Good morning! By the time some of you read this, I will likely be standing in line at the ships doctor to get an injection for seasickness. Yes! The ships doctor! We leave today! And word on the street is that we are, eeeek, going into 50mph gale winds and high seas, and all that other kind of wording that sends stabs of trepidation into my stomach. HOWEVER, onward and upward, off we go full speed ahead! Pray for us! Homeward Bound!👏
I got up early this morning to say good bye and because I just couldn’t leave without a quick explanation of what’s going on with my last post. Right now, there are 969 comments in moderation waiting for me to read! Shocking number! So far I’ve been able to read and comment on almost the same number, 921. Some of you that have written may wonder what has happened to your comment and I didn’t want to go off without explaining. I’m going to have to close my computer this morning, and it’s very likely it won’t work for me again until we get back home, which is a couple of days after Thanksgiving. They say there is “Internet Service” on the ship, but if there is, it’s from 1865 and only 3 people can be on at one time ~ is my experience of shipboard Internet. It also may seem to some that I pick and choose which comments to answer, but the reason it might look that way is because the comments show up, last ones, first. So if I go to bed with 300 comments waiting, when I wake up, those 300 comments are at the bottom, and 400 more are on top of them, so I just go with whatever is in front of me and work down until until I can’t anymore (because of things like having to sleep, or packing, or the frown on Joe’s face when he sees me on the computer for many hours). So that’s the situation right now. No one has been deleted, those that don’t see your comments, are still in “moderation.” And that will be true for the comments you leave on this post too, I probably won’t see them until I get home ~ and by then it will be time to get the Christmas tree, and write a new Holiday Willard, and all of this will be old news.
I will also add, in case you decide to read the comments, it’s become a much bigger discussion than I ever imagined, most of the comments are wonderful. Some aren’t so wonderful. Be careful of your heart. I suggest you go watch an old movie or cook something afterward to get rid of political cobwebs. I tried, with every good intention, to talk about how Americans are being divided, that no matter who is president, nothing seems to change, except things get worse for the middle class. I tried to say we are all upset about the direction things are going, not just one side or the other. I pointed out it didn’t used to be like this, we used to be able to disagree, and still like each other. Divide and conquer. United we stand. These are truisms to take to heart.
But as you’ll see, a few Girlfriends, who have been longtime readers of mine, even good friends, have “unfriended” me because I talked about election specifics. I probably made a mistake by telling who I voted for and why I chose her over the other guy. I was naive. I thought I could do that in this country, especially because of our years together, and all we have in common, and everyone would still like me. Don’t worry, I keep what is worth keeping, and with the breath of kindness, I blow the rest away…
My cup, I want you to know, is more than half full. From BOTH SIDES, both Republicans and Democrats, and those that are neither (like myself, by the way, a long time registered Independent), have sent supportive messages for which I am SO grateful. It does hurt to have people so mad at me. Some are upset because they considered this blog their “happy place” and for them I have ruined it by inserting politics. I’m sorry for that. I don’t intend to keep this up when I get home, but I saw something, like when I go on a walk, or make a pie, that I wanted to share with my girlfriends. I’m not asking for us to agree on everything, I’m asking us to look at what is happening to us. Families and old friends are being torn apart. Its wrong.
The photos of the women I put in that post are there to show how much we have in common. If you found out one of them was a Democrat or a Republican, would you instantly hate them? Thank goodness that has never been part of my agenda. I think we 
Americans are amazing, all of us, and it breaks my heart to see what’s happened in the last 25 years. While we have been goaded into hating each other by the rich and powerful in this country, by corporate media, fake news and shock jocks, lobbyists, and many of our government leaders, the powers that be have been getting away with murder. Follow the money, who is profiting from us not getting along? It certainly isn’t us. We’ve been dragged into two wars (unpaid for, on our backs, they made millions maybe even billions on that war), they have sent our jobs overseas, turned our small towns into ghost towns, let our bridges fall down, and let the banks run away with our tax money, our homes, our retirements. They have decimated the middle class. And where has all that money gone? Look how many billionaires there are now. Now, they want to get rid of health care, because the insurance industry, the drug industry can’t make as much money on us, that IS the reason. It’s not perfect, what we have, but neither was social security when it started. It gets tweaked. But the Congress WON’T do it. They want it to fail. And it’s OUR money. Watch how they keep taking things away from us in order to please the corporation lobbyists. And, while we argue among ourselves, they line their pockets with our tax money. It’s a true thing. But some people, for some reason I cannot fathom, do not want to hear it, bigtime. Hence, we have some rather vitriolic responses.
I am sorry from the bottom of my heart if I have offended anyone. Truly I am. I just thought I would shine my little light on this thing I am seeing. In many countries across this planet we all share, citizens are being put into prison and killed, simply for disagreeing with the people in power. It could happen here. This anger, blaming and vitriol is the first step. Demonizing the press? Isn’t that like Nazi Germany? Next comes … what? Violence? Is that really where we want to go as a nation? Is that our vision for our children? If someone tells you your neighbor is no good, tell them to take a flying hike off a rolling donut. K? OK, I’m done. That’s all I wanted to say. I love you, I’m sorry for anyone that I hurt with this. You’ll never know how much in my heart I want to help. That desire has been with me since I was five years old and I can’t help it. 💞 Wish me luck on this rock and roll of a ship. I still have lots of England I can’t wait to share with you when I get home. And Happy Thanksgiving! May your hearts be filled with the spirit of this lovely season we are about to embark upon. 
PS. The sweet letters in this post are from children who wrote me after their teacher read the story I wrote about a Martha’s Vineyard woman who lived in the 1800s named Nancy Luce . . . in case you were wondering.
Happy Thanksgiving. Rest and relax, take time off from thinking about negative comments and remember, you may have lost some “girlfriends” but the rest of us are still here to support and love you.
I have been reading your last two blogs over and over again. I agree 100% with what you have been saying. It certainly breaks my heart to see what is happening in our beloved country. The hatred, and the division seems to be gaining momentum, and what will it take to make this all go away, so that we can find the happy place within our hearts again?
I am talking with my British husband, and he has just confessed that if he had the right to vote, he would probably have voted for Trump! So I will no longer be talking to him about political sentiment.
This election has invaded our lives. Obama is talking about compromise, and of course, this would be the ideal. However, the gap is huge. It is impossible, at least for me, at this point to feel as though there is any hope. I feel that there is so much that has been sacrificed.
For me, I was heartbroken when Bernie Sanders conceded to Hillary, as I thought he was the hope for the future. Everyone, it would seem, was crying out for change in terms of non “establishment”. Well, we did get that change, although it brings an element of uncertainty, and not in the way many of us had hoped for.
There is so much healing that needs to take place on so many levels. I still believe that the answer is LOVE. We will hopefully survive this new administration. In time, however, the consequences will be evident. Perhaps your strongest critics will be seeing things for what they are. The agenda of hatred will only be brought down by the agenda of LOVE.
I think the days, weeks, months and years ahead will be the greatest test of Love that any of us has ever witnessed. I hope Love Prevails. Please keep spreading your love. We need it now, more than ever. xo
Have a safe trip. And by the way, I loved your political post and totally agree with you, but I have not told many how I feel, because I know there will be a backlash against me. It’s already happened to one of my adult children. So sad that only a specific group are allowed to express their feelings. At least that is the way it has been in my area. So, sad that many of those same people were swayed by fake news and ridicules stories. None bothered to do their homework. I believe that the result of this election will come back to bite those very people. In the meantime, I am going to keep being me and hope for the best. Kindest regards
Susan, I love your books, your calendars, your blog and every time I see a Willard announcement in my mailbox, I brew myself a pot of tea and settle in for a lovely read with a woman I’ve never met whom I consider a friend. Your words always come from deep in your heart, a heart you have shared with us for years. So many of us are equally troubled by the negativity and divisiveness in our country now, and fearful of an uncertain future. Your post was eloquent and heartfelt and needed to be said. But it took courage to say it publicly, knowing the possible fallout. Thank you for saying what so many of us feel and for sharing your talent and your heart with us.
