sorry I even brought up his name and said the word healthcare, there will now be a firestorm of attack here. Because the corporate media and the insurance/healthcare lobbyists are dividing us, no discussion is even possible. And our healthcare system is broken, but when one side of our governing body will not work with the other, we get a half-assed program that could have been a thousand times better. It’s true, that is EXACTLY why it is the way it is … because if they did better for the people using OUR OWN MONEY, then OUR OWN MONEY would be diverted from the pockets of the insurance/healthcare lobbyists.
Oh so true on healthcare….they could have all worked to make it better.
how true!! when talks first began about forming the Healthcare Law…I was really astonished by WHO was “in-the-room”. if LOBBYISTS & INSURANCE COMPANIES & BIG PHARMA had not been “catered to”…..if we had really, truly fought for a PUBLIC OPTION…..all would have been a LOT better. but, again, LIES repeated become truth….a “public option” became a dirty word….just check the writings (and, warnings) from a former ins. co. executive….Wendell Potter….a truly wonderful person who despaprtely tried to warn us all. also, just saying….even the HATERS of Pres. Obama & his family are going to be thinking (tho the will never say it….) wow. we miss them!!!! just wait. EVERY day….something even scarier than the day before comes out about the “new” folks coming to POWER. wow. be aware. talk. speak up. wear your safety-pin. please.
And that is the exact moment Hillary first became a Femi-Nazi. When she tried to fix healthcare…they came down on her like a ton of bricks. Vilified her, and made half the nation think she was the devil. Because of their own pockets. We’ve been so used.
YOU CANNOT ARGUE WITH IGNORANCE Ms. Branch –
Keep doing what God has intended for you –
Blessing to you and your family Thanksgiving
See, it’s posts like this that cause division and bad feelings. Who is ignorant? Anyone that doesn’t agree with you or vote like you did? That’s your message as I’m seeing it.
Great comment, if I may say, and SO TRUE. Thank you D’Anne for pointing this out. May the Force be with you and all of us! ⭐️
So if someone doesn’t agree with you they are ignorant ?
Absolute truth! Great comment!
Some people can be very closed minded and only want to hear what they want. I found your post not really politically oriented but more focused on us as people. Your post was very powerful, in my opinion, and was truly about what’s important. Not who’s in office but us remaining united as Americans. It’s sad that you write about not falling for the lies of “your neighbor is the enemy” then having to watch it play out on your comment section. Some people will never listen no matter how you phrase things. But there are many who will and I hope good will come of your writing. Your heart’s in the right place and that’s all that truly matters.
Blessings to you this Thanksgiving, hoping the sea isn’t too rough.
Susan, I adore you! It wouldn’t matter to me if you voted for Putin (!) I would still love you. Over the years you have given me joy and inspiration and lots of smiles plus recipes that I use so often I almost consider them mine! Like your Fairy Cakes and your Carrot Cake, which is the best cake in the world and would definitely win every vote of the electoral college and then Some! I’m glad you have an opinion, that you think for yourself and encourage your friends/fans to do the same…have a safe voyage, your real fans will still be waiting for you when you return! xo, Nan
If I voted for Putin, feel free to take me to the asylum.😜
some folk kind of just did. sooooo sad.
When a candidate spouts racism or misogyny, and we ignore it and vote for him anyway, we are condoning it. Even if what we really just wanted was a change. I read this quote and I know it will send some into a frenzy, but I believe it’s true:
“Whether any of us like it or not, for the next four years the 80% of this country who did not just vote for an openly racist candidate are going to treat those who did like they are the kind of person who would vote for an openly racist candidate.They can get angry at everyone else for treating them like they just did the thing they just did, or they can take responsibility for their actions and begin to make amends.”
Amen!
“The object in life is not to be on the side of the majority but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane.”
Marcus Aurelius
LOL, Mary, that is so funny! Thank you! It could happen so easily! I’m halfway there! 😜
Susan, Thank you so much for your blog. I always look forward to reading them. Your last blog was very well written from the heart. I think your writing is a wonderful way to process what has happened. Now we can all move forward in caring and love. Please keep writing your words are needed. Blessings to you and Joe and safe journey home.
Dear Susan,
I hope you have a safe and enjoyable trip home! I am trying to think positive about our country and that the new administration will “fix” a lot of things! So I hope that by the time you get home people will have accepted what has happened and things are peaceful and that the Christmas spirit will surround us all! 🎄
Amen!
I finally took the time to read your previous newsletter. You said it exactly as I wish I could. You and I were raised during the peaceful years that followed WWII by the most sensible & fabulous parents ever. That was a wonderful time in America. and we are absolutely priviledged. No money, power or position can erase our childhoods. But the discord now is real. I don’t know how anyone can ignore what’s going on and expect you wouldn’t comment on it. You always say exactly what you feel, what you see and what you imagine, and that’s good! I read a few responses you received and I can’t imagine how some of your own readers can defend the character & absurdity of this one man who has been voted (by a margin & electoral) as our next President. This is the man who is going to be the person who will represent us in the world! And it seems to be getting worse day by day. I think it’s important to say what you think & if some people don’t like that you are saying it, and on your own blog, they can go back to their fairyland of the future. This is not about change. This is about hate toward human beings and women, the disabled, religions, races; and they’re just getting started in accelerating fear and hatred in our country. Today I only want you to know I thank you for writing from your heart…and for saying what is in mine.
You are watching far too many liberal news shows that hate Mr. Trump and have taken many of his words out of context or even reporting things he has never said. Be very careful all you believe because you may be easily fooled. Yes, he is crude, but he will be a great president. Give him a chance. And he knows how to behave in public so you won’t be ashamed of him.
oh, yes!!!! ditto!!!!! BLESS YOU!!!!!
You are a brave, talented, beautiful soul. Please, don’t bother to comment…just know you are in my prayers for a safe voyage.
Love,
Vicki
Dear Susan this your blog, please continue to speak your mind. We do need more discussion not less.
Have a safe journey home,
Love jan
Safe voyage home & Happy Thanksgiving. God bless America!
Your last post/blog was one of the most up lifting and honest, from the heart pieces that I have read in recent months. Please don’t let the nay sayers stop you from expressing yourself with such open honesty. I have been following and reading your blog since your last trip to the Englishcountryside, I have visited you at a NH book signing and yes your presence shines happiness whereever you go and in whatever you write, but life is not always a bowl of cherries. I applaude and thank you for that writing, I felt it was something we all need to (read) and consider. Who we voted for doesn’t really matter at this point, the point we have to take up is simple be watchful, be loving, each of us must live our own lives in the true American way. Thank you, Susan, for being a true friend that knows she can share her inner most thoughts knowing that her true friends would never judge her or begrudge her those feelings.
I hope your crossing was bearable and that you and Joe made it with tummies intact. I look forward to hearing all about your trip and sharing Christmas time with you.
Love,
Judy
P.S. I shared your blog with many of my friends and family, it was that inspiring to me.
If only everyone could see both sides of a situation….then move on. But then you can’t fix the world . Safe home to you and Joe.
You shouldn’t have to apologize for what YOU write in YOUR blog. I completely agreed with everything you said btw. You will always be amazing! Just ignore the haters! #GoHighWhenTheyGoLow
Dearest Susan I have to admit that your last post did upset me just a little but true friends if many years love each other always. I have loved and admired you since I found your “New” Christmas Book (the year it was published so that tells you how long I have thought of you as a friend). I agree that people no longer look for the good in others, they immediately jump to conclusions and speak as loud and angrily as possible without listening to the other person who should be their friend. I was taught to love, respect and care for others no matter race, religion, etc and believe when I say this is coming from a true southern girl raised southern baptist in the Bible Belt in the 60s. I was not taught hate or angry words but love one another as yourself! Have a wonderful trip home. Ant wait forever for posts on England and Christmas and Jack! Love your friend Cathy!