Dear Susan,
Sometimes we need to experience those who are rowing upstream to truly see how well we are traveling downstream. Keep steering your paddle-you are on course, a treasure and inspiration. The angels are applauding you!
Love, Julie B.
Here is my 2 cents on the topic of politics and posts (just had to do it):
First penny – “He who is without sin cast the first stone”, (Jesus Christ to the men prepared to stone a woman for adultery. Why not the guy , too?). No one is completely innocent of wrongdoing. We all must look to our own heart, or own motivation for all we do and say. Isn’t it grand we live in a country where we have freedom of speech and can VOTE!? This was a difficult election for everyone. But, we will go on.
Second penny – Welcome home, Susan. Thanks for all you do for us to inspire us, to bring joy into the world and to lift us up. You’re a national treasure. I mean it.
You have said words that so many of us have been feeling. These times are becoming very scary & unsure and there doesn’t seem we can do much about them other than take care of our own & a few more that may need some kind of help. If we do good things, then at least someone is being treated better than not.
Safe travels home & Happy Thanksgiving.
Dear Susan, May you experience smooth sailing on your trip back home. I am not a particularly religious person…but I do believe in the good that religion is supposed to inspire. And so I shall say a prayer for all of the people that responded to your last post in a negative way. Perhaps if we send white light in their direction, they’ll start to feel better about themselves. And perhaps that will help them to feel better and kinder toward others. You are very much loved Susan…and thank you for all you do…
Beautifully said Susan…
Susan…… would you rather be called “Sue”?
You did a very good job in trying to explain what’s in your heart! You can’t please everyone, but, oh it hurts when you can’t. I’m a people pleaser as well and feel sooooo badly when I do hurt anyone’s feelings. Just so you know, you haven’t lost of friend in me and so many others feel the same way. Perhaps in time and with healing, those who have left our ‘friendship circle’ will return.
Have a safe and wonderful trip home. I will be thinking of you when I watch the weather reports and hope that all goes well.
Carol M
Good people on both sides did speak up, it’s called an election. Look at the election map by counties, most voted for Trump. We have intelligent people in our family on both sides of the political divide that will be here for Thanksgiving. We will not be talking politics out of love and respect for each other. I try to keep my political opinions to myself, unless asked for, because when it comes to politics, it’s been proven yet again, that everybody has one!
Happy Thanksgiving! We have much to be thankful for still. You are one of those things. God bless you and safe travels home.
Praying for safe voyage for ya’ll !! & Have a cozy, blissfull, Happy Thanksgiving !!!
Hi Susan. It’s been a while since I’ve visited (the aftermath of some pretty major changes, and well, just general life maintenance), and I have to say I am SO heartened to read this post, which of course prompted me to scroll back to the previous post.
THANK YOU for speaking your truth at a time when every voice for love and inclusion and unity is so desperately needed. Thank you for putting what is right before what is easy. Thank you for giving other women the courage to do the same, and perhaps even giving those who disagree pause to at least consider another perspective.
As I’m sure you’ve seen on Facebook, others in the art community are doing the same – some at the cost of losing fans and collectors, but not one I have spoken to has regretted taking a stand for the ideals we believe our country has always stood for. There comes a time when what is right, what is just, is just too important; when Who We Are as a people is truly at stake. You rose to the occasion and then some when you wrote that post, and even those who disagree with you cannot argue that you come from a place of genuine concern for our future.
So to you, and to all the girlfriends raising their voices – continue to lead with love, and rock on. There’s much work to do.
♥ Carolee
Susan – I prayed for you this morning in church — for a safe, smooth return but mostly for peace as you go. You are so important to us and want you to be well and return to the happiness and frolic of the holidays. God bless you for your bravery and gracious heart. I’m so happy you will be home soon.
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i think you are brave susan! and i admire you. anyone who has a wide audience and speaks up never really knows who they “touch” but i am sure it is many. speaking up in the midst of all the negative is one of the things we can do. i loved the comments from the kids about Nancy Luce… hold your head high and stand up for what you believe, in a nonviolent way for sure. thank you for your post.
love, patti
Bless you Susan. I don’t comment a lot, but I’m a faithful follower and what you wrote needed to be said. Have a safe passage home, Happy Thanksgiving to you and Joe! 🍗🚢
Kathy
Why do you, or anyone else for that matter, feel it necessary to chastise ANYONE else for the way they voted?? Do you think you are the only one to weigh their decision? Until now, opening one of your blogs was like receiving a special present. However, your political screed was over the top, unwarranted and devisive. I’m now sorry I bought your 2017 calendar and will purchase no more Branch products.
Agreed. The whole tone was one one of “I’m right and you are wrong if you didn’t vote my way.” I really don’t think she sees how it looked to a lot of us and some have unfriended on Facebook and unfollowed on Twitter. I felt I could discuss this in a civil way with Susan and did comment to her but it’s the other “girlfriends”, especially on Facebook, who were incredibly rude calling me and others dimwits and that was the mildest comment. I have never seen such vicious rude women. I don’t need it. Trump won and I’m glad but those who didn’t vote for him are unhappy and I understand. But here it seems that understanding has only gone one way. Many comments suggesting this group is better off without us. So I guess my $ or yours wont be missed.
I’m sorry people were rude to you on Facebook, JuLee. I don’t imagine you are blaming me for what others have said? I don’t believe in rudeness from either side, but I don’t monitor Facebook, although I did try a little bit to see if I could see what people were saying, but I think I must have come in too late.
I’m not chastising you for the way you voted, you have every right to vote for whomever you choose and to say why. I’m explaining why I voted the way I did. I also pointed out that with us being so divided, it probably didn’t matter who wins.
Susan, PLEASE, you have a huge, open heart and everything you write comes from there. It’s a weird time for our country and who knows why. Some eat meat, some don’t. I attend church, some go to a temple, others pray to Mother Nature or the ocean. How is it that these differences are accepted, yet politically it’s become off limits for discussion? How sad for us. Your heartfelt words of encouragement were written to remind us of what’s important to all of us, and that we’re all in this together, yet some find fault with you. Well so be it. You’re the absolute best! Thank you for all you do to enrich my life!
Hi Susan – Since the morning of the election, I have spent time listening to conservative and liberal news shows to hear what their commentators have to say. All of the commentators agreed that there were two major concerns in the minds of those who made it to the voting polls on November 8, 2016: the economy and security from terrorists. I don’t need to discuss terrorism, but I would like to reveal some statistics about three small American towns that I have recently visited and that reflect why the economy is the #1 concern of their populations. They see that the communities they love are dying, and they see their children having to move elsewhere in order to find employment. Are there racists, homophobes, misogynists, and xenophobes among these people? Of course, there are, but keep in mind that these types of small-minded individuals exist in both political parties.
1) Bluefield, WV – Bluefield, a town of 10,473 residents, boasted itself as the “Millionaires’ Town” with more millionaires per capita living there than anywhere in the nation thanks to the coal industry.