Most of us, your fans, were happy to see that you posted whom you voted for. I applaud you for your honesty. Although yours isn’t a political blog, these are scary times. We must join together to fight the forces which have been unleashed. I am a proud democrat, not an independent. But many of my republican and independent colleagues and friends voted for Hillary. These are not normal times. Discretion is not called for. We must take a stand. Thank you. You do your country proud.
I am sad that you’ve lost some readers. But my hope is that you gave them food for thought and perhaps a glimmer of light that will turn into a flood until they see the scary truth. I do think you will gain some fans. I have passed the post on to several friends, as I know many of us have done. Again, thank you.
Dear Susan,
I loved your post and I’m so sorry that some of the Girlfriends MISSED THE POINT COMPLETELY. You said it beautifully, and bravely, and what’s happened on your blog shows the truth of what is happening today in our wonderful country. I’m so glad you are not giving up.
This little poem was sent to me and my brothers after our father died by our great aunt, who lived to be almost 102. She said she tried to live by it and I think that’s why she had such a long (and happy) life. Nothing ever fazed her for long, and she lived through a LOT. including being stationed in the Philippines during WWII.
I hope I have gotten it right; if another girlfriend remembers another stanza or finds a mistake, I’d be glad of the correction. It’s simple but healing.
Always remember to forget
The things that make you sad,
But never forget to remember
The things that make you glad.
Always remember to forget
The friends who have been untrue,
But never forget to remember
Those who have stood by you.
Always remember to forget
The troubles that passed away
But never forget to remember
The blessings that come each day.
Sending blessings your way….
Ann
wow. just beautiful.
Dear Susan,
They say friends are with us for a reason, for a season, or forever. Just know you have many many forever friends who respect your opinion and love your blog. This too will pass!
Hang in there, bread and chocolate are good for seasickness. Get home safely.
I just finished “Isle of Dreams” (loved it, every bit of it), and wondered what your thoughts were on this election. I’m saddened to hear you received some bad comments from your post. I, too, thought with FRIENDLY dialogue, I could talk to my coworkers about a recent issue facing Houston, the bathroom law. Boy, was I ever so sadly mistaken. I received being told off and dirty looks for stating HOW I FELT. I was not disrespectful to anyone, but that is what I received. Based on that experience, I tried not to say a PEEP about this election, which is very sad. I agree 100% with your comments above about what has happened in America and how we are being goaded into hating each other by many factions. I, for one, won’t have it! I’ll continue to search out the truth, continue to learn, and continue to respect my fellow Americans. Love you Susan Branch!!!
To quote a previous reader, “wow, just wow”. And to agree with another, I hope you are not spending any more vacation time figuring out how to politely respond to such irrational commentary. I don’t think you owe an apology to any reader; your concerns and worries are shared by millions. There’s so much I’d love to say, but if I could reduce it to one comment: I’m glad you mentioned something about where we should get our news and information (c-span). We will need to be vigilant about getting the facts from pure sources, especially now that that the top advisor that will be whispering in the presidents ear, has a particularly devious media background. Staying informed will be critical, and this is coming from someone that has never really followed politics!
I’ll share my strategy on going forth: transcend above the vitriol, go deep for self examination, be mindful of the present moment, love thy neighbor, (even if “thy
neighbor” has different political views) and SPEAK UP!
We are all made of “parts”, of shadow and light, isn’t great that we can have serious discourse about the things that trouble us AND revel in the beauty of all that we love and cherish? You are able to demonstrate that here, beautifully.
Happy Holidays!
Hi Susan,
I was looking for my comment. It showed up, but still says awaiting moderation. Don’t know if you have seen my comment or not. Just checking.
On my goodness, dear Sue. No apologies needed. For all the many years I’ve “known” you, you are not only about good, but a great woman of substance. You have used your own heartache in your own life to uplift and strengthen others. You have also made other comments about what goes on in this world with care and intelligence. Yes, you do create a happy place, but you are not an ostrich with your head in the sand. A “happy place” reflects a caring, supportive place not just recipes and pictures of flowers (which I love as well). Your distress is about your care about ALL Americans and the world at large. I have been heartbroken and grief stricken about the election results but God’s gentle message for me is to “fight back” in positive and constructive ways – for everyone. This was not an ordinary election like others. It’s a very frightening and very disturbing time. Keep faith and heart, dear one.