Unemployment: 6.90%
Recent job growth: 0.98%
Median household income: $35,354.00
Households making less than $15,000.00 per year: 22.87%
2) Martinsville, VA – Martinsville, a town of 13,755 residents, was a city that flourished with the textile and furniture industries. In the 1990’s, however, many of these firms closed shop, laid off thousands of workers, and left the country. Martinsville is now on the verge of reverting back to a town.
Unemployment: 7.10%
Recent job growth: -1.88%
Median household income: $27,746.00
Households making less than $15,000.00 per year: 28.34%
3) Johnstown, PA – Iron, coal, and steel became central to the town of Johnstown, and by 1860, the Cambria Iron Company of Johnstown was the leading steel producer in the United States, outproducing steel giants in Pittsburgh and Cleveland. Johnstown even survived two devastating floods, but the 1970’s saw the slow decline of the steel industry that has crippled the town.
Unemployment: 9.50%
Recent job growth: 0.29%
Median household income: $32,588.00
Households making less than $15,000.00 per year: 31.85%
The tragedy experienced by these three cities reflects what has slowly been happening to many parts of America, and during the last eight years, their citizens, many of whom were faithful union members, have lost faith with the present White House administration and saw no improvement coming with Hillary. Add to this the recent increase in Obamacare with its new $6,000.00 deductible, and the people in the economically depressed areas were pushed over the edge. Plus – the penalty for not having health care rose from $325.00 per person or 2% of your annual household income (whichever is higher) in 2015 to $695.00 per person or 2.5% of your annual household income (whichever is higher).
Those who voted for Trump saw a businessman who offered them hope.
Those who are offended by a friend who does not agree with their opinion of something aren’t really friends anyway. Not everyone believes in the same things but they can still be great friends. I don’t necessarily agree with some of my friends views, but still enjoy their company and love them. I guess the old saying, “don’t bring politics to the dinner table” applies here!
Have a safe voyage! Maybe an airplane trip home would not have been such a bad idea after all!
Dearest Susan, We are a family on here there is nothing you could say to push me out of your life. Your reasons for extending your views to us were not to hurt us you do not have it in you to be mean. Anyone who truly knows you knows your motives are loving and pure. Come home to us you have been away too long I need my doses of Susan, Jack and Joe I need you to be home baking and decorating for Christmas! Love you guys no matter what!
Suzanne C, Las Vegas
Susan, sending love from a Republican Conservative in SC. We don’t register in SC as anything; we just are registered voters. Thank you for answering my email. I am so impressed that you took the time to address my concerns as overwhelmed as you have been with so many girlfriends’ comments. Our goal now should be to learn everything we can about the people who run our country, remain vigilant, and vote after we have done our best to be as knowledgeable as possible about issues and people. We cannot overcome what has happened to our country if we are ignorant and uninformed. We cannot trust the media as we once could many years ago. The Constitution miraculously came about after much “hashing out,” bitter discussions, and finally acceptance by the people. It wouldn’t have been accepted without the Bill of Rights. Our country should be fine and our Republic protected as long as we follow the Constitution. It is what sets us apart from other countries. Love you, Susan! Get some rest, so you will be invigorated for the wonderful Christmas season.
Safe (and smooth) travels. Comforting arms of hugs and love.
Hi Susan, I hope you and Joe had a wonderful trip. The Vineyard awaits and today is overcast and gray – very cool and breezy….. that kind of weather when one knows we are headed to winter and there’s no turning back except for an occasional warm day that graces us. The leaves are down, the color of the island is that tone of gray we know for several months. Noting your comment in your post about not having a chance to respond to everyone until you get home due to the slow internet service……….. this is a great time to recognize how sweet and wonderful you are to read and respond to everyone’s posts here. It makes this blog even more special than it already is! xoxo Robin
I have so little access to the internet while on the ship, I’m really not commenting on the comments anymore, so sorry about that, but I’ll get kicked off here very soon. I think people would rather see their own comments than hear more from me, so I’m just reading and letting them go up … Thank you Robin, SO Excited to get home! xoxo
Dear Susan,
There are Christmas cards designed by you in your online store! So happy to see them – thank you! (Do you possibly remember quite a while back when I asked if you would have some Christmas cards some time? I bet you do remember that someone asked.) May you and Joe and Jack the cat have a Happy and Merry Thanksgiving and Christmas!
Hugs from your online friend!
Marianne
Safe journey – with NO sea sickness!! (hehe) I am sure you had a FAB time on your trip – now you will get home to your kitties, your warm kitchen, your comfy bed and be sure to take a length of time to settle in with simply your thoughts of “Thankfulness and Comfort.” You will always be amazing in my eyes – no matter what………you have been my lamp light through difficult times and I cherish every word you share. There is a saying that comes to mind: “Forget about it!” As your friend, and you mine, I will always trust that I can speak my mind and share my thoughts. Enough said and now turn around and be graced with the beauty of our life and surroundings. You need not leave me a message for this blog as you already did for the first one. WELCOME HOME TO YOU BOTH!!
❤️
HappyThanksgiving Susan and thank you for trying to sort through this madness.
So many of us will always love you and I hope you can take comfort from that.
If I could express to you how much joy you share and how happy you make my heart and mind….I certainly would…but my husband and I send both you & Joe our very best for this holiday of thanks. And hoping the seas are calmer than anticipated!! xoxo
Kudos to you Susan for being brave, eloquent and honest. Nothing to apologize for. Kindred spirits will always have your back! Safe travels and have a happy Thanksgiving!
Susan, you and I agree about just about everything so I guess I was really shocked to learn you voted for Hillary who has been part of the political establishment so long and has helped to make some of the laws that have hurt the middle class. Another sentence you wrote that really set my teeth on edge(and I really don’t need that with my teeth) was when you wrote we were falling slowly into another 911 because of Donald Trump winning the election. Perhaps I misunderstood what you meant. You really did start a fire, but I think it is good for us to let it out, as some of us have been holding it all in for the last eight years. Some of the comments were a little over the top and the writers are probably thinking now they should have calmed down a bit before writing them. This certainly was an election to end all elections and I pray we are not so divided that we can never come together again as one nation under God, indivisible. I would never unfollow you as you bring so much joy to the world and we need that more than ever. I believe our country will heal and we will all settle down and be happy and if not, there is always another election!
Thanks so much Kate.
When you get home and all settled, there is a new show on Netflix called “The Crown” about Queen Elizabeth’s becoming queen and all that entailed and King Edward who abdicated and all the other things that happened during that era. Very interesting and since you love England, I think you will love this show.
Can’t wait!
Hi Susan,
BRAVO! I appreciate your thoughtful and insightful words regarding the division in our country. I, too, believe we have been carefully taught to hate those who are different from ourselves. There is a sense of entitlement that is mean spirited and disrespectful that permeates from our government officials. I watched, in disbelief, as “Liar” was shouted out by Congressional leaders during a State of the Union speech by President Obama. Does anyone recall the number of government shutdowns threaten by Congressional leaders? Apparently, party entitlements and platforms are more important than seeking the common good for the entire country.
I applaud your honesty!
Wishing you and Joe a safe journey home.
TJ in VA
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You’re sweet! I follow very few blogs and yours is one I follow regularly. Yes, we are all Americans and I’m sure there are many who feel the same way you do. I think some of the anger and divisions is due to media – it’s hard to find those in media who are truly objective. The media just loves to whip us up and we need to resist that and find the good in people around, stay off FB, Twitter, etc. etc more and connect to others in real time. You show us how valuable that is. Keep on blogging! I understand if you don’t reply – who has the TIME to reply to all the comments. Hope this is an encouragement to you!