“Advance everywhere we can and defend everything we must.” Sen. Tim Kaine
Susan,
I admit that I was a little upset by your last blog post. But not by what you said, but because I was surprised that you talked politics on your blog. I decided quite a few weeks ago that I wouldn’t talk about or listen to others talk about the election, because it had gotten so nasty and mean-spirited, that it was making me sick. I also cannot believe the divide in the country right now. It is so sad and it is coloring my mood about everything. BUT…as usual, I just tell myself “Reality is something you rise above!” 🙂 So, because the most (and best thing) I can do to help our country’s situation is to pray about it, I just don’t enter into political discussions with anyone. You have every right to say what you want on your blog. I am sorry that people said unkind things to you, or “unfriended” you. That isnt the way to respond. We need to love and respect one another, and realize that we can still be friends and just agree to disagree. I value your words and your art and YOU! You have such a good heart, and my opinion of you doesn’t change because of your political views. Keep on being you, and keep on making our world more beautiful with your art. I met you at the Friends of Gladys Taber reunion in Connecticut a couple of years ago, and it will always be one of the highlights of my life. Two of my favorite people in one weekend!
Have a lovely voyage home, and have a blessed and Happy Thanksgiving! 🙂
I cannot believe people would unfriend you for writing your heartache. I agree with you on most everything. I cannot stand to listen to the horrible news out there. Enough! I hope you have a safe crossing and look forward to Willard and Christmas!!!! Take care.
Dearest Susan, I just love you and hope to be your Girlfriend Forever! Happy Thanksgiving! <3
Susan,
You have nothing to apologize for. Your post-election post brought light to my wounded heart and I’m sure to the hearts of many. Fear and hatred are too prevalent in our country today. When others respond with hatred it reaffirms to me that we are in a bad place. Let us all hope that love can restore our humanity. I hope you will continue to express your thoughts and feelings on your blog. This blog is a beacon of light and hope in the midst of a world lacking light. Safe travels back home and a Happy Thanksgiving.
Thanks for this post; it made me feel better. Some bloggers talk about differences and how they could never be friends who have a different opinion than their own. But isn’t this intolerance? Very confusing to me. I’m staying positive and have great hopes for our future. My Thanksgiving wish for all of us:
“May you have the Joy of Thanksgiving which is Hope,
the Spirit of Thanksgiving which is Peace,
and the Heart of Thanksgiving which is Love.”
Safe travels.
Dear Susan,
I appreciated your previous post.
Not only for your thoughts about the changes you’ve seen in this country since 1989, but your sincere concern and sadness about the turn this country has taken.
I’m shocked to hear that people have unfriended you. WOW.😳
I’ve been a follower since Willard #3 (snail mail days) and still have them saved in Heart of the Home.
You’ve always been a happy place for me.
Thanks for all the sunniness you bring to us!
Belén
Dear Susan,
I read your posts and always enjoy them. I read them because I love your kind generosity of spirit. Thank you for always sharing good things with us. Please don’t be disheartened. You are loved.
I love you Susan! I’m going to keep coming here!! xoxo Happy Thanksgiving!
Don’t worry. Be happy! Happy Thanksgiving, dear friend!
Joanne Conte
Susan,
For years when I needed quiet moments to heal my soul from the pounding we take in daily life, I turned to Gladys Taber, Anne Morrow Lindbergh and otherwriters who have the ability to calm the spirit. I just want you to know that your writing and your wonderful artwork do the same for me and I so appreciate you and your spirit and your wonderful blog, calendars, Willard and all your recent books. Love being able to take journeys with you that I would not be able to do in person. Thank you and thank you for verbalizing how I too feel about what is happening in America and all the anger out there directed towards people who are “different”. My husband and I have always taught our children to love all races and religions, and people from all walks of life.
Enjoy your journey home to America, have a very Happy Thanksgiving and know that your friends will be waiting for more wonderful “visits” with you. God Bless you!