Safe travel home and Happy Thanksgiving. Happy we are all still friends.
Safe travels to you & your Joe Susan. Your blog is a bright light to me and always has been just as your books are. Much LOVE & HUGS to you!!!! Happy Thanksgiving!!!!!! Love, Laura in Waukegan, IL
Please don’t feel you have to apologize……we all have our opinions about what has been going on and the election standings. Yes…we are all gal pals here and we can agree or agree to disagree – simple as that. Doesn’t change how we have all enjoyed each others company through your blog all these years. Have a blessed Thanksgiving and safe travels home.
Gale winds here and snow flurries here in Michigan. I cannot imagine being aboard a ship, stay safe, girlfriend. All I can think of is the Edmund Fitzgerald and how the “gales of November came slashing” but that was a long time ago and I know you are safe and will be home soon. I’m sorry you were so distraught over the election. I think I can speak for many who say: Is that the best we’ve got from this country? I was not pleased with either choice, but now I am hoping and praying that God’s hand is in this! Sometimes we just can’t tell what God’s plan is…it’s not for us to understand. Years down the road I hope it makes sense. I will not say who I voted for. I think that there is soooo much division during election time. whatever the outcome many are unhappy. Thank you for showing all the faces of the “normal ones”. Let’s get back to normal. I went to my local knitting store today because I decided to knit a scarf for a girlfriend who casually told me last night, “you never made ME a scarf”….and when I got there the shop was now something else and my knitting store is gone. Talk about a small business vanishing. Funny how you hit the nail on the head. I refuse to shop at Walmart, my husband too (for the reasons you mentioned). My friend explained the slow-food movement and now that’s what I try to follow. home made food, using goods from local small farms/businesses (it’s more complicated than that, it’s kind of the opposite of fast-food). I check all labels to see if the food is made in the USA and more importantly my own state (when I can’t shop direct from the farmers markets). Together we can all make a difference. Welcome home Sue and Joe (by the time you read this, that’s where you’ll be)!! oh, same girlfriend I mentioned got a new kitty and he could be a distant relative of your kitty – black and white and cute as a button. She named here Marlena (after Marlena Dittrich because she is so glamorous).
…..maybe Joe can make another wreath that you can raffle off (or Vanna, as the case may be). that was one of my favorite freebies (not that I won, of course, but seeing all the photos of him working on it). I have been filling my birdfeeders daily and there is real flurry of activity! I saw my favorite visitor, the red-bellied woodpecker. So exciting because I don’t see him as often. Haven’t seen a junco yet; then I know it’s really and truly winter.
Susan, I loved your post. I am heartsick over the election, but I will survive, perhaps barely, but I WILL survive. What I find so scary is that even the simplest comments make our president elect a raging twit. The Hamilton cast were respectful, courteous, and polite. Mr. Trump’s comments and call for apology really bothered me. If we can’t say what we think thoughtfully and respectfully, where are we? What have we become? Keep the faith, Susan. Your loyal GFs will always be here for you. We are the heart of the home.
Dear Susan, I think you are very brave to speak your mind and please let all those negative comments roll away like water off a duck’s back. Life goes on and people need to realize that saying hurtful things to people is not how to go about changing things. Have a safe voyage home and a Happy Thanksgiving. I’m eagerly awaiting all your tales of Scotland and England. Your friend, Barb
Susan I hope that you and Joe and Petey are enjoying somewhat calm seas and a warm snug and cozy cabin. I can appreciate your last blog, only because it is so true, showed it to my husband and he said it was ” right on the mark”. I think for those of us trying to understand what Susan was trying to tell I may offer a suggestion, try renting or getting a copy if you can of a movie starring James Stewart call the Mortal Storm, it is about Germany in the beginnings of the Nazi takeover and it was dividing families and friends with their beliefs and their religious intolerance. it is a very excellent point driven home and I feel it explains best the division in this country. looking forward to your return home, and the trip. and some good news on the take back our holidays front, T.J. Maxx, Marshall’s and Home Goods have closed their doors for Thanksgiving allowing their employees to be home with their families for the holiday and they won’t be holding any black Friday sales either… they believe family is more important than profits made during the holidays. guess where I plan to shop for the holidays….. and it is not Wal-Mart, Kohls, or Target!!!! boycotts do work, just got to let the right folks know it…. see you soon Susan, and Happy Thanksgiving to you and Joe. safe voyage home. hugs… 🙂
Safe travels! My wish is that when you return to your blog on this side of the pond there will be 2900 positive comments on how much you are appreciated for all you give to the girlfriends.
I am so proud of you for speaking your heart. Don’t let ’em get you down. My corgi and I wish you a very happy Thanksgiving day and a safe journey home. Thanks for sharing yourself with all of us.
Susan,
Thank you for your last post. I must say you where on point. My priest said “the pain will go away soon, but do not be silent and continue to speak the truth with love.” This has nothing to do with parties or politics, but everything to do with love, values, respect and kindness to every person. This is why it hurts so much, because so many hateful things have been said and done to all people, and it is hard to believe some people just do not see this, but anger and feeling disenfranchised is the problem. I hate that people do not understand what they are feeling and continue to be misguided with anger. This is how bad choices are made…with anger. Think sbout the 30’s and our history. ( I was born in the 70’s and a minority and have always found that to be a traumatic history lesson to never forget.)
My father who is in his 70’s said sometimes you must regress to progress …. I hope he is right, and that we can manage our way back on track with out to much damage.
Have A HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
Wishing you and Joe a safe trip home! This will continue to be my happy place no matter what your political views are. You bring so much happiness and sunshine to so many of us!! Shine on, Susan!! You will never lose this faithful follower!
I left a comment on your previous post, but I’m sure it was buried beneath the thoughts of a thousand people & that’s ok. I do want you to know that that post lifted my spirits & inspired me to do an about face choosing to sort being angry towards those whose opinions differ from mine. I was ready to give up on old friendships & even family members, but your post shined a light on who is really to blame. I cannot thank you enough for the courage you exhibited. You are a grand lady!
Safe Journey Home!
😄❤️❤️❤️❤️ love you!!!!
Im only sorry that people are so small minded that they had to fight with people over this. I had a facebook friend who stated a ton of things how wonder Trump was. I stated that in my opinion I did’t think he was so hot. And to fast her and a friend of her laughed at me and jumped down my throat. I couldn’t believe it.. So I quietly deleted her. She later came to apologize but in the form that she didn’t her friend said all those things but she did because she commented on it.. And agreed. She says she is a woman of God which I couldn’t no longer accept. I have forgiven her but no longer which to be friends. I don’t think people really understand what friends mean.. Mama always said you have to either except their faults dislikes etc.. Or don’t claim to be friends. And I feel what ever you chose or like is okay you wr all have a right to choice of.. But in God’s book. We don’t have the right to judge and the whole world is pretty much on judge.. In my eyes it must have been meant to be our new president. We just have to accept it and move on and pray he does right by us all. But in my opinion we need to all come together because what ever happens it is going to happen to us as a whole.. Habe a safe trip my dear hope you can relax, with love Janice
You can’t please everyone,so you have to please yourself.We agree to disagree.Thats how it works in my home.And the greatest of these is Love.
Love you Sweet Sue. Xo PamKitty
Hey this is America! Land of the free, home of the brave!!!! As I mentioned, I disagreed with much of your post and I sure disagree with who you chose to vote for – but that is supposed to be the point. We are free to vote as we believe. Doesn’t mean we can’t be friends. 😊 Safe journey home. Smooth sailing. 🙏🏻
Susan, take a slow, deep breath and then smile from the tip of your toes to the top of your head. You are loved. I voted for Mr. Trump and I believe you had every right to make your voice heard. There are haters on both sides, but there are many, many more good people than haters. Now that you are on your way back to the real world from Merry Old England, I have a very important question for you. Do you call or dressing or stuffing?
Hi Shirley, I think it’s called “stuffing” if it’s cooked inside the turkey and “dressing” if it’s cooked separately, ie baked in the oven. Happy Thanksgiving.
If you lie down flat, your stomach does not get as upset (seasick) as when you are sitting up vertically. I have experienced this on a ship and in a small plane. Just an FYI for next trip!
Bed is heaven when the waves go rolling by. Right now we have a huge rainbow across the bow of the ship!
oh, my goodness! whenever I ask for a “sign” that all will be well…I ask for (AND, GET!!!!) a rainbow of some sort….now, I will certainly add your very special rainbow to my count. thank you!! oh!! thank you!!!! must say, tho…this does not negate all the other stuff I have recently added….I am not Pollyanna…keep aware, as I have pleaded!!
Dear One
My computer has been in shop for 2 wks and am now attempting this reply on a very strange little machine. Have just now read this and the last post. Friend, you have been suffering! Thank you for sharing your very honest thoughts. You are not alone. While I do not agree 100% with all your thoughts as stated, I and many others have sensed for a long time that things are not going the right direction in our country. Making things “bigger and better” can very quickly become “greed and power-hungry” and leading into policies and practices that are not in the best interest of our citizens. There are additional factors that neither you nor I have mentioned that I will not go into now. Bottom line is that I still love you, and agree that we need to be thinking and dialoguing (sp?) about these things in a calm manner in our circles with those who are so interested.
In the meantime, I wish you a blessed Thanksgiving –even with our brokenness we are a blessed nation– and calm waters for the remainder of your voyage. Love the photos of the “girlfriends.” All so beautiful; would love to get to know each one.
Keep hope –we are not adrift.
Linda
The next thing shoved down our throats will be drones. They introduce them as harmless toys, kids go crazy for them, and none of us really know how it will be in the future when these little spiders are flying all over the sky. Just like BLACK Friday … that wasn’t us that made that up, it’s them.
Susan, I live in a high rise apt and know from personal experience about drones. I was talking to a friend on the phone one afternoon about 2 months ago when a drone appeared about 150 yards away from the building. I had to stop my call and close my drapes. Talking about “casing the joint” in the 21 century!
Nightmare. Of the people, By the people, For the people. Huh? Ya just gotta wonder.
I can`t believe that so many Americans can be so angry with their own. Where does this anger come from?
We are being goaded into it.
As my friend, I feel you have a right to your opinion and should be able to share it. That is freedom of speech, whether we agree or disagree. And others can voice their option. But we should continue to love each other. That bond…that love should not be broken.
Safe travels,
Gert
I disagree on some of your politics but I would never unfriend you. It got pretty nasty on Facebook and most of the time I held why breath without commenting because I want to stay friends with my Facebook friends. A few times, I voiced my opinion when it was something that I was passionate about but most of the time, I just moved on. We are getting more divided and it’s a shame. I’m hoping that the pendulum will swing back the other way but maybe this is the new reality. I just keep praying! Happy Thanksgiving and safe travels!!
Bon voyage!!! I hope you have a wonderful trip and that this whole election/comment thing won’t bother you too much! I am so thankful for you and for all the beauty you bring into this world for us to enjoy!!!! God bless you both in this coming year!! Happy Thanksgiving!
You are a treasure. 😊
Hi Susan, I hope that you and Joe are faring well on your sojourn “across the pond”. My husband and I were on QM2 in a Force 11 storm. We made the evening news! QM2 was the only ship that sailed. It was quite interesting to say the least but we did just fine.
I am so sorry that things got out of control over your last blog. Although I don’t agree with everything you stated, I would never unfriend you. Your book about Girlfriends helped me during a very difficult time and I will always be grateful for that. You are a positive person in a world so full of anger and hatred. How sad is it when our VP Elect gets boo’d and lectured to at a Broadway show. Regardless of who anyone voted for, this behavior is unacceptable. I was with a bunch of Girlfriends of mine for a Harvest Dinner on Saturday evening and, of course, the conversation turned to politics. But, everyone agreed to disagree and we all had a few laughs. I always say the best thing to do is be the best person you can be, the best American you can be. People need to treat others in the same way they would like to be treated. The Golden Rule was drilled into my head as a child and it stays with me even now.
A happy and blessed Thanksgiving to you and Joe aboard QM2! A very safe trip home. Hopefully I’ll get to catch up to you one of these days over here on the North Fork of Long Island. Be well and be happy! Love, Karen xo
Hi Susan. For anyone upset with your previous post – well, that is what this country is all about! Every single one of us is entitled to our opinion, every single one of us had the option to read or pass it by! We all also had the option to add our 2cents 🙂 Please be safe in your journey home. Stay cozy under the covers during the worst of the high winds and rough waters. I await your Christmas Tree post.
Dear Susan,
I hope your voyage home is smooth! Thank you for expressing again what so many of us are feeling in our hearts! I hope your baby Jack is over the moon to have his “mom” back safe & sound! I’m sure you’re looking forward to kissing his furry head! Blessings to you & Joe for a Happy Thanksgiving!
Dear Susan–What did Joe feel about all you wrote in your book about your first husband, my husband would have had a hissy-fit.
Also could you please stay out of politics–I come to you for a pleasant get away from the rougher part of life.
Thanks, Pam
Hello Susan,
Safe travels to you & Joe. Looking forward to hearing more about your travels in and around England.
~I’ll have the teapot ready!
Hugs,
Charl
Hi Susan,
I so agree with your thoughts and feelings about this unbelievable political scene. You articulate it much than most and it all needs to be said. Thank you! We can only hope for the best!
Safe journey!
Hi Susan,
While I do not agree with a lot of what you shared in your past post, I do believe in the goodness in your heart, I do believe in your right to speak your opinion (and I believe my father and brother contributed to the continuation of that right by fighting for our country), and I grieve for the hurt you have experienced from the words of others. Wishing you safe travels, a happy homecoming and a cozy Christmas.
Dearest Susan and Joe,
I have read every post for the past couple of days. You are one smart, talented lady. You have some wonderful girlfriends here and I will be one of them for eternity.
I wish you and Joe a safe trip home, I am sure you can’t wait to drive down your street and see your beautiful home in front of you.
Have a lovely Thanksgiving. I can picture the dining rooms all full of wonderful scents and amazing food.
Looking forward to more photos of your amazing trip.
Much love and respect to you from me.
Dearest girlfriend. you have always been a happy place, when I am sad, I would think, I will go on Susan’s blog and escape from whatever it is that was troubling me. Thank you for being a port in life’s storms. Happy Thanksgiving. sending you a big hug. (p.s. don’t worry about the comments, we understand, you have more important things to do than read all the comments). I personally don’t know how you get it all done!
Dear Susan,
You are such a beautiful soul. You are so honest, so loving, so kind and so understanding and accepting of others. As soon as I saw the handwriting in the letters, I recognized it as if it were my own. It is funny how students do that to you. We learn from these young children everyday, we learn from their innocence, from their sincerity, from their love and from their questioning. Most of all they really know how to band together and how to unite against an unwelcome force and to defend and stand up for one another! Thank you for remembering the words of wisdom you showed my students and for reflecting their words back at a time of tribulation. Your blog is a safe place and safety means the ability to write what you feel and believe. You are such a genuinely beautiful person. Thank you for your many gifts you offer so freely! With Love xoxo
Kari, I can never thank you enough for sending those letters written by your students. Sometimes I think we should listen closer to what children want, they never fail to be on the side of right and good. Hugs to you all. xoxo
Hi Susan I found this quote by of all people Hillary Clinton which I think is just perfect for you with some of the negstive blogs and it is
“you have to learn to take political attacks seriously but not personally so that you don’t let them interfere with what you are”. Hillary Clinton
You are great and and caring don’t forget it?❤️
I just want to add I agree with a lot of the girlfriends this is your blog and there are a lot of people who feel the way you do and just can’t find the words to express how they feel I think you are very brave ❤️ I wonder what these people would say if they were standing in front of you looking you in the eye. My mouth has dropped open so many times reading some of this negativity now and during the campaigning. Safe trip to you both.
Well, I’m glad to know you are behind in comments! Makes me feel better about when I get out of control, though I don’t have 900+ to take care of! In fact, there were already so many when I visited your other post, I didn’t voice in, but want to add my two cents here in one word. Bravo. You said more eloquently and with such heart exactly the words that have been twisting inside my soul. It isn’t that I agree politically with you, though I do. It’s everything around it that seems so very wrong. As you said here, seeing a good movie or doing a craft would help a lot! I just hope we can get away from an anger that is tearing people, families apart without becoming complacent and sticking our heads in the sand. Which may be easier said than done.
So, by the time you read this, you may well be on dry land again with a suitcase and heart full of memories. Hold close to them these winter days. Sending joy…
I’m getting an hour (or less) of internet this morning, doing this as fast as I can! xoxo
I’ve loved you for years and I’ll love you forever – regardless of any opinion you have – which is your own and of which you are entitled. I also agree with you 100% and also share your worry. My daughter has 2 small children and she wonders what kind of world they will grow up in. If that is not a worry that should give every woman out there pause, I do not know what will ever be.
Take care – don’t let the negatives get you down. You are a shining light for too many.
xxoo, Sue
Former US Rep. Lee Hamilton (D-IN) said in his column in the paper Sunday that ‘we have to redouble our efforts to be respectful, compassionate, constructive’. He quoted former First Lady Barbara Bush that ‘The important thing is not what happens in the White House, but what happens in your house’. Mr. Hamilton says ‘America will survive from the bottom up – by residents working to make their communities better and teaching young people how to be good citizens. He said that ‘decades ago, in politics, we had, or at least I had, a kind of blind optimism. This year Americans were too ready to believe the worst about leaders and about each other.’ You have nothing to apologize for; you were just exercising your First Amendment right. I am in fear, although I know the president doesn’t rule alone and our forefathers saw to that. They had had enough of kings. But there is still a lot of damage that can be done to legislation regarding immigrants , LGBT rights, affordable healthcare, etc. Therefore, I pray for my country and its leaders. Enjoy your holidays and getting reacquainted with little Jack.
Yes, and the general tone, that pits Americans against each other, that’s the true nightmare.
Dearest Susan~ I didn’t agree with everything you posted, but that’s okay. I still LOVE you and what you consistently do for me in my little world…..brighten it!! If we all would just abide by that little verse that speaks volumes, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. our world would be a better place. Until then just trust in the Good Lord and keep us posted on what your doing to make your corner brighter.
Hi Susan, I too have been a long time “unaffiliated” voter and try to vote for whoever shares most of my views rather than fall for the political rhetoric of the moment. The last 10 years really seem to have degenerated to a point that you can’t discuss anything logically without everyone getting upset. I completely understand your need to vent your feelings, they were well thought out and not offensive, but people jump to conclusions. Keep up the good work, I think most of us will continue to check in with your blog when in need of a pick-me-up. On a happier note, you have inspired me to take an ocean “crossing” next summer to celebrate our 25th anniversary, which I never would have done without you!!
Dear Susan, I have come to say goodbye, which makes me sad because I think you set a beautiful table, I love your kitchen, your artwork and your kitties. (I’m so sorry about Girl.) But I cannot stand to have my thoughts taken over with mental arguments with you over politics, which I seem to disagree with you on practically every point. So I’m going to focus on my weaving, spinning, and the other things I love and enjoy my lovely life with my husband.
Maybe I will come back sometime, but for now, no.
I wish you safe journeys and peace.
Sincerely, Linda
Don’t friend stay with you even if they disagree with you do you have to agree with everyone to stay friends with them I don’t understand
This is my second comment. Still so much rhetoric from both sides, after all the reading. It comes down to: You have your beliefs. I have mine. I respect yours. I don’t see the respect for ours. In your many responses your beliefs keep being commented on and ours keep being judged. You keep saying you want to share hope for us and our country. You shared your feeling very well. I agreed with much of your post. Then you keep on judging all of us who voted different. I did not judge you. Does the debate have to keep going? The people that agreed with you are so happy. You made your point. It would be nice now if your following responses we could be treated kindly and not get more of the why of your vote. The division is still going. Left feeling so sad and unloved.
Hope your voyage is not too stressful. Safe journey. Wish I could be there when your cats see you both. Again thanks so much for taking us on your trip. We really enjoyed.
I am not judging you…if I am judging anyone it is Trump. Judging because he said one thing to be elected, divisive things, and I have no doubt, will do totally different things once he is president. At least I hope so. And that opinion, that we are being used, is my prerogative, it has nothing to do with you really. But what I am saying is that we Americans are being torn apart by the powers that be. Please read back over what I’ve been saying, because it’s important for all of us, not just one side or the other, we are all being taken for a long walk off a short pier.
Susan, I just want to comment on your second sentence. Don’t almost all political candidates say things to get elected, then don’t follow through? It seems to me that most of them make outrageous promises that they cannot possibly follow through with. Just sayin’…..it doesn’t happen on only one side.
I mean “LOCK HER UP?” — The chant of the entire campaign? The promise that the FIRST THING he would do is get an investigator? When so many of us KNEW that she had not been charged with anything, so it’s against the law in America to lock people up with no charges. That’s just too much of a lie for me. It’s not so much a lie, as it was using people with this kind of thing that he KNOWS he can’t do. Turning us against each other for his own benefit. Like his new one about Burning the flag? How many people do you know that burn the flag? Despite the fact that (right or wrong) it’s protected by our Constitution, it’s a hot-button issue that drives some people crazy and he knows it. Why would he bring that up out of nowhere if he wasn’t using it to divide us? That’s our new president.
I think you’re wonderful and please keep speaking your heart. Yesterday, I took a well-earned break from Twitter, FB, blogs, news, etc. and drowned myself in Austen movies and a British Library Murder Mystery (even English murder seems more orderly than US politics right now).
I’m feeling more refreshed and ready to WORK. Love will always trump hate.
This is exactly what I have been doing, Kathy – here’s to getting off news/social feeds trying to bring us down and lets get on happy movies instead!
Susan I am so sorry that you had to experience the fact that long time friends and readers of your books abandoned you just because of the way you voted. I experienced the same thing. My husband and I had family of all people turn against us due to our choice. I thought that was what this country was supposed to be based on was our freedom of choices to make but I guess some people just don’t like people to have a choice in things. Just remember you still have others that stand behind your choices in the world!
It’s a different America than what we grew up with … I’ve never boycotted a company. LOL, Remember when someone (I think it was Jerry Falwell) decided that one of the Teletubbies was gay (I think it was the purple one) and they started to boycott that? Anything goes! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Teletubbies
Ditto!!
We are a vast country with diverse people, Native Americans, immigrants and sons and daughters,etc. of immigrants seeking a better life, African-Americans, brought here against their will and their descendants…..all in this together. As an American, I think we are still the greatest country in the world, in spite of our problems! We could lose all this, if we allow others to pit us one against the other. In a country such as ours, we will never all agree on some issues, but we each have the right as Americans to express our opinions and I as an American need to RESPECT other’s views, as I expect others to RESPECT my views. So, it begins with me – to respect others, to treat them with dignity and to help preserve the freedoms that we enjoy! So I say, yes Susan, you can express your opinion on your blog and I agree with your right to do that!
I would also like to say, “Have a safe journey home to America the brave and the home of the free”.
Barbara, you had two good points….”we ALLOW others to pit us one against the other”. So true, it wouldn’t happen if we refused to allow it to happen.
The other , respecting the views of others. I may not agree with their views, or even have respect for their views, but I must have respect for their right to have & share those views. I think it goes to “it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it”….do it with kindness & intelligence.
Just sharing my view 😀 😀
It takes people of courage to speak up and tell the truth! Thank you Susan for speaking up and telling the truth about how far we have drifted over the last two dozen years or more. There are “powers that be” that want to destroy our nation and they have a masterful plan how to do it–and we are witnessing it unfolding right before us. I so admire you for using your “fame” to be a witness of this destruction. Now let’s hope enough people will recognize the truth and turn things around. With Love to you, Sheron (a mother of 7 and a grandmother of 22)
Right before our very eyes, it is unfolding, and we just have to keep talking about it, and bringing the ugly into the light. Love you Sheron.
My dear Susan, May I just say that entirely love you! I was heartbroken and in shock at the results of our recent election. I have not watched any news (and I am a true news junkie) since the election. I mostly stay off FB and only read the few blogs I truly love. I, too, am a cock-eyed optimist and know that time is a good healer. Here’s hoping that your trip home was a pleasant one and free of politics! ;0)
From one cock-eyed optimist to another! xoxo
Dear Susan, I appreciated your last post, it’s what most of us are feeling, this upset and worry about the hatred and division in our country. There’s no need for you to apologize or to feel badly about it. You were speaking from your heart. If you lost ‘friends’, it’s because they weren’t real friends to start with, only wanting happy happies. The world isn’t like that, sorry to say. Enjoy your voyage home, and your Thanksgiving dinner on board, relax and mend your bruised heart. Jack and your beautiful home on the island are waiting for you and Joe. And…when you are all rested after Christmas and next year, I hope we can look forward to another book on this trip also.
Susan, just keep doing what you do. I have heard of family members unfriending over this political season. Be strong. Be you!
It’s heartbreaking. I wish everyone would wake up and see how our country is being torn apart by greed at the top. We are being used.
I figured out years ago we probably don’t vote for the same political party. But that is not why I love your work so very much… and you! I wrote a blog post on my blog Sunday about showing grace to each other this Holiday season. Happy Thanksgiving (which I’m thinking will be on the ship?).
Love you Brenda…Happy Thanksgiving to you! Yes, we’re having ours here on the ship!!
You can certainly voice your opinion in any manner you choose. I, for one, chose not to read it. I’ve seen too many pro-Clinton posts, and I’m sorry, she was not a better, or worse, choice than Trump (my personal opinion) and I’m sick of so many people suggesting that she was and rioting, blocking freeways, looting, burning the American flag? Makes me sick…and I’m sick of hearing about it. There are no easy solutions.
I’m guessing we don’t know what it is really like to be a minority in this country, so it’s hard to put ourselves in their shoes. Trump’s own words have made him a very scary person to some.
Amen! Your words touch my heart. It is sooooo very sad that there are so many hurt feelings and anger over this election. I am sad because I have lost one dear friend and yet you seem to have lost even more. Sending you a hug.
You asked for prayers…you got em!!!
Sad for you to leave England, so happy you will HOME❤️
You did it!!!!! Big dream, big journey!
Welcome Home and Happy Thanksgiving!
LOVE YOU AND JOE❤️
It’s an amazing dream come true for Joe and I. I haven’t even been able to take it all in, this is going to be the perfect winter for that! Thank you Patricia!
Wow! So sorry about the backlash to your heartfelt concerns about our country. What the hell is wrong with people who cannot understand the 1st Amendment. I share so many of your sentiments and I fear for the world. BREXIT is another example pf nationalism gone mad and France may be next. PLease take heart that over half the voters voted for Hilary, and we can promote a progressive agenda. Look at Bernie’s new book and Nicholas Kristof of the NY Times essay on a 12 step program to survive the election. Take care, my friend, and know you are loved and appreciated. From one Anglophile and American patriot to another, remember joy is an act of defiance.
Deb
We will keep trying and stand together…to conservatives that read this, it doesn’t mean we stand against you, we stand for your right to vote for whomever you like … we stand against the lies and manipulation pulling us apart via corporate media. We are being used.
one thing I must add….in short, due time…we will realize how valuable a free press really is. watch. listen. read. when that neo-Nazi (cause THAT is what they are..).held a “victory-meeting” in dc….and, that young fellow used actual german phrases in his speech….wow….SCARY is not enuf of a word for it….trump DOES NOT LIKE a free-press, and, in short, due time that will be very obvious to ALL. if you don’t keep aware…you won’t see it coming, folks. I highly suggest Nicolas Kristoff and Thomas Friedman to keep you aware. I really do fault a lot of the media….they really DID “make” trump. showing lots of his “exciting” rallies…..but, ask yourself….where have we seen that before??????hmmmm.
Debra, from another point of view, it could be the progressive agenda that is frightening to many. It might not be a good thing….
This is the Progressive Agenda as I know it.
Dear Susan,
Thank You for speaking your heart. Many of us woke up to a nightmare after the election and just getting through the next couple days was an accomplishment.
Expressing your feelings by writing is a wonderful release. We will continue forward and many of us will try to do some kindness every day because good
supports the spirit. Continue your wonderful work and if becoming political is part of the picture so be it!
We all must be comfortable in our own skin, what others say is not our concern.
Peace,
Kathy
Susan–Wow. Well, it is your blog, so you can say what you want, and I sure didn’t have time (or energy) to read every word of what you said. I am a conservative, and I voted for Trump. He was not my choice for a candidate, but the election was not about me. It wasn’t about me “feeling good” about who I voted for. It was about me fulfilling my obligation and voting for which of the two candidates (who had a chance of winning) who would better represent what our country was founded on–life and liberty–both of which we are losing under President Obama, whether you choose to believe that or not. And the fact that I voted for a man who has “groped” women in his past…are you KIDDING me?!?! Do you know about the Clinton’s, Susan?!?!?!? But putting that aside….I love America. I love the values it was founded on. And my vote went for the one who I think has a chance of bringing those values back. Not someone who wants to allow every single person in, unvetted and unaccounted for. Not someone who wants a “European” America. And you know what? I was extremely disappointed and upset when Obama won– twice! But guess what? That is what happens in an election, so you get over it–like adults–not being sore losers like people are doing now! What is happening now– the rioting and hate…you go back 4, 8 years…there was not rioting and hate and flipping people off and starting fires! I’m not going to change your mind–or anyone else’s. I’m happy that Trump won…I am very pleased with the potential cabinet members he is talking to, and I have a lot of hope for him. But we live in a broken world, that is not eternal. So I will keep on praying for our country and for our world.
I know you won’t believe me but I never voted for Bill Clinton. But what difference does it make, he wasn’t running, Trump was and he did that and said many other things so repulsive to me that despite the fact that we didn’t have much choice, for me, I couldn’t go there. But even if Hillary had won, this business about “No matter who we elect nothing ever changes,” would stand. Divided we fall. The rioting and hate you speak of has been going on the entire time Obama has been in office … that he wasn’t born here, that he’s a Muslim, that he hates America, called a Liar during the State of the Union Address, that anyone who voted for him is an anti-American baby killer, and so much more. All lies used to divide us. And it worked. Congress didn’t even TRY to work together on our behalf. It’s US that’s causing this, because we believe the lies, and allow them to get away with it.
Susan, I could really debate you on this comment….but I won’t. It would be interesting to have a calm, face to face discussion with you about it! We’re only five years apart in age, so we can’t be THAT different……(can we?)….;)
Not really, not in the things that matter. I bet you want your children to grow up in a safe and sane world, with clean food, clean water and an inclusive government that works for the people (since we are the ones paying for it). Me, too.
wow. wait & see. where have we seen that before????hmmmm. and, just saying….when President Obama was elected….that was when this hate-frenzy REALLY took off. now, “they” had an “excuse”. wow. do keep praying.
Dear Susan
This is the first time I have ever posted on your blog before (I don’t have Facebook). My post is so far down the endless list of commentary but I just had to tell you thank you for being so brave and so honest. No matter what people feel about the election, they should be able to see the goodness in your heart. I know I could. I’m so sorry you have had to endure such painful barbs. I know it must sting. It hurts me just reading them. I hope our country can come together but to be truthful, I am scared. Thank you for being a beacon of light Susan Branch.
You are such an inspiration!! Sometimes I just want to say “get over it” to all those who continue to use the internet and all the social media to put others down. Anyway, no unfriending going on here. I enjoyed meeting you on your book tour for “A Fine Romance” and cherish my picture of us. Blog on!!
Dear Susan, I don’t care who you voted for. I’m sick of all the nastiness too. I’m for spreading love & kindness. Holiday season is time for random acts of kindness to perhaps people who are different from ones self. So that is what I choose to do.
I have a giant 6 mo. old, huge orange striped tabby here competing with you for attention. His name is King Henry (no relation to the nasty one), and he’s just amazingly sweet. My constant shadow and bed mate. (down on my feet) Kisses to your sweet boy when you see him.
I hope the Dr. fixes you up and the crossing goes well. Pray for me too, as next week I’m having a huge operation on my spine & I’m quite nervous. Hopefully I will still walk after its over.
Please don’t publish all the old comments, they should be private. Let’s all have a wonderful holiday season with baking, decorating, friends, family, love & kindness. Let’s all pray for peace to come.
I could really use a few handfuls of kitty fur right now! Won’t be long…I’ll get some on Saturday! Thank you Holly!
I wish you a speedy recovery on your surgery next week. Spine surgery is always scary. Happy Thanksgiving.
Oh Susan, have tried to read through some of the comments on your last post but could not get very far without feeling very hurt for you and for your loyal friends/readers. I totally got what you were trying to portray in your first post. I think it is so sad that we live in a world now where people cannot express the feelings of their heart without it being stomped on. We don’t all have to agree about things. This great diversity which exists in the world is what makes it so beautiful. It is only when others try to impose their wills and agendas on other good people that it becomes ugly. I have loved you and your work since the early 80’s. We have grown up together. I will always love your work. You keep being the sincere, honest and beautiful girl we all love. Let the naysayers fall away. You will have lost nothing but a bit of negativity that we could all do without. I hope you are coping well with the journey across the sea. I know the weather has been just dastardly. It is my deepest regret that I was unable to travel down to meet you when you were here in the UK. My husband’s recent diagnosis of Cancer has really thrown me and us for a loop, but we will survive! I am determined. Try to rise above the meanness and just keep on being you. Those who matter will always love you. (Did I just say that? YES! I did!) Love you to bits. Happy landings and welcome home. Lets all enjoy the holidays. xoxo
Thank you Marie, it is heartbreaking. There is no reason that we are hating our neighbor, but the powers that be are having a field day by making half of us the enemy. I’m doing fine out here in the huge dark ocean! It’s just dawn, I have a bit of internet this morning, so I thought I’d peek in. Almost 1300 comments still waiting … feel so bad I can’t do them all. Stay strong Marie, blessings for you and your husband, happy landings for us all. xoxo
one at a time, dearest Susan. one at a time. we NEED you, in sooooo many ways. never more than now. never. it really does help…..hopefully it doesn’t hurt tooo much. I know…I am being selfish…but, as I always say: thank you!! oh!! thank you!!!! keep safe & cozy!!xoxo
Lovely to think about you and Joe on board a big ocean liner and soon being home with your cats and welcoming home. I am not ever unfriending you, even though my comments were among the disagreeable ones. I (again for the third year) made your yummy fruit compote for Thanksgiving, which we celebrated early. I could see your pretty script and delightful art work in my mind with every bite. I will look forward to stories of England and —- anything else you want to share. Promise.
Thank you Gayla, for not unfriending me. I really hate that. 😘
Dear Susan,
I am not an American nor do I live in the US so I probably am not entitled to give my opinion, but this is an issue that affects people all over the world, not only in the US. I read a few of the comments on your post and just wanted to tell you that people around the world feel like you do and that I think you are a corageous and kind person for speaking your mind and writing what you did; everything you wrote makes all the sense to me, and I am sorry for the negative comments of some of your readers. I wish you a happy and blessed holiday season.
Hi Susan ~ To quote a woman I greatly admire, “when they go low, we go high”. I don’t know when or how we’ve become such a divided nation‼️ Constructive discourse seems to have gone the way of so many civilities… it’s awfully sad, as well as destructive. I’m heartbroken that so many of your lovely girlfriends have felt they can’t continue their relationship with you and your blog friends. But every one of us has a path we must journey… best wishes tho those of you who feel you must follow another path. Peace and Love be unto you❣️
Wishing you, Joe, and Petey a safe water journey home ⛴. Indeed, “there’s no place like home” 🏡. Oh, and hope you don’t have to spend too much time in line to see physician!
In Love and Light ~ Lois🐾🐾
P.S. I so enjoyed reading the letters from students. Gives me hope, on so many levels. I’d love to share my story about my great-great grandma, Nancy Luce, with you sometime. She, too, had chickens and has an amazing story of journey, loss and strength.
In Love and Light ~ Lois🐓🐓
A different Nancy Luce? I’d love to read about her and the chickens, Lois. 🙂 I bet a lot of us have chicken stories.
Sylvia
What if it turns out to be the SAME Nancy Luce???? What a happy coincidence that would be?
Never Explain
Your enemies won’t believe it and your friends don’t expect it.
We have all been lied to for so long, we sadly don’t know what to think most days.
I loved everything about this and also, your previous post. We should all feel safe to discuss things that matter to us with our girlfriends, and others we love. It’s a scary time when we are afraid to speak our minds for fear of recrimination, hate or rejection. What a slippery slope that is. Thank you for shining a light on an important issue and doing so with grace and love and care. Safe travels back home to us in the beautiful USA and Happy Happy Thanksgiving! We all have so much to be thankful for in this incredible country we are blessed to live and work and love in. xo